Why do some people act so rude but thay think there acting nice?

Answer 1

in what context? I think it's just ignorance mainly, and non understanding of the situation they are commenting on. Also they say things they beleive will make you feel better because they don't know what to say, not because they are being rude.

I went through this after I had an ectopic pregnancy. People saying things they think will make you feel better when in fact it's the complete opposite.

I'd rather they said nothing to be honest, wait until Iask them for their opinion.

Answer 2

Sometimes you have to be tough to teach somebody a lesson or the right way to do things, since being nice obviously doesn't work anymore.

Answer 3

Some children are brought up to not be polite anymore. I know someone who has taught their children to not say please or thank you because they feel it is subservient. I mean come on people who is above using their p's and q's.

Answer 4

Because they were brought up to disrespect people, and their parents didn't teach them any manners.

Answer 5

i really don't know but sometimes you have to put them in they place because i tell you sometimes people do not be seeing the rudness trust me

Answer 6

Sometimes people seem too stupid to be real and there is no other way to answer.

Answer 7

They do that so you won't attack them for whatever mean thing they are saying. It's a defense mechanism.

Answer 8

maybe they had a bad day and just got shooed out by someone else,

Answer 9

they were brought up wrong, or are just ignorant