i found a girl that i have seen hundreds of times but she can only come like twice a month to church so when i saw her i asked her to come to this bonfire thing and she said sure so then i told her i liked her but sshe changed the subject anyways we hung out and she sat next to me four times in twenty minutes!!! she is three days younger than me literally. we are both 13. oh she has a twin brother and two weeks ago i told him i liked her and he told her that "one of his friends" liked me i am his friend so... she guessed it was me. at the bonfire there was this hayride and she sat with me going and coming. what my problem really is i guess how do i ask her if she likes me oh i can't date till im 18 and my parents know i like her and they sorta tease me about her. did i mention that my sister likes a guy named taylor and i like a girl named taylor... wierd. so just give me the best advice you can so have a nice day thank u al.l she is a strong christian and beautiful its not puppy love!
2006-11-03 03:49:04 · 13 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do i ask her whether or not she likes me
2006-11-03 03:53:28 · update #1
i really think she likes you I can remember back to when i was 13 i would have never sat near a guy if i wouldn't have like him maybe shes afraid to tell you that she likes you to for many reasons maybe her parents don't allow her to have b/f either and by telling you that she feels like shes going against her parents wishes ..........i would just talk to her and let her know that you like her but that you cant date till your 18 so your not pressuring her and nicely ask her if she was 18 would she have dated you ? see what she replies back and if she doesn't answer then ask her straight out if she likes you back ...............good luck and god bless its nice to see that theres young men out there that still go to church and respect there parents keep up the great work .............
2006-11-03 06:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't date until you are 18, then why do you need to put the mark of "girlfriend" on her? Why not just enjoy her company and being friends with her when you see her at church functions? Tell her that you think she is a beautiful person, inside and out, and that you really value your friendship with her. And, if you still like her in that way when you are 18, ask her on a date.
2006-11-03 03:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, thats so sweet. You are a bit young, and you may not see it as puppy love but i reallya think it is. I wouldn't pressure the situation yet. Dont ask her if she likes you yet. Get to know each other, be friends. Hang out some more, kids now days are paring off too young.
2006-11-03 03:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by spiritfilled_daughterofzion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can't date until you are 18 what's the point... talk to your parents first. If they approve of the girl maybe they'll let you date earlier and THEN you should worry about talking to this girl.
BTW 18 is a bit much for dating these days your parents really should think about moving it at least to 16.
2006-11-03 04:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow. You don't need to "grow up" like the others have told you. This IS growing up. You have to learn some of these things for yourself. It sounds like she might like you a little, but don't get too caught up in it or you will get your feelings hurt. In the future, don't tell her you like her, its never a good idea! Don't tell anybody else either, unless its a really really good friend!
Good luck!
2006-11-03 04:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by ka250 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand. If the guy hit the lady first this is undesirable, beat his butt. If the lady hit the guy first....eh. It particularly does all stem back to the full adult men being greater suitable,greater suitable,harder,regardless of. yet. If human beings did no longer observe yet, seems are very deceiving. the lady could be a ninja murderer for god's sake and attempting to slice the undesirable guy in 0.5 yet all of us is like...do no longer hit her!!! i'm particularly sorry with reference to the double usual fellas, i individually am.i did no longer lead them to. i'm a female too and regrettably fought some boys until eventually now. i'm no longer happy with it in any respect because of the fact they weren't quickly in any respect. They hit complicated. definite. yet they weren't waiting to snatch me. in addition they began it, I never initiate something with every person and experience such as you need to preserve your self against every person keen to violate your individual area.OR get some pals of the comparable gender as your attacker and characteristic them kick their butt for you. that's what I did while different incidents like that befell. you do no longer ought to hunch to their point the two.
2016-10-15 08:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about dating they can give you more info than anyone else but if they ask why just tell them about your crush..........they will understand cuz they were young once to and went through the same thing ............ anywho.............those of that are tellin him to grow up, go die, he doesnt deserve to be scorned just because he has his first crush...............oh and get to know her, most girls like a sensitive guy that is willing to listen :P
2006-11-03 06:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have a crush on her you gotta get to knoe her first be good friends with her by then you will be able to date. until then man chill out you're too young to be dating.
2006-11-03 05:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2006-11-03 04:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by laChick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Advice on what? All you did was tell a story.
And why aren't you at school? Go to school. If you are in school, then pay attention and learn something.
2006-11-03 03:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by jwb674 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋