in my opinion i think every girl is a lesbian at heart. lol. or at least curious. i know i was about it. women are the best people in the world to have sex with. i would never have a relationship with one of us. we are too demanding. so my hat is off to men for dealing with us ( or other women). so no you are not crazy. i also would want my experience to be alone and without my husband. it will be amazing and you will probably be nervous. You will have no problem finding somebody. trust me there are places to look. bars are a good place. just make sure you really want to do this and you are comfortable with what ever you decide. this is a major decision in a marriage. well good luck and i hope you have fun.
2006-11-03 05:12:49
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answered by meg10_82 2
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Yes, Yes your crazy for considering this. Why on earth would you even get married if you want to play the field too. And do you really think your husband will not want to join the fun at some point, why else would he agree to it, or will he find someone for him since you did it!
You are inviting trouble of all sorts and in the end you'll regret it and can never go back.
Marriage is meant for two sharing, loving, respecting and honoring not playing house and the field at the same time. To consider this is saying that your not really happy being married and intimate with the one you loved and married.
Imagine when you have children would you want them to find out.
2006-11-03 04:08:38
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answered by trojan 5
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If you're curious about being with a woman then do it for you and not for him. How is it a turn-on for him if he's not in the room? If you have to travel far, far away to do this then it's obvious you are more uncomfortable with this than you think. Ask him if he'd consider being with another man or if he's ever been curious about that. Tell him it would turn you on and see if he'll do it. If you do this, I quarantee your husband will want to have a threesome. This is just his way of getting you ready for what he really wants to do down the road. I think he's sick. If you do go through with this then I would suggest the Moonlite Bunny Ranch in Vegas. I sometimes watch the series on HBO and I've seen couple come in there who are curious. At least you will be in a professional place, a lot safer and not worry about disease. I still thinks it's sick though.
2006-11-03 03:58:23
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answered by Italionaire 3
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I also considered being with a woman in the past, though I never did. The idea of it was exciting to me, but I was never really sure how to go about it either. Plus, I always figured any woman that I would find sexually attractive would have no interest in me. (I always wondered if that's what men feel like) I have had a couple women show interest in me but both were close friends who I had no physical attraction to and therefore nothing happened. I had decided that if it ever happened it would have to be with a good friend of mine who I was attracted to and cared for or like in your idea someone far away from my everyday life who I would have the option to never see or speak to again if it turned out really awkward. I am married now and my husband and I have both agreed to never have sexual relations with another person same sex or otherwise...... Good luck with whatever you choose, just make sure you do what you really want......no regrets!
2006-11-03 04:01:04
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answered by Anonymous
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1 - To each person their own, and if you and your partner are both willing then who am I to call you crazy.
2 - Would suggest that you possibly try either a gay bar or an escort service to meet up with another female.
3 - Uncertain of number of woman who are that willing to try and do this to please their man but am certain that you are not alone. This is a big world in which we live.
I do not understand however why your husband wants you to experience making love to a woman and him not witness it. This is a very unselfish act if that is what he wants. But if he wants to be able to view you with a woman than being away from home would certainly make a lot of sense.
Good luck and think over what you are proposing to do very carefully. There are a lot of dangers associated with this type of behaviour as well as excitement.
2006-11-03 06:05:28
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answered by crazylegs 7
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Be careful! You should be less worried about your neighbors finding out than the possiblity of getting involved with someone dangerous or diseased.
Have you thought of just leaving this as a fantasy that you share with hubby? Maybe making up an entire situation that never actually happened and running with it.
I wouldn't seek out a person in a rush on a vacation. That's just crazy stupid and asking for trouble. Maybe just let it happen, if it's going to happen naturally with someone you meet and trust and have the right feelings for. Until then, just keep it in the fantasy phase.
2006-11-03 04:02:37
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answered by BParker 3
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I dont think ytou are carzy for this, there is nothingw rong with being curious. I am sure finding someone will be easier then you think esp if you are on holidays. I think you need to tink this through .. thikn of will this change your relationship with your husband for the better or for the worse? Is this a stepping stone, I know he said he doesnt want to be in the room this time ... but will he ask to be in another time when you are more comfy with this situation. Just consider all sides of this and make sure its what you want.
2006-11-03 04:18:42
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answered by starnickel 2
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I don't think your crazy at all but i worry it may effected your marriage even if he suggested it. Also i would not know how to find a girl like that but i guess in a gay bar would work or just asking. I find most woman are not into this as it is more for the guy then the woman and but for me one is enough and i want her all to my self so i may be selective to.
2006-11-03 03:59:37
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answered by Anonymous
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If this is something that you both want then go for it! Is it weird? I don't think so. Everyone has there own curiosity and urges and with you "planning" this out with the consent of your husband I don't see how anyone is going to get hurt.
I'm sure once you get to where you are going to "vacation" there will be plenty of women that would love to take you up on your offer!
Have fun and be safe!
2006-11-03 03:57:43
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answered by Anonymous
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if you love your husband than yes you are crazy for considering this. you are willing to give your body & spirit up to some woman you dont even know? and just to please your husband? I dont know, it sounds like maybe you dont really want to do it, you just want it because your husband does. If it's something you're really into, then go for it. But if you're happily married & in love with your husband then i'd just leave it alone. Let it be a fantasy in your head. I've learned that fantasies aren't fun anymore once they've become reality.
2006-11-03 03:54:28
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answered by Anonymous
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