I am a husband with a seven month old buaghter, I work on a mine and my wife is a banker, we both leave the home very early but return late to take care of our child at which the baby sister has closed.
2007-08-02 05:29:18 · 10 answers · asked by styve B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why bother having a child if you can't care for it. Stop being so materialistic and one of you look after your daughter. She needs you and your stress will only damage her upbringing.
2007-08-02 05:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Spiny Norman 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Take a day off spend it with ur daughter, take her to park after ur wife leaves for work and do all the usual baby stuff and see how u feel......ask urself the question and write it all down with dates that if u leave ur job and bring up ur daughter that how is goin to affect u financially and she's 7mths old when she's 3 and a half she'll go to nursery and then perhaps the childminder etc if u want to work f/t or p/t ....... also think what if someone harms her when u'r both at work........will it b worth it??
I decided to stay at home which was a financial sucide as a one parent family but it was worth it.
2007-08-02 05:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by mamaroach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both you and your wife are in need of "alone time". This will benefit your entire family. You don't want to bring work stress home and take it out on anyone. Try taking at least 30 minutes in a nice hot shower/bath with some soothing music and some aroma therapy candles or incense. You'll be amazed how much a little can go a long way. Good Luck!
2007-08-02 05:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by prlovelygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy a set of golf clubs and go to the nearest golf driving range
there knock the crap out of few hundred balls for very little money, plus somebody else will have to go and find them after and pick them up
golf is a pants game, but going to a driving range helps you de-stress and chill out, i go once a week and its jolly good fun to be honest even though i dont like golf
you never know until you try it
2007-08-02 05:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Creef 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a new job and pronto your daughter needs you. When I was young my parents did the same thing you're doing. My relationship with my parents is very distant.
2007-08-02 06:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u both get holidays, well take some time off and do family things, like going to the park, family meals, etc.
2007-08-02 23:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by HELEND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work in a mine??? My advice is..GET A NEW JOB! A part-time job so you can bond with your family..especially your "buaghter" lol..sorry im a picky speller
2007-08-02 05:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Turn to God and pray to him to relieve you. Ask him to help you not to worry and to be calm and peaceful and angry when it's appropriate. Check out the link in my profile and click the guide for depressed people. What it says also applies those suffering from worry.
Why is this in the wedding section? It should be under psychology, family, or religion and spirituality.
2007-08-02 05:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
One of you needs to stop work or reduce hours i would say!
2007-08-02 05:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by JustJem 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't it comes with the territory.
2007-08-02 05:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋