Weddings - May 2007

i need another marriage license in order for my christian church to acknowledge our marriage. we are already married in a civil ceremony but the church is requiring us to provide another marriage license so we can perform our ceremony in church and for it to be recognized by our religion. is it possible to get another marriage license even though we are already married in civil court? help!

2007-05-14 15:55:12 · 15 answers · asked by pok 1

My family is really friends with the groom, so we're not sure what to say on the gift card for the bride. Please help!

2007-05-14 15:28:33 · 3 answers · asked by koto_rose14 3

foreplay down their, helps to provide a better orgasm. My husband and I were both virgins before we got married. We are learning, as we go along. Picked up a book, for him - to teach him how to perform orally down their for me. The book is called
"The Lowdown on Going Down: How to give her mind-blowing oral sex." We had never dated anyone before we started dating one another. How do I bring up to him that I want oral sex? How do I go about giving this book to him ? It is awkward. Thanks for all the help.

Please NO answers from men please.

Thank You.

2007-05-14 15:06:38 · 28 answers · asked by c t 1

Just wondering....

What reasons do couples decide to do a vow renewal? Is it just because maybe they never had a big wedding? Are there other reasons? And at what point would you do that? 10 years? 25 years?

2007-05-14 14:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6

My parents are hosting our wedding and my soon to be husbands father has remarried and his natural mother has passed away several years ago but is there a way to do invetitions to include her too or do we just stick to the brides parents.

2007-05-14 14:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am trying to find a wedding dress but having a really difficult time. i want more of an evening gown look instead of a big flashy wedding dress. i'd like a halter top and maybe even a lace up back. our wedding will be outside near the water. we will only be having about 50 guests. it's gonna be more of a wedding party kinda occasion. but i still want to stand out. i am a size 16 and hardly anyone carries dresses that i'm looking for in that size. its been hell! anyway! has anyone had a dress made specially for you? did it turn out exactly like you wanted it to? i've been told by some people it was AWESOME, and then i've heard from others NOT to get a dress made. i'm in the houston area, so if you know of someone GOOD, let me know!

2007-05-14 14:38:37 · 10 answers · asked by Paige 2

I am not one to go to these "girly-type" things because I have almost no interest in watching someone open lingerie and crock pots while everyone else "ooh"s and "ahh"s (and neither do my 3 children that I would have to bring with me), but my husband's male cousin is getting married next month (my husband is in the wedding) and I recently received an invitation to the bridal shower. The cousin was one of my husband's best friends until about 5yrs ago (nothing terrible happened, they both just grew up got full time jobs and became responsible). I have only been in the same room with the bride-to-be 3 times and only spoken to her enough to say, "Hi".
I really don't want to go (even though I know I will get flac from the aunt about it) but should I anyway?

2007-05-14 13:24:02 · 20 answers · asked by ravens_angel78 3

I travel with a groups of friends about every summer (who I also went to college with). Two of them are getting married, one sent me an invite to their wedding and the other didn't. One of the couples got engaged during our vacation, so I bought them a gift on vacation and had planned on giving it to them at their wedding, but I didnt get an invite. The other couple who is getting married I did get an invite to, but I can't go due to a prior obligation. Usually I would have no qualms about getting them a gift, but they owe me $200 from last years vacation still. Do I get this second couple a gift?

2007-05-14 13:19:39 · 8 answers · asked by rjamcfan 2

I live in MS, I will b 18 in October .. I was jus wonderin how do I go about gettin empancipated? I'm hopin 2 get married in March .. I recently jus got engaged 2 my fiance.. Will my mom still hav to sign for me to get married?

2007-05-14 12:59:58 · 7 answers · asked by Kimberly W 1

I am looking to put these type of flowers on the middle of a tulle bow on each pew for my ceremony but hydrangeas are pretty expensive and I need lots of bows!

2007-05-14 12:26:52 · 3 answers · asked by Smile L 1

my fiance is in the army, right now he is in AIT in Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri. we want to get married before he gets deployed (just in case he does go) the thing is missouri requires a 3 day wait on the marriage liscence and then you have to go back i was told you can apply online. does anyone know anything about this or have any advice period?

2007-05-14 12:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by dana 1

Only have 5 days till the wedding....need ideas...not too expensive. thought about massages but they are booked. Dont have enough time to order anything

2007-05-14 12:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by Jesse H 2

I went to a friends wedding in college and right as the bride and groom were about to get in his car to leave, the groomsman grabbed her, threw her in another car and drove off. Someone told me he couldn't have her until he found her. They were Lithuanian.

I've been to a couple where everybody has to tell a little story about the bride and groom, which is cool.

What do your people do that others, might not?

Any weirdness you want to borrow from other cultures?

2007-05-14 11:36:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and fast!!!!

2007-05-14 11:22:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's brother is getting married this summer and my boyfriend has asked me to go with him. At the time of the wedding we'll have been dating about five months, I've met his parents, but not his brother or sisters.
Am I expected to bring a gift? I'd assume my boyfriend will have a personal present for his brother and wife (so I can't 'go in' with him). Buying a dress to wear is going to leave me a touch on the poor side, and I have no idea what I'd buy... it's going to be a fancy wedding. His family is covering all my travel arrangements.

2007-05-14 11:00:16 · 14 answers · asked by ramona__c 2

I am thinking of having wild orchid(which is a purpleish/pink color) for the primary color(which would be the color of the bridesmaids dresses)but i haven't a clue what other color i could use with it for my decorations! Can somebody please help me out here? Thanks in advance to all who answer!

2007-05-14 10:49:40 · 7 answers · asked by ang925 3

When I was a teenager, my divorced parents got into drugs and I was unable to live with either one (mom was physically abusive, dad was paranoid, talked about everyone "trying to get in [his] head and destroy [him]", and kicked me out a lot. I spent most of my teen years living in a hippie crash pad with my boyfriend and surviving off very little food. When I contacted my god parents (who always said I could stay with them if the divorce got messy) they obviously didn't want me there, said it was my fault and I drove my parents to their behavior. Years later, my parents are recovered and very sorry about my teen years. However, my godparents have never said a thing, and on the few occasions I have encountered them, act like nothing happened and introduce themselves as my "god parents". I'm very uncomfortable around these people who hurt me very badly. I do not want them at my wedding, but my mother is pressuring me to invite them. What do I do?

2007-05-14 10:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, Im getting married in July 2007 and the ceremony will be held outside at a park. Its going to be a very private ceremony with just our immediate family present but we are having a reception following the ceremony with our closest friends and family :)The wedding party is also just family (our siblings, my niece and nephew). So I was wondering if anyone has any interesting or unique ideas that we could add to the ceremony to make it more special.

2007-05-14 09:46:58 · 22 answers · asked by kceg85 2

Will you try to convince her to try less expensive alternatives or will you just do it? How far are you willing to go to please your wife to be?

2007-05-14 09:20:51 · 39 answers · asked by Jojo D 1

I have asked my question before, but now I have more background info: I have been dating my bf for 3 years, and have been discussing marriage for awhile (we aren't officially engaged yet, but will be sometime soon). His younger sister (a few months younger than me) got engaged last summer, and is planning a big ostentatious destination wedding in the Caribbean for summer of next year. The problem is, my bf and I had been talking about getting married in spring of next year since before his sister got engaged. Now that my bf is about to graduate college and things become more official, we wanted to start talking about a date, but I'm not sure if it is a good idea to plan a wedding for a few months before his sister's wedding. I don't want a big showy wedding like hers, but is it ever ok to do this? I don't want to cause problems before I'm even officially in the family.

2007-05-14 08:24:28 · 18 answers · asked by Galaxie Girl 6

He's been divorced from his first wife (mother of his children) over 15 yrs and she's been remarried for 14 yrs to the man that she was cheating with while married. The financee has been married several times, but she and my brother have found their way back to each other, admitting they rushed the divorce 10 yrs ago. His 28 yr old daughter (with a husband, 2 yr old & a new house) is against this marriage fearing it will take time away from HER (she's now his only living child since he lost is son 3 yrs ago in a car accident). she constantly is at his house or calling him to go shopping, out to eat, etc (only so daddy will pay). His fiancee has 3 children (1 in college, 1 graduating high school - entering college in the fall and a sophmore in high school). The graduating daughter doesn't want the marriage either, but it shouldn't matter to her since she leaves 1 month after the wedding & will only be home select weekends. what should be said to the disapproving "children"?

2007-05-14 08:21:30 · 5 answers · asked by joe's wife 2

but didn't give us a card or present or anything. Not to sound spoiled or anything, but I just don't know what else to put in my Thanks you cards. I like to personalize the cards & make them unique, but I am having a hard time finishing these cards when I can't thank the guests for anything other than attending the wedding. (mind you some of these guests "bragged" about winning big in the casinos that very same weekend!)

2007-05-14 08:08:16 · 12 answers · asked by sterlingshell 1

my cousin wedding is soon and we can't afford to go because need to get babysitter and give money.
so do we send money even if we are not going..

2007-05-14 07:34:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a Wedding in June and my dress is light purple. My dates hair is red... I was wondering what color of shirt I need to get him for the wedding? Anyone know what would go good with both his hair and my dress?

2007-05-14 07:17:08 · 27 answers · asked by desperado 2

Is it considered bad to request just gift cards as a wedding presents?

2007-05-14 07:13:53 · 11 answers · asked by Dana 1

I had an argument with her fiance about three years ago and havent seen him since and he doesnt think i have always been completely supportive of their relationship, and he doesnt think i should be in the wedding. Granted ,they are having a wedding party of 12. She said it was a hard decision to make but she had to do it. Everytime i talk to her she mentions that her wedding wouldnt be the same without me and that she hopes that i can ,ake it. After being hurt so bad im not sure what to do. I am still invited but feel completely slighted as a friend. Do i still go???

2007-05-14 07:04:06 · 21 answers · asked by Lili 1

I'm atheist so not in a church. My family lives in england (whole family except for immediate) and my boyfiends family lives in hawaii & cali. All my friends live hear in WA state. I haven't got the money to fly people from different parts of the world/country, so it'll have to be in WA. I love the beach and if I had the money i'd marry in hawaii. I picture a beach with a grass lawn behind (were reception is held). Any ideas?

2007-05-14 06:49:28 · 6 answers · asked by Louise 4

my boyfriend of 2 years wants to propose to me, i love him so much and he is crazy about me but we need to talk becase its a long distance relationship and we need to sort out how we are going to get together more often, i dont want to rush into things but i love him and dont want to loose this chance,he has been planning it for a long time, should i accept would you?

2007-05-14 06:46:44 · 32 answers · asked by carolina 1

2007-05-14 05:41:09 · 20 answers · asked by nots 2

I'm a black girl and i like white guys. I was wondering is the process of marring out of race is harder. Like if your family and friends don't agree on the wedding. I was wondering if you can tell your experience like what you had to go through?

2007-05-14 05:11:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous