Marriage & Divorce - 18 December 2007

There was no reason for those guys to get what they got. Girls dump guys but you don't see those guys scheming something that bad for revenge, now do you?

But the one thing that pissed me off the very most about this damn movie that I UNFORTUNATELY chose to see was that those guys never got back at them, not even at the very end.



I saw this movie in 1996 when I was 17 years old and to this day, it still makes me madder than hell when I think about it.

2007-12-18 06:03:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is very disrespectful and does not listen, I have talks with him often about his behavior. He'll be okay at first but it doesn't last long. His biological mother, who has him ~9 days/month, wants him to come to my house everyday after school because of her new job. She will pick him up at 6pm on those 9 days she's suppose to have him. She told my husband and he agreed without asking me first. My husband works 24 hour shifts, so he will not be around on those days. I love my stepson very much but this is putting a lot of stress on my marriage. I think his mom should take more responsiblity for her own son. What should I do?

2007-12-18 05:57:58 · 14 answers · asked by moosl<3 3

A couple days ago, one of my husband's friend from high school stopped by the house . And said she got into an arguement with her Mom in which she kicked her out the house along with her kids . Well my husband didnt even bother to ask me if it was okay with me for them to stay ..Which is the first thing that set me off . Then her kids caime rushing in , tearing things up, and the mom just sat there . I started thinking how stressfull it would be if they stayed longer than a day , so i knew i had to put my foot down and speak out. I was kind and nice , and told her that it probably wouldnt work out ,and she would be better off in a shelter ....I would normally not say this if it was a family member, or even a close friend ..but i hardly know this person. It just doesnt make sense for her to come and ask a married man , when she probably has other girlfriends that can help ...and this is not the first time she comes and ask for help ..So now iam feeling a bit guilty over the situation

2007-12-18 05:53:51 · 29 answers · asked by Betty 1

is he over 7 inches, and if so do you appreciate that? If he is smaller, is that sometimes dissapointing?

2007-12-18 05:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by Jack J 1

I have been divorced for 6 years and my son lived with his mother until recently. He has always stayed wih me regularly and I have always paid child support for him. He has been living here for the past 2 months after falling out with his mother. I contacted the Child Benefit Agency to inform them that he has been living with me and since then his mother has been emotionally blackmailing him to go back to live with her.
She told him that he had to make a decision about where he wants to live which understandably caused him distress. He told her that he will live at hers but wants to see me more. I feel that I shouldn't have to pay her child support and I should receive child benefit if he is staying with me for the majority of the time. Basically his mother wants to remain the resident parent so that she can still claim maintenance and child benefit for him but she doesn't want him full time. What should I do?

2007-12-18 05:50:16 · 18 answers · asked by Gemini 1

2007-12-18 05:47:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex isn't doing too well financially. I on the hand have really done well for the past couple of years. I kind of feel bad for my daughter's younger half brother because each holiday I'd get my child a ton of presents and that poor fella gets nothing. I think if this goes on, their relationship will really be tainted as they grow older. I don't want that.

Naturally I'd give ex money to buy whatever she wants for him but she's kind of stupid with money and has a tendency to blow it off and because of that I'm in the process of trying to change custody status for my child. In the mean while, I also really don't want to get involved in her life in any way other than those matters relating to my daughter. I'm kind of in a dilemma here. I feel really bad for him. He's such an adorable kid and my daughter loves him, so naturally I have a soft spot for him. What do you suggest I do?

2007-12-18 05:44:57 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should i write in the letterr?????????????
I have a LDR,, and i want to write a cute romantic letter to my fiance?
i will see him in x-mas and i want to write a cute sweet letter to him and slip it in his pockets b4 i leave home.. what should i mention? what will melt his heart? we are getting married in the summer.. any advice? thank You
any one have some things i should mention in the lettter???? and for guys; what would be your reaction if your girl/fiancee did this?

2007-12-18 05:44:47 · 8 answers · asked by Slice of Heaven* 2

2007-12-18 05:38:02 · 36 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7

2007-12-18 05:37:03 · 20 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7

My husband's chief complaint about me is that no matter what he does it isn't good enough, and that I don't appreciate the things he does...I only notice the things he doesn't do.

Example: I got home after being gone for three days on a business trip. There were dishes in the sink from dinner the night before, every outfit our younger two children wore to school each day were on the bathroom floor, no laundry was done, and the cat box hadn't been cleaned for three days!!! GROSS!!! I didn't say anything about it when I first got home other than telling our oldest daughter to clean the litter box, as it is her chore. Later that night, my husband could tell I was irritated and asked what was wrong. I told him that it is hard to feel appreciated or look forward to coming home when this is what I have to look forward too. He said...just like always! You didn't notice or appreciate what I did while you were gone...you only noticed what wasn't done!
Seriously? Was I in the wrong??

2007-12-18 05:33:59 · 15 answers · asked by ladybug 3

This girl I know was talking to me about having children (suggesting I should have one..I'm a girl also by the way despite the avatar!). She said Id be a great Mum as I have a really big heart. What does this really mean?

2007-12-18 05:32:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He put $300.00 on one, which was the credit limit, and he opened another one without my knowledge although he has not used it. He maxed out one of my other credit cards that I already had. I was very mad about this and he even tried to turn the tables saying that it's my fault, because I am such a big spender, where I never buy myself anything. He even brought up that in three days I spent $100, which I spent at the Supermarket! Isn't this outrageous?

2007-12-18 05:32:23 · 15 answers · asked by tscheggl 1

2007-12-18 05:31:08 · 12 answers · asked by Lean_on_Me 1

It bothers me. She's still not FAT, but she sure isn't what she used to look like, and that was only 3 years ago.

2007-12-18 05:24:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I chose my grandson I am glad I have only one grandchild, because I would not be able to pick favorites

2007-12-18 05:23:45 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7

and they find nothing wrong w/ their actions? and you have talked to them about this situation before?

2007-12-18 05:20:53 · 18 answers · asked by AMANDA 5

I am suppose to be getting married to my fiance in february. We already have 2 sons together and have been together 8 yrs. I am having concerns b/c we have had a lot of issues with our realtionship-it seems to be good now but i am worried I may regret taking this step and it will be to late but at the same time i love him more then life and i know he feels the same, we get along great and we are best friends and I dont want to hurt him by telling him im not ready b/c he is very much into this and committing to me. Shoudl I just trust him and give him the benefit of a doubt and take this chance? I mean if it came down to it-would it be such a big deal to divorce him?? I want to do whats right and i fugre we have been together this long, haev two sons-why should we still be calling eachother girlfriend and boyfriend-its tacky to me. I feel liek a highschooler when i tell people about my "boyfriend."

2007-12-18 04:58:37 · 17 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

I have absolutely no clue what to buy my hubby for Chistmas. He always says "buy me clothes", but I am looking at clothes in the closet from last Christmas that still have tags on them. It's not that he doesn't like what I buy, but he has so many. I am the same way though, if we want something we buy it so when Christmas comes it's hard for both of us to shop for one another. Please give me some serious suggestions as to possible gifts for my man. He deserves the world and if I could, I would give it to him.

2007-12-18 04:54:54 · 15 answers · asked by MeMe 2

If a man finds condoms in his wifes handbag should he suspect she is having an affair even if she never goes anyplace without me other than to work and back. Their were only one condom their

2007-12-18 04:52:44 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im dating this guy that i have known for about a year, we started seeing eachother a month ago.he divorced his ex wife of 7 years because she found another man. but they have a 10 yr old daughter together, their separation took about two years and the divorce was finalized 4 months ago.do you think he still has feelings for her?

2007-12-18 04:44:12 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1

My parents have been married for 26 yrs now...for more than 3/4 of their marriage my father has cheated on her. She took to much bull**** from him. We thought he had changed his ways for a couple of years but he is doing it again. As her daughter I want the best for her.I think their marriage is toxic. I personally believe they r better off divorce..now they r on the verge of a divorce n i am stuck in the middle. I love my dad but as a man he isn't good enough for her. Its really taken a toll in my lfe. I am behind my mom 100% but i don't want my dad to think i favor my mom more than him. I feel pity, anger, and love for him at the same time. I am on a verge of an anxiety attack. I dont know what to do????

2007-12-18 04:35:55 · 20 answers · asked by nydp02 5

Your choice is Frankenstein or Dracula. Which one are you walking down the aisle for?

2007-12-18 04:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not too long ago I got married. My sister-in-law was causing me problems before marriage as well as after. Aparently she does not think it will work out between me and her brother because of the age difference. And aparently she believes that the fact that she thinks this way gives her right to intrude on our life and insult me. There are three things that bother me the most

1) She speaks to my husband in front of me in a foreign language which I happen to understand and I know that she is speaking about me in a third person, saying things that are not nice. After she is done, she starts speaking english to me and is acting very friendly.

2) Whenever she comes over, she criticizes my housekeeping skills, even though I never claimed to be a housekeeper, I am a career woman. She'd walk into the kichen while I am peeling vegetables in the sink and say something like "what the hell happened here?" I feel a lot of pressure every time she comes over. The funny thing is that my mother-in-law never does anything like this, the only thing she does is offers help with cooking or serving the table.

3) Whenever my husband and I visit the in-laws, his sister either tries to lure him away from me with lame excuses or gets mad at him and hisses "You are not helping with anything!" Why should he help? He does not live there anymore. I used to try to encourage him to help out but now I won't. If he decides to help she should be grateful, but she cannot demand help in my opinion

Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with my situation? Is there anything I can do to minimize the hostility or to fix my relationship with her? I love my husband and she is his sister, so I'd want to build good relationship with her. I tried everything but it does not seem to work.

2007-12-18 04:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by foxy 3

My husband loves me but he wants me to lose my weight. I am 23. I hate it when I think that he dont like my physical appearance. Does he mean that I am ugly or he just wants me to get more beautiful?
P.S: I feel I am beautiful in face but bit fat in my hip and waist area. Does that really matter in love?

2007-12-18 04:17:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a recent newlywed. As such, there are several facets that my wife and I are encountering that neither of us necessarily expected.

One of these such facets is the fact that she talks to her mom everyday. Allow me to explain.

First, I do not in any shape or form want to segregate her from her mom. I love her mom and her relationship with my wife. However, my wife never left her mom's house until we were married. I am worried about this, because I feel as though my wife hasn't really left her parents. For example, when we do go over to her parents house (they live ~2 miles away btw) she will still act as if she lives in the house.

What makes things worse is when we disagree. I feel that I'm fighting on 2 different fronts sometimes.

I have heard that it's hard to let go of your children, but it seems to me that at some point if you don't allow them to break away, it can't be a healthy thing. In nature, there is always a time for the young to leave their parents.

Thoughts?

2007-12-18 04:11:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife wants to do it on top of a car. Note the ON TOP OF not in a car. Anyone have experience with this, if so what's a good way to not get caught and what's a good position so as to make it most comfortable.

2007-12-18 04:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 04:03:47 · 24 answers · asked by J 2

A Dad has a 5-year-old with his ex-wife. She has had 3 more children since they split up. Do you think it is right for Dad to have to spend money on Christmas and Birthday gifts for his son to give to his siblings? I think it should be the Mothers job. I know the son should be able to give gifts to his siblings, but it wasn't the Dad's choice for his son to have them. Just wondering others opinions on this.

I mainly ask this because my boyfriend has primary custody of their son and his ex has asked for money for presents for her other kids. If I didn't know her, I would have a hard time believing someone would do that.

2007-12-18 04:01:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are in love. I have 2 kids who welcome him and are loving getting to know him. He has an 11 year old daughter who will not even discuss my existence with him. She shuts down and ignores him. So we haven't even met yet. He's been divorced 4 years...me a lot longer. I know this isn't an easy thing for a child...I was her exact age when my parents got divorced.

We have been talking about marriage...but our whole relationship seems to be in a holding pattern because of this issue. I want to be supportive of my love and his precious and vunerable daughter. but I feel as if she's running the show so to speak...she is getting exactly what she wants. Daddy to herself...and stopping an unwelcome change.She will never like the idea of me...especially if she doesn't even know me. Help? What do I tell my love? what advice can anyone give us?
What is the right thing to do for his daughter?

2007-12-18 03:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by truthceekr 2