I have tried very hard to be kind and to work on making my daughter's father (an ex-boyfriend of mine) a part of her life. He lives in another State, but I send photos, videos, updates, try to visit, etc. I did not sue him for support, but he will pay trips if we go out to visit. But, I always am the one who plans the trips. Other than that, we never hear from him...not a "hello", "how is my daughter?", "thank you for all you do", nothing. Anything he knows about our daughter, is because of me. Last we saw him was 5 mos. ago and not a word since. He also has never made an effort to introduce her to his family (I did take her on my own to meet them, but she didn't get to meet everyone). I feel like he is ashamed of her or like he just doesn't care. I am so tired of his apathy and lack of concern for her. People say "oh, that's how men are." To me, that is the lamest excuse for poor behavior, indifference and does not justify bad parenting. Is it worth keeping him in her life?
2006-07-07
08:31:14
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