my fiance is in the army, right now he is in AIT in Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri. we want to get married before he gets deployed (just in case he does go) the thing is missouri requires a 3 day wait on the marriage liscence and then you have to go back i was told you can apply online. does anyone know anything about this or have any advice period?
2007-05-14 12:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by dana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Go to their website and check it out. If you're in that much of a hurry, get the application in! If you can't do it online, get youself to Missouri and plana civil ceremony until he comes home and you can plan something bigger.
2007-05-14 12:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i got some advice, i;ve been in the Air force or 4 years, and have had to deploy twice, and leave my base numerous times.....and my school was in fort lost in the woods too.....thing is marriage can take place anytime, if it were me, i would wait it out until he gets stationed somewhere first......anyhow the thing to is your future hubby will deploy.....and be prepared for some tough times, my gf wasnt going to stay with me at first if i deployed but then later on when i looked at KBR positions for a year tour of duty she changed her mind.......but i think you should wait till he's out of AIT first.........hope this helps its always easier giving advice than actually taking it
2007-05-14 19:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by neno k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want ot marry him...........just in case? just in case what? just incase he dies in iraq? just in case he what? i mean thats a stupid reason to get married. what is the reason for the rush? whats with not wanting to wait for three days. is there a rush because he is leaving tomorrow? whats with the reason for wanting to marry someone that might not return. why not wait until he returns. my brother is in the army and he is tired of tell his soliders to not leave someone back at home because you will only make the time in iraq longer. in iraq( he has been three times) he hears that the wife spent all the money,the new wife wants a divorce, the new wife wants an annulment, the new wife of two months wants a divorce because she wants to get back with her ex, the new wife is upset because she needs help with the baby, the new wife wants out because she find a new guy at work, she cant take being a military wife,..........the list goes on. i say you marry him when he is back from iraq and when he is free to marry not when you have a time limit. he isnt even in the state you are in and you think it is so hard to get married. you cant even figure it out and you are already asking for help. i say you should rethink this!! good luck!
2007-05-14 19:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a weekend of it, maybe go out of state to a surrounding state without a waiting period. GL!
2007-05-14 19:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Nic. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk about that but good luck being a military wife, i hope you know what your getting into my friend, it will by far be the hardest job you ever did...
2007-05-14 19:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by justwondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋