2007-08-04 03:55:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My wedding party conisists of my three sisters. they're obviously going to be in my wedding pictures ,but I'm not sure about the etiquette on the immediate family that's not in the wedding. Do they get involved with the wedding pictures too?
2007-08-04 04:01:18 · update #1
my fiance was not in his sisters wedding party but all his sisters were. He was really really hurt that he was never asked to be in any of hte pics of all of them. It would have meant so much for him to have been included in a family pic but they didnt even realize it. SHe doesnt have to be in all of them but ask her to get in for one. My new sisters in law at my wedding really touched me by running up and saying they wanted a picture of all the sisters. My real sister and his 5 sisters all took a picture together and I cherish it because of how they said they wanted a picture with their new sisters. IT would mean so much to her to be included in one of them. Best of luck
2007-08-04 06:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ann B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a sister of the groom who was in the same situation (she had her 3 sisters and as the only sibling of the groom I was left out!), trust me there are going to be enough hard feelings on her part, that if you don't include her in the family pictures you'd better plan on her walking out and not coming back. That's exactly what I would have done. Since they knew I was hurt and angry over it, they threw me a bone of doing a reading at the ceremony (knew that's what it was because the ceremony as it was originally written up until 1 week prior had no readings at all).
If it's at all possible, unless it was she who turned you down, ask her to be a part of her brother's big day...you know there are grooms involved in weddings these days, it's not all about the brides!
2007-08-04 04:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cory C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though she's not in your wedding party you will want to include her in some pictures. Not necessarily bridal party pictures but any bride, groom with family pictures. Think about it, she is now going to be your sister n' law and she will now be a part of your family. Don't start off your new family situation by excluding her.
2007-08-04 04:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by holmeskaykay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, there are pictures of the wedding party (bride, groom, bridesmaids, groomsmen in various combinations) and family pictures taken separately. Sometimes there will be a picture or two that includes both groups.
His sister should be in any photograph that includes his family.
2007-08-04 04:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by gileswench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she should still be included in the family photos. Usually you do pictures with the wedding party only and then with the family.
2007-08-04 03:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes in some of them. You would be wise to find some sort of 'job' for her. Perhaps being in charge of the guest book and making sure everyone signs it.
She belongs in family photos but not in the wedding party photos.
I would advise planning what exact people combinations you want for the photos and be sure to schedule enough time for them. My sister missed most of her reception due to the photos after the service taking so long.
Having a plan could reduce the time they take.
again I really do suggest (for family harmony sake) that you find some helpful post for her so she does not feel excluded.
2007-08-04 04:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by ??IMAGINE ?? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is a great way out of line to make this request. it is not her wedding ceremony. it is your activity to place your mom in her place. you will possibly desire to instruct on your fiance which you help her one hundred%. in case you are able to not reign on your mom, then your fiance might desire to think of two times approximately marrying you. do no longer placate your mom, do no longer make bargains together with her. in basic terms permit her be conscious of that the ceremony is planned and there is not any room for Sister to sing. you assert that your mom and fiance are the two disappointed. does not be counted that your mom's disappointed. She's appearing like a newborn. Your fiance should not be disappointed. She might desire to be chuffed which you're looking after this for her. I also have a daughter with a fascinating making a track voice and that i wouldn't in any respect call for that anybody have her sing for his or her wedding ceremony. no longer even her brother or sister. that would desire to be their determination.
2016-10-09 05:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only involve her in the family photos she doesnt belong in anyother photo unless she is in the wedding party. If she helps u get dressed then she will be in those pictures but no others. hope this helps and take care.
2007-08-04 07:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have family photos, these would include all the relatives on his side; grandparents, sisters, aunts, etc. That way they can help share in the special day. Maybe find a job for her so she does not feel left out, even if it's the guest book or the gift table.
2007-08-04 04:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda depends, but I would figure you'd have some pictures taken with just the wedding party and some taken with the families, yours and your fiance's. Talk to your photographer about it.
2007-08-04 03:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋