2006-11-03 03:44:54 · 59 answers · asked by bewildered 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Absolutely! Everyone needs space and everybody has irratating habitats and pet hates. Doesn't mean you dont love them to bits though. No one is perfect but as long as you want to be with them more than you find them annoying, that usually works best!!!!
2006-11-03 03:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. In fact it happens more often than you can immagine. The trick is in learning how to deal with the situation.
Analise what it is that anoys you so much and don't be surprised if it's more than one thing. List them in order of the most anoying to the least. Then list why it anoys you so much. In many cases we are anoied by things we ourselves are insecure about or that is against what we believe.
If it's an insecurity problem only you can change your insecurities and you'll have to work on the problem from within yourself. Do this one step at a time. Seek theripy if you can't over come it alone. And don't let anyone tell you that to seek theripy means your're crazy or something. Theripists are there to help you help yourself and they do not authorize, perscribe nor administer medications. You should also discuss your insecurity problems with your loved one and request their assistance in overcomming the issues.
If it's due to your beliefs then you need to discuss this immediately with the loved one. If your loved one doesn't care about your spiritual beliefs you may need to rethink the relationship. A husband/wife, fiense/fiense' or serious boyfriend/girlfriend relationships needs to give and take on both sides. Your God should be placed above everything in your life.
Open and honest communication is always the best to have in a relationship of any kind. If the one you love truly loves you they will help you, not condemn or make fun of you.
God Bless and good luck.
2006-11-03 06:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Warrior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately.
If it is only sometimes not all the time that is.
Everybody needs their own space at intervals.
You can love someone so much that you would die for them, but occasionally, especially after a cr*p day at work, you could quite easily put their head through the television screen.
It's normal for heaven's sake. There isn't a couple alive who doesn't feel like this sometimes.
Take it easy on yourself. Go for a walk or plug headphones in and play your favourite music really loudly, or whatever floats your boat. You will feel differently after half an hour or so. And if you don't, then you know that this relationship isn't for you.
Good luck. :-)
2006-11-03 04:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes,
Having been married for 17 yrs I love my Hubby but sometimes could throttle him!
He used to be in the Army and be away a lot so I got used to doing things on my own, I find if we spend too much time in each others company we argue more, as we end up stepping on each others toes !
Usually it is resolved if he goes away with work for a day or two, and we both get some space, then everything is fine.
2006-11-03 03:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by flossybean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, you cannot be around that special person all the time and at times you probably would like to throw a real house brick at them they can and do move you distraction.However, if you really love that person you cannot be away too long and when they walk in a room the colour changes and the room light's up.
2006-11-03 06:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can.
love is a very big thing. and some say its just on the opposite edge of hate.
anyway wont go into that.
just going to say that soemtimes you lvoe a person so so so much but need to beaway from them because of could be several reasons.
e.g.
you need some time alone.
you spent to much time with them.
you could even love them so much that being around them is tiring as you cant do much else other than love them. lol.
its true honest these things can heppen.
well, good luck as you go.
2006-11-03 05:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by *~sWeet~DReAms~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-03 04:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you can. I think that what you need to do is make sure that you both get some ALONE time away from each other. But also remember that if you truly love someone you have to overlook the things that they do that drive you totally crazy. Lord only knows I think that we all have to do that from time to time.
2006-11-03 04:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by lookingfor_mrrightnow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My boyfriend and I love each other but when we argue we spend a few hours or a day without each other.
Arguments and spending some time without each other sometimes can be a part of relationshi. You can learn from it, to make your relationship a better one.
2006-11-03 05:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by ono 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all people in relationships can stand to be around each other all the time. I would kill my man if I had to be..lol.....And I'm sure he feels the same way. It doesn't mean you love them any less but you should each be able to have some sort of independence...
2006-11-03 04:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋