**he works in california, and he told me they still havent approved the days he requested to come to las vegas to get married
**He told me that why didnt i just go to california and get married with him over there, when he knows that my family would never accept that.
**He told me that he really wants to be happy with me, but that something isnt "right", he said that nothing is going right, and i guess he sees that as a warning sign...
**in the other hand, he told me all he wants to do is marry me and be happy with me
i dont know, please help me, yesterday he was a little upset with his mom because of an argument they had, so maybe thats why he was like this, or is he clearly trying to get off the wedding.... thank you so much.
2007-12-18 02:51:45 · 5 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Listen to him, and ask yourself is he marrying me are my family. Let your family know his dilemma. If you cant wait for his approval from work you better run to California if you cant live w/o him. The something isn't right might be your family influencing your decisions. Maybe he thinks this will be a problem later
2007-12-18 03:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question--why would your family be okay with you getting hitched in Vegas, but not in Cali?
How long have you been together? If it's just a short time, you probably want to heed the red flags that are waving. If it's a long time, then he's probably just having cold feet. If you're planning on marrying him, you should definitely be able to trust him.
2007-12-18 03:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you thinking too much? If it's easier to get married in California and you're okay with it then do it. If your family gets bent out of shape that's there problem.
2007-12-18 03:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start trusting your instincts and listening to your conscious.
Good luck.
2007-12-18 03:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
always go with your gut................if you analyze this too much, it might never happen (get married). Its best to be spontaneous
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2007-12-18 03:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sonadora♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋