He's been divorced from his first wife (mother of his children) over 15 yrs and she's been remarried for 14 yrs to the man that she was cheating with while married. The financee has been married several times, but she and my brother have found their way back to each other, admitting they rushed the divorce 10 yrs ago. His 28 yr old daughter (with a husband, 2 yr old & a new house) is against this marriage fearing it will take time away from HER (she's now his only living child since he lost is son 3 yrs ago in a car accident). she constantly is at his house or calling him to go shopping, out to eat, etc (only so daddy will pay). His fiancee has 3 children (1 in college, 1 graduating high school - entering college in the fall and a sophmore in high school). The graduating daughter doesn't want the marriage either, but it shouldn't matter to her since she leaves 1 month after the wedding & will only be home select weekends. what should be said to the disapproving "children"?
2007-05-14 08:21:30 · 5 answers · asked by joe's wife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It is their choices. People need to mind their own business. If they want to be married then it is up to them. I would worry more about the cheating wife, then the kids. The daughter who he pays everything for may get her free ride stopped.
2007-05-14 08:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by mamatucker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds too complicated, stay out of it and get some counseling for them. History repeats itself
2007-05-14 08:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by James C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The kids should stay out of it. They are adults and should be able to make their own decisions.
2007-05-14 08:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 22:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they feel they have changed and want to be togehter, then the kids need to get over it!!! they need to realize that they cannot control their parents, or their parents lives.
2007-05-14 08:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋