thearrogant spoiled yuppie ahole who never really works for anything in his life and has everything handed to him. And looks down on people like they are lower than dirt and he's #1 not you in his life.
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the guy who works for a living and earns his way through life. Polite and accepting and makes you the #1 person in his life and devotes his life to making you happy?
2007-12-18 13:10:55 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I married # 2 and never looked back.
2007-12-18 13:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you are married to the first one? Hopefully you haven't started a serious relationship with #2 yet. No matter how undesirable #1 is, you did marry him and until that circumstance changes, you are stuck with him. Jumping from one man to another doesn't give you time to think, time to be you. If #2 is as kind as you say, he will respect and trust you more if you do things the right way. Slow down and take a breather. You will ultimately end up where you truly wish to be. How good and lasting it is depends on you.
2007-12-18 13:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Track1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy who works for a living and earns his way through life. Polite and accepting and makes you the #1 person in his life and devotes his life to making you happy. DEFINITELY!!!
2007-12-18 14:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gabrielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love it if I could say that "nice guy" however, I am with the ahole who thinks that he is the center of everything. The nice guy always tends to be looked at in a negative light. Meaning that they always tend to be, for lack of a better word, dorks. Thats sad though isn't it. I think I would take a dork now that I have seen that the other is not easy to live with.
2007-12-18 13:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Amber D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women are attracted to the bad-***, do what you want guy [statisticly]. Personally, I greatly prefer male 2, because being with an ahole isn't worth it, and it damages you and the people around him/you.
The gentleman era is slowly dying out, which is sad :[. 60% of men are jackasses, and girls seem to run to them for support.
In the end, many females go with #1, but only the smart ones take for #2.
2007-12-18 13:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If #1 is totally bad and #2 totally good how come that in real life I've met so many #2 who are alone? Is the problem with guys or the women who make chioce?
2007-12-18 13:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it seems like women tend to end up with #1 a lot.I think it is because most guys(not to generalize because I can't stand people that generalize) put on that sweet act and then when you get to know them the ****** comes out!Of course I would like #1 the best,sounds to good to be true though:)
2007-12-18 13:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will eventually end up with Guy #2. You should just skip the first guy. He will just turn into a divorce statistic. You will get tired of being way down on his list of priorities. If you are not first with your man, you can best believe you aren't 2nd either.
2007-12-18 13:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, guy #1, because he's more exciting.(Girls never go for nice guys) But then you spend the rest of your life regretting it. If you can look into the future, security, comfort and love will always outlast the excitement and passion.
2007-12-18 13:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Karen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for anyone considering #1. DONT DO IT!! I got married to number 1 and I'm now pregnant and having to deal with it alone. Mr "ME" is too busy worrying about his needs.
2007-12-18 14:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by aricalane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋