Marriage & Divorce - 18 December 2007

How many women have been dumped because of their weight or believe they missed a shot at a good guy because she was too fat ?

2007-12-18 03:55:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we dont get along now should I get her something not to nice?

2007-12-18 03:39:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been married for 5 years, when i stopped taking the pill for several medical reasons he decided not to touch me. It's been both painful and dissapointing. I;ve been advised to go and "dossolve" my marriage at the church, is that possible?

I will appreciate any help on this matter.

Thank you all and Happy Holidays!

2007-12-18 03:38:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married almost 10 yrs and this is the first time. We have 3 kids. I always said that I would leave but now I don't know. I did hit him back. He doesnt want to talk about it and he is not apologizing what should I do?

2007-12-18 03:37:01 · 31 answers · asked by alicia b 2

I was speaking with a woman that I work with about a book that help her and her husband improve there sex life and workout at the same time.

The book is called "Ultimate Sex Diet: The Super Sex Diet That Works by McCloskey.

Has any one read the book?

My wife and I go to the gym, but it would be fun to workout at home.

Keep the smart AZZ comments to your self.

2007-12-18 03:34:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

15 years ago i met and married my husband,after marriage we had four beautiful children.together!i am 35 years old now and on my birthday in august which has been4 months ago i found out my husband fathered another chid 11 years ago.the child now is a lil gurl a year younger then my 12 year old son.
my huand wasn`t the one who told me and still denies it till this day.it was the mother of the child who wrote me an email AND TOLD ME.....and i am sure my husband didn`t know he fathered the child ...he was never told before this.seeing this all went down august 30th ....four months ago........i have tried my hardest to be abe to forgive and forget....but i feel like such a fool.i can actually say i do not love my husband like a husband anymore.a friend maybe,but even as a friend i cannot trust him.i want out of this maiage so badly. not only am i mad he hurt me the way he did. but i am mad he hasn`t been there for this child ,cause this child did not ask to be born.

2007-12-18 03:33:42 · 10 answers · asked by mimi 2

2007-12-18 03:26:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok me and hubby have a 4month old son together who we love very much. We recently got into a fight He said something that is just now clicking. That all i do is take care of the baby. I do. So I realized that i really havent been giving him the attention he deserves all of it is on our son. I use to do nice things and make him know that he is my everything.since the baby i haven done none of that but have mood swings. So today i ironed his shirt and made him coffee someting i haven done in forever and i can tell that he liked it. I really need a mans point of view. Has any man been through this How did it make you feel and what can i do to make it right again between us. I can tell that it has affected our relationship. We love our son dearly though its just i haven been attentive at all. and im just now seeing it.

2007-12-18 03:25:41 · 28 answers · asked by JennyP 2

i know some one that is cheating on his wife. should i tell his wife about it or should i stay out of it let his wife find out herself? any advise.

2007-12-18 03:25:13 · 17 answers · asked by tracy 2

My friend bought a car b4 her and her hubby got married, she doesnt drive, and the car was bought for them to use together but put in her name as he had a bad credit rating.
They since married, and have now seperated. He is refusing to give the car back. Can she legally call the police and have it returned as it is in her name, or will it need to be part of the divorce proceedings as she bought it with the intention of him driving it.
We are in the UK.

Thanks.

2007-12-18 03:22:03 · 16 answers · asked by Raych-S 2

If a man complains to you about his financial and family problem like you have the fault to everything. He tried to depart himself from you by getting what he wants, but then he include you in his work of arts? Like he does nude paintings of you without you modeling for him and he crown the things you and him do. Everytime I want to meet up with him he says that he wants to paint and he is not interested in getting married or having children when you're not even bringing it up worse do i have these stuff in mind.

2007-12-18 03:11:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

and secure in a relatioship.
So if comfort and security make women get fat and dumpy, what makes them get slim and well put together?

2007-12-18 03:08:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who out there has had an affair? Either side of it. I just want to hear some experience and the turnouts. Thank you

2007-12-18 03:07:57 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie G 5

a second lease on life......makes me feel like a queen? He is in his late thirties... Mature answers only please.

2007-12-18 03:07:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If child support is supposed to be 25% of the payer's income, help me figure out the right amount in this little fictional scenario here:

Gross annual income is 70,000
Allow about 15% for taxes (down to 59500 annually, 4960 per month)
Health, dental and life insurance, 401k, etc. comes to 250/month (making the net income 4710 per month)

Now, if 25% is supposed to go to child support, would that be 25% of 4960 (monthly child support 1240) or 25% of 4710 (monthly child support approx 1175)?

I know, it's confusing... I've done several drafts of this question to try to make it as understandable for you as possible, and so that I can understand your answers. LOL

Basically, is the amount figured up using income before benefits are taken out, or after?

2007-12-18 03:00:16 · 13 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7

In anyone's experience... Can a man who actually GETS help stop being a controlling, drinking, abusive man? Mine is coming home from Prison soon, and has promised he's changed. I think the odds are against change in this situation, and I KNOW I can't change him. I've had it, and am TOO OLD to put up with his BS anymore, however, we've been together six years, and he's behaving so earnestly, I would like to give him the benefit of the doubt. Any thoughts? Has anyone out there actually been with a man who DID change his butthead ways and become a decent human being after taking classes and spending six months in prison for his actions, etc? I'm seriously wondering if I should bother anymore.

2007-12-18 02:59:06 · 22 answers · asked by Babygurl32 1

I think she is just being controlling. I do not cheat on her. If she is not in the mood, I don't she a problem with it.

2007-12-18 02:54:25 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is the best girl I can ever get.
I am 27years old. I earn only $14/hour.

How will I be able to support her. Take an appartment. Keep her happy. Give her all she wants.

Do you think, with $ 14, its enough for two people .
She says she does not want to work. I said, fine.. do as you feel happy.

Serious reply only
What do I do.

Tom

2007-12-18 02:53:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is planning on getting me an engagement ring from Walmart! I have seen it and its really pretty to me! Has anyone bought a ring from them and are the diamonds real?

2007-12-18 02:52:38 · 23 answers · asked by sweetone_08 1

**he works in california, and he told me they still havent approved the days he requested to come to las vegas to get married

**He told me that why didnt i just go to california and get married with him over there, when he knows that my family would never accept that.

**He told me that he really wants to be happy with me, but that something isnt "right", he said that nothing is going right, and i guess he sees that as a warning sign...

**in the other hand, he told me all he wants to do is marry me and be happy with me

i dont know, please help me, yesterday he was a little upset with his mom because of an argument they had, so maybe thats why he was like this, or is he clearly trying to get off the wedding.... thank you so much.

2007-12-18 02:51:45 · 5 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1

If you werent ready to break up with your significant other, and you were still pining away and living in misery of being without them, which scenario would suck more?

If they completely disappeared from your life and you no longer knew a thing about them?

-or-

If you knew absolutely everything about their life but you are unable to do anything about it

I feel like if you knew nothing about them anymore, it would be easier to get over them; but if I knew everything about them, I would feel completely frustrated because Im watching everything I love live on without me...

For you: Which scenario sucks more?

2007-12-18 02:49:07 · 19 answers · asked by Mary 1

Can guys be sensitive like women?your experience ladies?Do you like sensitive guys?and why?is that a good trait?what do you do if they are and they are not?which one do you prefer a sensitive ones or not?What is a sensitive guys meant to you?

2007-12-18 02:47:52 · 11 answers · asked by truth set free 1

When you truly love someone, with all that you have and are and then some,,,, when is it enough?? When do you stop trying?

2007-12-18 02:43:46 · 12 answers · asked by laughing spirit 1

what are the pitfalls? My friend says shes going to marry a Turk because she says theyre different from english men?

2007-12-18 02:43:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you've been together for three.
We don't live together, she's a virgin. And I love being in my own space, I'm young and just not ready. She's the opposite.

2007-12-18 02:38:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I moved in together about 3 months ago. We've been together over 2 years. He's played World of Warcraft throughout the relationship, and I didn't know how much it would affect me until I lived with him.

Everyday has become a struggle, whether it comes to a small argument or something bigger. I ask him to set aside time for me and he gets so consumed, he tells me he'll make it up to me. He never does. I'm tired of fighting this constant battle and getting nowhere. I'm getting to the point where my heart is breaking and I'm crying more often than I should be. When I thought nothing could break us apart, I've recently had to think how I can have the strength to go on like this.

I love him, and I don't want this to break us apart. I know he has good intentions that are masked by his gaming addiction. How much gaming is too much? What can I do to address the problem with him so we can mend our relationship??

2007-12-18 02:36:37 · 16 answers · asked by Dolly 1

I'm in the middle of Divorce
not totally in church(serving God like I shoud)
should i make a greater effort to see other people or no one at all
I want to have a drink or two
...want to be alone.don't want to be alone??
Help!!

2007-12-18 02:35:01 · 10 answers · asked by football2002 3

with his Ex wife that what he is calling as he say that they already finish but still lived toegther for the sake of his kids...But he ask me to make a Bussiness Plan . And i did already pass to him the plan 3 half months ago and to this present he still not give me a feedback and his reason is . He is claiming 50 millions dollar to the cleint and a very busy person as well and have a big problem with her wife as well...So , what do i do ..? Do i still need to moved on and forget about the plan ..? He said if he say the plan have potentials he is happy to invest...The one who make my Bussiness Plan is giving him a ultimatum if he is not give answer before on 5 on january next year is it already Disapproval. And he told me that the one who make the Bussiness Plan is fall of ****.....

2007-12-18 02:33:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, last night I saw messages that my husband wrote to another girl on the computer which were not PG13 so to speak....we got into a heavy argument and then he proceeded to deny our unborn child calling me every name in the book. I kicked him out. I know 100% that it's his..not a doubt in my mind, but he started saying very hurtful things. I didn't go to work today b/c I'm so upset..so then this morning he calls me and now he called and wants to take me to lunch on his lunch break...what the heck does this mean?? why? after he denied his own child?

2007-12-18 02:23:17 · 28 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4

Falls a sleep. Oh I was so mad. He had been wanting me so bad and letting me know all day by grabbing my butt and stuff and whispering in my ear I cant wait until tonight. So I get all excited about tonight I get a shower,shave,put on my silky night gown and spray on some perfume and whats he do he falls a sleep in the chair. So I go to bed mad b/c I didnt get no lovin but he says I will make up for it tonight. Ever happened to you?

2007-12-18 02:22:37 · 21 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1