he has two kids. we always meet outside. we have sexual realationtoo. i alwaystell him i wanna merry u. but he say i love u but i can't& i ask him u love me so why u tell me i cant. one thing is he loves me too.& i really love him. i always tell him i cant live without u. but he never said to me. i want he tell i really love u , i cant live without u , & i wanna merry u. so what should i have to do?
2006-09-30
12:48:26
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i told u i cant live without him.& he too .i m sure too. he really love me. he always tell lie for me. some time he cried for me. he always called me. oh yes i have one friend . i go with him out side & my love fell jeouls. he doesnt like when i talk to him. today we making a love & i talk about him so he yelled me. i dont wanna merry him but i want he loves me more then i do.& he always say i cant live without u. please dont leave me.i just want he tell me this thing.do u have rules so i can follow that.
2006-09-30
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What about this man's wife??? You don't care if you break up her marriage? How would you like it if a woman was having sex with your husband and tried to steal him? I bet you wouldn't like it would you? What about his two kids? Do you think they deserve to live without their father because you enjoy having sex with this guy? Would you like your future kids to grow up with no father???
You want to get married and yet you have NO respect for marriage. Infact you have NO respect for yourself, this is why you think it's ok to hurt other people because you can't see past the insides of your legs.
Newsflash, you are being used as a whore because YOU have allowed yourself to be. If you did steal him away from his family, what a catch you have..a cheater. Guess what it will be a matter of time before he then cheats on you!
I have absolutely no sympathy for women like you. I don't care if he was the one that chased after you first. You play around with married men and other people's marriages and happiness and you deserve every bit of misery you get.
My advice to you is get some self respect, close your legs and leave this married man and his family alone!
2006-09-30 14:01:04
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answered by xanadu88 5
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You may find yourself very disappointed if he does get a divorce and you get what you think you want, only to find out that you are now with a depressed man that is grieving the loss of his wife and family. That is not nearly as sexy as all of the secret love flings that you two are enjoying, and his pain will last a long time. I suggest that you try to get some emotional support from friends, family, community support group, church - anything. You need to develop your self-confidence so you can find a new life for yourself, and find a man that is really available for you with no strings attached.
2006-09-30 13:34:32
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-10-18 06:47:36
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answered by freudenburg 4
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first, the thing about married cheeting men is that most of them say things to get into another persons pants. Have you considered him just saying 'i luv u' just to get you in bed? Horrible I know but it's happened since forever.
secondly, you should be reall ashamed of yourself. Getting it on with a married man who has two kids and you trying to force him into another marital relationship. You know what, shame on him too.
Consider this - find someone else because if he hasn't left his wife and is making excuses and is not saying an affectionate term back to you then he's stringing you along and yes it'll hurt but there will be another man out there ment for you without strings attatched.
I hope some sence is knocked in your head.
2006-09-30 14:18:37
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answered by Dahlias 3
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It is very plain and simple...if he DID love YOU he would divorce his wife and marry you! Now keep in mind that you are coming in the middle of a couple that have kids and honestly right now the kids will look at you as "the lady that separated mommy and daddy". Do you honestly think that what you are doing is correct? Go to church or just read the bible; it might help you out!!!! Good luck and please try to find someone single. Someone who does not need to sneak around to see or be with you and will be fully dedicated to YOU!!!!!
2006-09-30 15:21:58
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answered by Shorty_p.r. 1
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OK listen to me very carefully ok. HE is married. HE has a wife. He has kids. YOU are there for fun. YOU are his entertainment. HE is NOT going to marry you. UNDERSTAND? He is having fun with you and YOU are allowing him to do so. Want to know how I know this? Because men do this! Men will tell you whatever YOU want to hear so they can continue to do what they want to do. I am sorry you are going through this because you seem to be so in love with this man but get out of this relationship because he is not going to leave his wife for you. He will use you, and then when he gets tired of you he will find someone else he can use and lie to and tell the same lies he is now telling you. Want to know how I know? I WAS THE CHEATED WIFE! And if I get kicked out of this program for this, so be it!
2006-09-30 12:54:56
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answered by Ness 4
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find some1 who loves you 4 you not bcus he can get his oats whenever he wants. grow up hun u got ur kids 2 think about. u only end up crying and hating him and then u think all men r like hjm wen in fact theres loads of us who arent. good luck hun u going 2 need it if u carry on seeing him.
2006-09-30 12:55:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Doesn't anyone see that these are just guys making crap up? Stop feeding into their scam and don't answer.
Don't you have anything better to do that post bs stories? Get a lfie!
2006-09-30 18:43:41
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answered by J B 2
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You should find a man who is not married..think of his children if they lost their daddy....how would you like it if your dad left you?? shame on you! again I say...find a fine single dude that will make you see stars..and he won't have to go home afterwards...get it?
2006-09-30 12:56:26
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answered by desert star 1
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Get a life, and a single man!
2006-09-30 12:52:40
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answered by muskrat_susy 3
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