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Marriage & Divorce - 18 December 2007

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Hi this is sandeep s. I wanna marry my girl frend very soon in temple under hindu marriage act. urrently I am in US and very soon , i will go to india only for a week :-(

my question is - after this when we go for marriage registration :

1. do the 2 witnesses have to be same as those during the marriage?

2. what are the necessary documents required in UP during marriage registration.I am from UP, india.

3. How much time will it take for the registration?

4. What are the difficulties can be faced during registration?

5. Some other suggestions you would like to provide except not to marry :-) ? the thing is our parents are not agreed :-(

thanks
SS

2007-12-18 15:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by sandeep s 1

I'm thinking of telling her I'm half French and I couldn't help it. You think she will buy it?

2007-12-18 15:20:59 · 40 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4

My husband says he is bored with the marriage and our sex life after only a year. He says the spark has gone. He still fancies me and he loves me but he said that our sex life feels like a chore. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me?

2007-12-18 15:13:09 · 32 answers · asked by lol 3

So I was with my friends fiance and his guy friends. I accidentely
announced that I hooked up w/ there neighbor another guy friend of theres. Not on purpose Really, I was surprised he had not told them. This was like last summer anyway. So they are gonna ask him all the details now. Will he be mad. I was wondering why he had not said anything to them, cuz we all know each other. Will he be upset with me or think bad of me for telling them? ( I put this in divorce because he is recently divorced, and has had issues with that) I am not sure if he was embarrased by losing his erection or he just wants to **** everyone. I still do not want him to think I was bragging or something. Was it bad of me to tell his friends.

2007-12-18 15:11:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's in Iraq, and I found out that he was cheating when he ordered this girl flowers and I saw it on the bank account. The card said "Here's to what we are and could be." Obviously it's just on the internet and over the phone, but it was enough to convince her they were in a "relationship" and enough to piss me off majorly. He cheated on me once before, before we got married, that was actually sex. And this girl he's been talking to is in the same place that he will be when he gets back from Iraq. He says he's sorry, and that nothing's wrong with our relationship, and that he loves me and wants to be with me, but how can I get over something like this? He was stealing my time with him to be with her in the only ways that I get him now. I know some people don't count online as cheating, but I count this. He went on myspace, made a single profile, and started chasing women. And if I hadn't caught it, who knows how far this would have gone? I love him, but I have pride.

2007-12-18 15:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by Chelsey M 2

My husband has had 5 emotional affairs. But with no intercourse (there have been implied things and such) or oral. Nothing has "touched". But my husband sees NOTHING wrong with it. I already know my definition. But what guys out there believes in emotional affairs are true? Whats your definition on it?

2007-12-18 14:41:58 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

So here is the thing. My GF and I of 9 years have seen a decline in our relationship over the past three or more years. But we have stuck it through regardless. This past year though I have been cheating with another girl, I feel guilt for this, I would feel far better if I had broken off things with my GF first, but you know how it goes. So now in essence I am going to move out in the new year , I don't want to break things up before Christmas. My only thing is that I want my GF to be happy; safe and taken care of; that somehow we can remain friends. When she showered this past month or so I would sneak and read her text messages, and clearly she has also been seen some guy , to a certain degree. And also some days she showed up late 3 or 4 in the morning , claiming that she was visiting some female friend from work. I would not really care because I reckoned if she were cheating then all is well.Today I saw her cell phone for the first time in a while, and it seems as if the guy ..

2007-12-18 14:40:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This has been going on for 3 monthes now her abstinent behavior. i've been making her sleep on the couch while i do this but friends say i'm going about it the wrong way. What do you think?

2007-12-18 14:37:27 · 40 answers · asked by James S 1

does he always feel this deep love for her, even 10 years later..?? does his love for her continue to be as 'intense' as it was when they first got married, and you still get 'butterflies' in your stomach, or does it kinda fade away over time

2007-12-18 14:35:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her husband is abusive, pinned her down in tears because she did not feel like sex, he controls her, who she talks to, he gives her money weekly for just the basics. he breaks into her work computer with clients records to see if she is cheating. He told her if she ever thought of leaving or anything he would tell her kids, family, co-workers that she is a slut. They go without sex for weeks. He wont even buy airconditing during the summer even with three kids. He has gained over 100 pounds since they got married, went back to school but dropped out cause it was too hard.

She met a guy who is amazing to her. He is there for her with no pressure. He is kind, caring and treats her right. She confessed to me about him pinning her down in tears beggin him to get off of her. Then she told me that he would tell everyone including her kids she was a slut if she ever went against him. I asked her would her new guy do something like that? Her reply was "of course not, he loves me."

2007-12-18 14:34:07 · 3 answers · asked by mike s 1

if he cheated on you after you had your children and after you were married, and because of him cheating he produced another child.but you only find out 11 years later.

2007-12-18 14:28:22 · 31 answers · asked by mimi 2

I have only been married for 3 years and we have a 2 yr old child. My husband is really starting to bore me, it is like he doens't like to have fun anymore or muck around. Went to a function and started flirting with another guy, nothing happened, but I am blaming him for the flirting as I think if he was fun and outgoing, I wouldn't need too?? What do you think??

2007-12-18 14:25:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean seriously...I can't stand everything about it...lines, crowds, rude clerks/customers, commercialism....give give give...receive receive receive!!!!!!!!!! Does Christmas mean more than all of this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My poor wife. My attitude breaks her heart...and we don't even have kids yet.

2007-12-18 14:20:34 · 17 answers · asked by Old Soul 28 1

He is legally separated and daughter comes over every other weekend. I go to his house but he makes it a point to take me home at whatever time.
He tells me he needs time to work out his situation, this is ongoing.
Have any guys ever done or though something like this?

2007-12-18 14:10:03 · 7 answers · asked by nili 1

How much is she going to charge me to do this?

2007-12-18 14:03:21 · 14 answers · asked by progrockfan80 2

OK I have been divorced for 9 years, my ex wife and I still get along ok, but she has a boyfriend which theur relationship is kind of rocky, she talks to me but Im not sure she has the same feelings anymore as I do. How can I tell her without messing up the friendship we have or should I just wait for her and see if she makes the first move?

2007-12-18 13:55:43 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-12-18 13:40:00 · 4 answers · asked by Rick B 1

I have been with my husband for 7 years now. Before I met him I was working on my Bachelor's. We moved to another town and I had no probelms switching to a community college. I have taken all the classes I need and now after stretching 2 years of college over 7 years I want to go to back to a University to complete my degree but we don't have one in our town. I want to move back to my old town but he doesn't want to go. I said I will move there myself and visit when I can for two years and then come back. He said he just devastated! It turned into this big ordeal but I never meant that we should break up.

Number one it is one of my life goals to get at least a Bachelor's before I'm 30 and the clock is ticking!

Number two we are both working minimum wage jobs and saving whatever we can. He wants to spend our big savings on a new car or big TV and thinks school is a waste.

Do you think I'm being selfish?

2007-12-18 13:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki 3

I'm just asking because you never know what the possbilities are.

2007-12-18 13:21:36 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a little sad about coming home to my wife, kissing her, and then going our separate ways for the evening. She goes to do her sewing and I go and play computer games. I want to go in there with her and keep her company but what if she just continues to do her sewing and ignores me? Should I try to put my arm around her and pet her? She's bipolar but I love her very much and I miss her.

2007-12-18 13:18:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm seperated after 20yrs with sum1, we have kid's, i was a drunk.my boys live with me and she has moved out she say's she hasn't been with any one, but spends alot of time/phone time with this guy but say's were just friends? so now i don't drink never was a bar person how/where do u meet new people??

2007-12-18 13:14:59 · 5 answers · asked by DAVE H 2

what are you supposed to say? lets say it's "innocent", just going to a steak house or something. You should totally go right?

2007-12-18 13:13:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

thearrogant spoiled yuppie ahole who never really works for anything in his life and has everything handed to him. And looks down on people like they are lower than dirt and he's #1 not you in his life.

or

the guy who works for a living and earns his way through life. Polite and accepting and makes you the #1 person in his life and devotes his life to making you happy?

2007-12-18 13:10:55 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is my problem. My husband has some pretty serious issues with anger, and with the fact that he does not like to accept responsibility for our sons' behavior. Our son acts exactly like he does and when your 12 that is unacceptable. Any punishment I have tried with my son my husband overrules and lets him do what he wants anyway, and than I get blamed as his bad behavior progresses. I am getting to the point where I am contemplating leaving him, just to keep the kids from having to be around him all the time, maybe that would help. I just dont know what to do. I really wish I could figure this out but my husband wont bend any to what we need to do to help him. I guess I need advice

2007-12-18 13:08:25 · 20 answers · asked by crashqueen_77 2

2007-12-18 13:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi there,
Well there is a problem in my 2 year marriage. My husband still struggling to find a job, but never misses his Monday nights out drinking to "ease" his unhappiness. It bothers me a big time even he says he spends his money on booze. I am working long hours, scraping to make ends meet. Please note since he doesn't have a job I am paying all the bills and morgage for my own condo. He covers only the food bill, all his savings are almost gone on "Quality of life" I tried to talk, fight, argue, nothing helps he just ignores me and still takes off to the pub, saying it is up to him when and how many drinks he will have. last night I told him to make his mind what is more important to him , otherwise he is free to leave me in peace. Guess what, he booked his flight to UK. I am devastated! It is Christmas time and it is the worst one for me. He is immature, very stubborn, selfish, 50 year old bustard. Now, you guys tell me if I am a *****?
Please any feedback is very helpful

2007-12-18 13:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

the wife helps the husband when it comes to financial needs..
what can you say about this..?

2007-12-18 13:01:26 · 24 answers · asked by sarahian 2

I read a question earlier that made me come up with this question for y'all....

Why when men cheat and the wife/mistress finds out, one of the them (women) starts harassing or stalking the other woman without doing any harm to the cheating man!? Yes, if the one that initiated the whole cheating situation was the man why the women (or at least one of them) starts fighting the other woman and completely forgets to harm the man... I don't think I'm being clear but people with comon sense would get the idea of what I'm talking about... :) lol

2007-12-18 12:09:38 · 17 answers · asked by Yes_It's_Me! 3

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