Weddings - August 2007

Brother is having a $50,000+ wedding. His fiance' is an only child from a family that spoils her rotten, they aren't really wealthy though. At the shower I gave a $150 gift and thought it was generous until her friends and family gave $500+ gifts. Now the wedding is here and we were planning on giving a $250 check and a $50 item from their registry. Normally I know that would be appreciated but I have a feeling that she and my brother, who has changed since he met this woman, will be upset with us for not giving more. I know that sounds crazy but I am seriously worried about starting World War II over our "cheap" gift. Not sure what my question is? How to handle this and avoid ruining the relationship I guess.

2007-08-02 06:00:05 · 33 answers · asked by Luv2Answer 7

I am a husband with a seven month old buaghter, I work on a mine and my wife is a banker, we both leave the home very early but return late to take care of our child at which the baby sister has closed.

2007-08-02 05:29:18 · 10 answers · asked by styve B 1

my mom is all of sudden she found any excuse not to plan the wedding i really feel like i am the underdog here since i am the youngest. then i have a friend who is upset that my mom is not on the ball with the wedding and a lot has happened but what is really annoying is my mom hasn't sent the contact back to the wedding place. which supposedly we are suppose to be getting married in november. is she delaying this on purpose just to make me mad and keep me nervous that it won't happen. please advice me every-time i bring it up she is like you overreacting which i don't think i am i need advice what do i do anyway to motivate her to get her act going? my friend like have you got the invitation sent it or order and no we don't. my mom has the money i don't. i need help any advice would be greatly appreciate how to motivate my mom to move her reerend and not in a mean way? and how to get my friend to lay off of me its really irritating i have two controlling people when it is my wedding please HELP? iwhat am i suppose to do i can't take the heat i feel like calling it off everythough save the dates and half of my bridesmaid have brought their dresses. which is not fiar to them. advice needed.

2007-08-02 05:15:42 · 28 answers · asked by ladylynx26 3

My not so dependable friend, who lives 3 hrs away has offered to make my wedding cake as a gift. Very nice of her, but i've never known her to be a cake decorator. I havent seen any of her work, but i'm reluctant to agree because she's well... flaky and i dont' want her backing out on me for some dumb reason at the last minute. BUT.. she'd be saving us probably $250. Should i make it myself and save myself the hassle? I'm really crafty and probably could do it myself.

2007-08-02 05:10:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 04:46:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this a recent change in manners or have people always been like this? I am having a party this weekend and there are still many people who haven't RSVP'd, and it is an email invitation so it doesn't take long. I think it is so rude!

I don't really care if they are coming or not, but I would like to get a head count so that I can buy food! It also makes me think differently of the people. It makes me feel that they are just waiting to see if something better comes up. So rude!

Does this bother anyone else? I know it is applicable to all events, weddings, parties, etc. Has our culture always been this way? Are you someone who never RSVP's? If so, why?

2007-08-02 04:38:48 · 36 answers · asked by Tanya 1

I already found a lady who told me to use pine tree saplings as giveways. Such a great idea!

2007-08-02 04:32:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend proposed to her beau....with a ring...

how do you men feel about a women proposing to you...please answer honestly....

2007-08-02 03:52:25 · 10 answers · asked by ready 2

I just kicked a bridesmaid out of my wedding and I don't feel bad about it. I think the wedding just brought the whole situtation to a head and made me relieze that she wasn't really my friend. I feel bad about not feeling bad about her feelings or the situtation.
For those who know me- Yes, it's was the crazy phyco friend.

Has anyone else gone through this or know someone who has?

Why do weddings bring out the worst in people?

2007-08-02 03:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 03:20:39 · 28 answers · asked by ashleyw845 1

I so, how soon before can you start?

2007-08-02 02:57:28 · 10 answers · asked by angel 3

Who's outfits am I suppose to pay for besides my own? Flower girl, mothers, etc.?

2007-08-02 02:31:01 · 33 answers · asked by tateroola 2

Thank you

2007-08-02 02:14:25 · 5 answers · asked by Ananda ***** 1

2007-08-01 22:32:08 · 20 answers · asked by Sakun 1

a budget he wants to get married at city hall and next year have a wedding with our loved ones ?should i have a party with family or a small reception?

2007-08-01 22:09:48 · 9 answers · asked by iris b 2

2007-08-01 19:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by abrams2020bc 1

2007-08-01 18:55:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 18:36:47 · 40 answers · asked by SayWhat! 1

I Never Have Any preety clothes so what should i wear bcase all my clothes are crappy!!

2007-08-01 18:27:56 · 13 answers · asked by Brooke 1

the landlord of the pub where I was wanting to get married, applied to have a wedding liscence. He was told that it was £2k to apply and the room had to be decorated in gold and green. An inspection would be carrried out and if it wasn't done, then there would be no liscence and he wouldn't get the £2k back.
I just don't understand.

2007-08-01 18:24:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been to a wedding where they used Justin Timberlake-Sexy Back. Was looking for a fun upbeat song.

2007-08-01 14:57:54 · 11 answers · asked by Heart 1

Standing up for a friend and it's going to be a very small wedding - like maybe 10 peeps. Thanks

2007-08-01 14:56:05 · 6 answers · asked by CluelessOne 5

i just want to take a poll about the food we are thinking of having on our big day.

i just want to see if its liked all around by all types of people... or if we should choose a different menu... The buffet comes wth 2 different dinners

1) Salad, Lasagna, Bread and butter

2) Lemon Pepper Chicken with steamed veggies and red potatos

if you would enjoy this say Aye... if not Nay... you know how this goes :-p

2007-08-01 14:45:46 · 27 answers · asked by Penelope 3

2007-08-01 14:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by sassylassy 3

My new husband and I recently were married, with an adults-only reception. Problem was that a few couples we invited replied with a higher number than were initially invited- namely their children. Nothing was done or said about it, but how should I have properly handled the situation? I think it was unfair that they brought their children while others had to arrange for babysitting or couldn't come.

2007-08-01 14:20:55 · 18 answers · asked by Robin J. Sky 4

where can i find steps to planning a wedding

2007-08-01 14:19:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am look for pictures of character women for my "will you be my bridesmaids" cards! or if u have diff. ideas let me know!

2007-08-01 14:18:32 · 6 answers · asked by Jenn 1

We are having our reception immediately following our ceremony and at the same location. How do we word that on an invitation? Is it "reception to immediately follow ceremony" "ceremony followed by reception" "reception following ceremony"? I'm not sure if there is a correct way. Also, do I put that on the bottom of the invitation itself or do I put that on the rsvp card somewhere?

2007-08-01 14:02:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Two of my very best friends are getting married in a couple of months. They have put me in charge of coming up with a fun creative idea for center pieces for the reception tables. They are not very traditional people, so it has to be something wacky and interesting. I'm usually good at coming up with this kinda stuff, but for some reason, when it really matters, I'm drawing a blank . PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2007-08-01 13:49:06 · 12 answers · asked by steph 1

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Burnt orange dresses look horrible with my wedding dress. What do you think about light pink with these flowers? Any other suggestions? Fiance hates cinnimon, any shade of brown, or any dark colors. Thanks for your help in advance!

2007-08-01 13:30:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous