If a man complains to you about his financial and family problem like you have the fault to everything. He tried to depart himself from you by getting what he wants, but then he include you in his work of arts? Like he does nude paintings of you without you modeling for him and he crown the things you and him do. Everytime I want to meet up with him he says that he wants to paint and he is not interested in getting married or having children when you're not even bringing it up worse do i have these stuff in mind.
2007-12-18 03:11:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has a hate/love relationship thing for you. Which frankly is not good for either of u. It seems that he does love u (he paints u) but since he is a painter he might be scared that falling in love with u means settling down, having a family, getting a normal job etc being responsible adult, thats why he brings it up without u even mentioning it. It seems that he needs to grown up and find himself as a person. And honey you will not help in doing that he needs to do that on his own and being with him will bring u heartache. Its not ur job to change him, chase him, pursue him or even be there for him, he is being honest and telling u he doesn't want a serious relationship the truth is that it would be best to leave him be and let him have his paintings. I guess he rather make illusions of u through his paintings than have u there. He might love u but i doubt he is good for u. Think about how contradictory his actions are and is that what u really want? Think about this now cause the longer ur in it the harder it gets.
2007-12-18 03:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by 2legit2quit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to paint. I've lost a few girls because I prioritized my guitars and guitar playing before them. Instead of going on dates, i'd stay home and play my guitar, instead of cuddling, i'd play my guitar (and cuddle, but ultimately with the guitar, not the girl).
as far as the financial and family problems, maybe he's just venting. you never know.
2007-12-18 11:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Goose666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a wonderful command of the English language. LOL Why would you want to be with the guy. He's not that interested in you.
2007-12-18 11:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like you're his muse (of sorts). You're his inspiration for his paintings, but not for his life. If he doesn't want to get married and you do, you should start looking elsewhere. I don't think you'll find happiness with him.
2007-12-18 11:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Continuing to be involved with someone like this only leads to more pain and suffering later on.
2007-12-18 11:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Muzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love maybe> wants maybe> Needs No
2007-12-18 11:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs someone to share his problems and relieve the stress of his life, you are one, although maybe not the only one, give him space but don't wait forever.....
2007-12-18 11:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kev C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I think its over..usually complaining starts after many years..
2007-12-18 11:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think he wants out
2007-12-18 11:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he cares for you, but he sounds very self-centered to me. I'd move on.
2007-12-18 11:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by timber_2246 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋