proposal would you accept?

Question

my boyfriend of 2 years wants to propose to me, i love him so much and he is crazy about me but we need to talk becase its a long distance relationship and we need to sort out how we are going to get together more often, i dont want to rush into things but i love him and dont want to loose this chance,he has been planning it for a long time, should i accept would you?

Answer 1

If you love him, your both are older than 20, and you both are financially stable, then yes go for it! I would have a long engagement first of course.

Answer 2

If he has been planning to propose for a long time why has he not sorted out how the two of you can get together more often?
I would say to you it would be a good idea to plan how you will see more of each other in the months to come, then you may find out if you really are suited for a lifetime together.
On the other hand some people have a great marriage after weeks in a relationship.
People have married and stayed in a loving relationship until the day they died after knowing each other for days.
Ask yourself how sure you feel of your feelings and his, if you can truly answer 100% then go for it
Good luck!!!!!

Answer 3

Only accept it, if its what you want. Don't just accept it because he's been planning it for a long time. If you really love him and you want to be with him then say yes. Remember that the two of you don't don't have to get married straight away. Once you are engaged just try and work out how you will be together more often

Answer 4

Yes, if you love each other, it can work. But one of the first things that needs to happen is for you to decide who is going to move to where. Plan a long engagement if this will take a lot of time to figure out. Then you have enough time to relocate and find jobs and homes, etc.

I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 5

If you love each other you will figure everything else out. I just got engaged in December and am getting married in October. My fiance just got a job five hours away from where we live now. He is moving in two weeks and I am staying here until after the wedding. I know it will be ohk though because we love each other so much. If you want to marry him then go for it. Just make sure you two get everything figured out before the big day.

Answer 6

LDR's are inconvenient, but they happen more often than we would like - going to different schools, work commitments, military, etc.

Yeah. You two do need to talk.

So what's stopping you from calling him and scheduling a visit for the weekend to discuss just this very topic?

And, just like at work - you don't bring a problem to the table without a workable, logical solution. So put your thinking cap on, Sweetie.

If you can't hammer out the long distance thing - either rethink the relationship or keep things just as they are until you CAN work things out.

Answer 7

My fiance is in the Navy and stationed in Virginia, I live in Georgia. If you truly love each other it will work and when you see each other it will be all that more special. Just make sure that when you do tell him yes, that you do let him help with the planning. It will do you both good to let him be involved in the planning and keep you both connected, just make sure your communication is clear. I would do it if I was you dear. Best of luck and have a great day!

Answer 8

Yes, if you really want to be together!!! You need to sort out the long distance thing though, one of you has to move!!! I moved to Greece to be with my man, we are married now with a baby on the way. It can work, but some sacrifices have to be made. Good luck!!!

Answer 9

If this is the man that you want to spend the rest of your life with then yes, accept his proposal. You have to consider making some sacrifices or compromises as well, it's not all down to him to make any changes needed so you can see each other more, would you consider moving to where he lives for example?

Answer 10

I say you should most definitely accept your boyfriend's proposal. I am now married for a year, I am currently in the UK my wife is in Kenya. Before marriage we were engaged for 2 years, with just the one year of this being together in Tanzania, the Brit High Commission refused her a visa to come to UK when we were engaged, so she could meet my parents, siblings & friends. So I had to return to UK on my own, I then returned to Kenya (she is a Kenyan citizen) a year later for our marriage. Again I had to return to UK on my own, she got a visitors visa back end of last year came for a visit, returned Kenya after 2 months, I have just returned from Kenya after spending our 1st anniversary together. Hopefully she will come to the UK later this year. It is very tough at times to be apart but once together it is only a matter of minutes and all that time apart means nothing. Also I think that because of the time apart it intensifies when we are together and you do not take each other for granted, because you are well aware of what it means to be without each other. You do have to have absolute trust in each other as any doubt at all and your mind will start to whisper all kinds of nonsense and that is truely awful, but it sounds as though you already spend time apart so you will know this already. Once again if you do love each other as much as you say you do then what are you waiting for, marriage in my case brought alot of peace of mind, it is by no means easy but then I look at friends here in UK who live with their wife/husband and I dont see their marriage easy all the time.

Answer 11

only you can decide... If you do accept then maybe you should be moving in together and not having the long distance relationship.. Your feelings toward one another might change when you do live together so maybe try this first before getting engaged?