We've been together for almost 6 1/2 years (living together almost 4) I'm 26, he's 28, he talks about marriage, ideas for a wedding, even kids, and yet still no ring. Even friend and family are getting impatient w/ him. We are now at the process of trying to buy a house, but I still have this nagging thought to wait till I at least get a ring (a solid commitment). He has gotten to the point where he says things that lead me to believe he is "working" on it, but I know his financials, the way he spends $, I see no saving. With the idea of buying a house (which we both really want to stop wasting $ renting) my nerves are a mess going through with that, thinking I may never get a ring if we get into the house first. It is to the point where I am getting myself very depressed, feeling like this aspect of my life is on hold, till he can figure it out.
2007-08-03
18:36:54
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