My mother's ex-best friend has known me for over 20 years and I consider him a father figure. Before I was engaged, I knew that I would ask him to give me away. The problem is that my mother is no longer speaking to him (for something that I think is ridiculous, but it's not my life, so....). I wanted to seat all mothers and 'fathers' together at the reception, but I'm afraid that if I seat my mother and the father figure together, that my mom will be miserable the whole night. She's can be a drama queen, and though I've asked her to be civil for my sake, she says that she "won't make a scene but won't talk to him, either." So, do I seat her with my fiance's parents and grandmother (I have no grandparents) and move the father figure, or do I seat her elsewhere and risk her being hurt that she's not at the 'immediate family' table????????
Also, how do I deal with the photos? Sheesh, she's sure made this a task. :(
2006-09-30
18:26:58
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