if a man is married and him and his spouse aren't getting along?

Question

how long before the man thinks about going out for sex with someone else

Answer 1

I think a man thinks about cheating whether they get along with thier spouse or not. It is another story if he acts on it. It is rather sad if you ask me that everyone has to worry about their spouse cheating on them.

Answer 2

If he was a REAL man he wouldn't act on any thoughts of cheating. In a married relationship, if one or both partners are unsatisfied those issues need to be talked about and resolved. The resolution may be to work through their problems and stay together, or to become seperated, or to get a divorce. There should be no thought of having an affair. It is completely unfair to that person's spouse, no matter how bad the marriage may be. And if the couple decides on seperation, then there needs to be a discussion about seeing other people so that both people in the relationship are on the same page and expecting the same things.

Answer 3

Men think about sex almost constantly. Probably, right after the said man and woman have an argument, the man probably "thinks" about going out for sex. Remember though, thinking, and doing, are two entirely different things. If we were to all be honest, we have all "thought" about doing things. We've all, at some point in time, had our little "what ifs" and "fantasys". It's how we react to these things. Hopefully, the married man would think about it, but not actually do it.

Answer 4

You cant run away from your problems. And running off to have sex with other women in your situation is not an answer to your problem. Once you are married, you must learn to get along with each other because the I do, I do you said on the alter of God isn't for fun and moreso, you two are one body and so, work out your differences and don't run off to another woman to commit adultery in the name of not getting along with your spouse. A man who cannot tackle the problem in his own home can never be a leader.

Answer 5

Why must he leave for sex? Just because a husband and wife are not getting along does not mean that they are not getting it on.

Remember a thought is just that. He may think about, but if he is strong minded he will cast that thought down. Know that sin is so short lived. At the time one may be led by their emotions, and if he or she is angry they need to relax and realize that going outside of the marriage did not solve anything. The problem is still there when the cheating is over. Later

Answer 6

Even if your getting along but it isn't as great as it was at first, your mind will start to wonder, I wonder how so and so would be like. I think it is the animal instinct in humans, you get a little tired of the same old thing everyday. I think children come along and your spouse doesn't look as good as she use to even though you still love them , it just isn't the same. I think women are usually so tired after a long day at work and then you come home and have another job taking care of your family, and they don't take care of their looks like when you first married and mind starts wondering

Answer 7

If you are a married man and thinking of cheating then you are going against your vows and the lord. If it isn't working out then you need to talk to her and see what you guys can do to better the relationship. If you still can't seem to fix things then you would need to seperate or divorce. If you are thinking of having sex with someone else then that isn't good. Don't cheat just leave instead, why hurt someone like that.

Answer 8

I think that if you are not getting along then you need to try and get along try and work it out before you ask when you can cheat on your spouse that is completely wrong I don't care how hard it is at home there is no reason to cheat you remember you married for better or for worse.

Answer 9

It is understandable that men are more polygamous than women. So men must restrain themselves from cheating. But polygamy is not cheating. Polygamy is a man having two/three/four/more families to take care of. He can only be polygamous if he is just and kind. The wife (wives) need to know to make polygamy work.

To answer your question, I'd say 3 -4 months for men, and 6-8 months for women.

Answer 10

I was raised to believe that if you have somebody, you don't cheat. Period. Doesn't matter what's going on in the marriage. If you have problems, you do whatever you can to work them out. Sadly, the reality is that most men do cheat. They should learn to be happy with what they have at home and appreciate her. With the way the world is today, with all the porn and strip clubs, it's no wonder people aren't faithful. It's a shame that more than half of all marriages fail.

Answer 11

I would say this depends on the man each man is different. If i for example was not getting along with my wife i would never go looking no matter what but that's me. Loyalty until death! If your married it should not matter there is no reason to cheat and if there is you need to divorce.