Please, I need help. My girlfriend and I have been together for 22 years already since we were in 2nd grade. I have been friends with her since kindergarten. Our parents were friends. We were married. She filed a divorce. I know I didn't cheat on her. I am really sad that my wife left me. Is there a way to get over her? I know she is the perfect one for me. I heard that suicide is the best way to get out of life's problems a week ago. I am guessing after my death, it will be like 10 years before I was born but I cannot remember anything about 10 years before I was born since I didn't exist. I tried to kill myself recently. I need help. What would you do if you were me?
2006-09-30 14:27:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Get help immediately. Attempting suicide will not bring her back into your arms. When you love somebody for so long and then they leave it can feel like your world is falling apart but that does not mean it is over. It is OK to talk to someone, situational depression is very common and many men take the dissolution of marriage as a personal failure. That is not the case. I am sorry you are going through such a tough time and I am not going to tell you that you will get over it quickly or that she will come back. I am going to tell you that with time and help you can get over it, but you really need someone on the outside who is unbiased to help you with your situation. A good counselor or psychiatrist can help you get through it.
2006-09-30 14:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need a counselor immediately, call a suicide hotline so you can start receive the support you need and secondly, who is telling you that suicide is the best way out? People who haven't committed suicide don't know what it will be like, so don't listen to them. What you need to do is remember that you have to take it one day at a time, and if you believe in a higher power then focus on worship, it helps to know that you are not alone.
2006-09-30 22:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sonia Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to a Dr for anti-depressent medication first thing. I know that the pain of a heartbreak is hard but you will be ok in time. This might not help a whole lot right now, but for you to get over this, you need to feel the hurt. I was wondering why she left, where you having troubles and are you surprised she left?
2006-10-01 00:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by MM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You desperately need to see a counselor. Suicide is not the best way to get out of life's problems. Suicide is the best way to hurt a lot of people, cause a lot of pain to your family and leave your problems behind for them to figure out. I know because my brother killed himself. There was so many of us who would have helped him through his pain if he had only asked. But he decided to take what was perceived as a short cut to solving his problems. In reality it is truly the most selfish act someone could do.
You may be thinking that this woman is the only one for you. But I find it hard to believe that with all the trillions of people in this world there isn't someone else out there that couldn't make you happy if not happier that she did. People change as they mature and grow. Even if you found someone that didn't know you since you were in 2nd grade, that person could get to know the person you are today. And that's what really matters.
You need to share your feelings with someone who can help you and coach you through this tough time. That's all it really is, just a tough time. Things wil get better and you will feel better, but only if you try. You need to rebuild your inner self. Figure out who you want to be and build that person. Your soul mate will find then.
2006-09-30 21:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would call the nearest crisis hotline. It sounds like you have a major crisis. You tried to kill yourself... Are you serious? Please for the better of yourself get some professional help, no woman no matter how long you have known her is worth taking your own life for. You want to get over her... A consellor or someone at the crisis center can help you with all your problems. Please call them .
2006-09-30 21:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by kibbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going to pray for you! don't commit suicide that is the devils way of getting you to end what God has for you.. yes this is a rough time and you feel like you are in the storm.. but you know that after every storm is peace! you Will have peace. suicide will not bring her back nor fix pain!! so NO get help ..please!
2006-09-30 21:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by cristinamendez02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U may need to seek professorial help talk it out with a therapist killing yourself is defiantly not the way
2006-09-30 21:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling from a mental health professional, if they prescribe medication take them, Stay busy and go out and mingle with new people.
2006-09-30 21:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a professional. Then don't think about suicide. Think about healing and your future. Sorry you're going through this. You are faithful, loyal, a very good guy.
2006-09-30 21:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911.
2006-10-01 00:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋