We were happy in a steady relationship but not financially ready to get married, when I got pregnant.None of us want a baby without being married and civil marriage with a ceremony later is unthinkable due to religion, romantic reasons and more.We are planning a decent ceremony and reception, with dinner and all, because it’s important to us.
We believe this can last forever and have a wonderful relationship – but no $..He has a decent job and is climbing the career latter –his salary will rise.I have been unemployed for months.He said he’ll save up.We’ll take a loan too, but most of the $ paying it off will come from his salary since he’ll always make much more than me.Sure, we’ll share everything because we’re married, but I can’t get over the idea that technically he’ll pay for most.I feel guilty. Should we sacrifice our dream wedding(not an expensive one, but all weddings cost)and cut costs in any way?Having a decent wedding day is as important to him as me, he’s a romantic.
2007-01-31
22:41:02
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Jaqueline
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