Marriage & Divorce - 18 December 2007

We've been physically seperated about 7 months but have been emotionally seperated for quit some time.

Anyway...I'm dating a man totally opposite of my husband. He's charming, affectionate, considerate, fun, loving, etc... and I don't want to keep him a secret for too much longer. Should I tell my soon to be ex about him?

2007-12-18 09:14:56 · 42 answers · asked by QuEEn B 4

2007-12-18 09:12:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 09:10:29 · 42 answers · asked by Julie 1

2007-12-18 09:07:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

For me..nnnnnnnnnoooooooooooo way man
I hater her..go to hell
lol

2007-12-18 09:05:49 · 16 answers · asked by High_Sun 2

I caught this girl in a hotel with a guy but she claims she was in his town and he needed help with a business plan.

She's been trying to convince me that they didn't do anything but I think they did since they were in a hotel together. What do you think?

Wish she would just tell me the truth.

2007-12-18 09:03:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im scared because I am pregnat this would be the third child, first daughter is not his. After almost 6 years of a really rocky relationship , I still have alot of issues with him and my first child.I feel i dont want to put up with him anymore. I was excited to have this baby , would be my last. but at this point I dont know what to do. Our last argument was because I took myself to the hospital and came home late after 1 week of having fevers, thank God im ok, well he decided to destroy our christmas tree because he was so mad, I cant take it anymore . I want to leave him , Im just very scared!

2007-12-18 09:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 08:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I got a few good answers to my question and some of u made me out to be the bad guy while others took her side.
maybe u need more details.
we had been married for a total of four years she commited adultry i tried to forgive her for it but about a year later after i had just brought a townhouse for us to live in she started right back up with her decitful ways and nothing i was doing was appreciated so i stopped making payments for about three months on the townhouse car note and etc cause she always said i dont do anything all she had to pay was the gas and lights and that total bill every month was no more than 50.00$
i eventually left cause we started to become physical with eachother within that time she kept my son from me for a total of three months then almost another half moth after that im 30yrs old she's 23yrs old am i still wrong for wanting to have custody of my son and she have visitation the way i feel is if she has to ask the state for support she dont need him

2007-12-18 08:56:56 · 17 answers · asked by REDRUM 2

My spouses' last name is not legal. There is no record of adoption by the people he took this name of. Does that mean our marriage isn't legally binding?

2007-12-18 08:54:41 · 9 answers · asked by used2bannie 1

My husband works. That's all he does. Days, evenings, weekends.

For months he's been telling me he's going to take off xmas so we can spend time together. Today he tells me he has work to do and won't be taking those days off. We never see eachother, it's just rediculous.

I don't need his money, I make my own and do just fine. He's just a workaholic that can't stop for anything. We had plans this Friday - my birthday - which of course got cancelled because of...guess what? Work.

I'm not sure I want to be married anymore. I mean, what is the point? What is the point of a relationship if you never spend time together, never talk, never go anywhere, do anything? Am I right?

2007-12-18 08:52:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I have been with a girl for about three weeks and last night I wanted her to sing for me on the phone (she used to sing). She refused and said she didn't sing for people anymore. I tried joking around with her and teasing her and saying she better sing for me but she didn't. Plus she got her hair cut and she knows I want her to grow it long. This really ticked me off. I don't want to threaten her because we haven't been going out long enough for her to establish an emotional bond with me so I think if I did she would leave me. How can I get her to do what I want her to do? Serious answers please.

2007-12-18 08:52:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see this more and more. The wives neglect there husbands and want no part of them but, the son who is married they keep running over there looking to cook and do things that the wife should be doing. I see this often. My friends wifes won't make there husbands a cup of tea but the son who no longer lives at home she is making a full blown meal because "his wife can't cook".. What is it with some of you ladies?

2007-12-18 08:51:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi I'm 21 years old and i have a 11month old daughter.Her father left me when i was 7months pregnant.I have a really good paying job, and i have my own place, i'm ready to live the "married" life and want a husband to love and to love me and my daughter! Do you think i'm rushing to want to get married since i'm young?

2007-12-18 08:49:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-18 08:48:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long distance relationship... one day she is say I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread then all the sudden no contact fo a few months then you are really great but I want to stay near my family but her family tells me she thinks I am the greatest too and are trying to tell her how great I am I'd of made those sacrafices why would I not be allowed just shuting the door on 3 years something is amiss wouldn't you say?

2007-12-18 08:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by Matthew E 1

Today is my anniversary. My wife got new ski boots for our anniversary and she already has them. We went on a ski trip last week for our anniversary and last night went to see Trans-Siberian Orchestra. My question is, if I give her some skanky lingerie or a new toy tonight is that bad or fun?

2007-12-18 08:37:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were together for ten years and he cheated on me. I moved out with our 8 month old baby at the time. He lives with this women in our house that we shared together. I just recently let him start seeing our daughter and we talk on the phone a lot. When he told me they had their son it bothered me and I don't know what to do. It bothers me that he has no problem of moving on with any problem. Why can't it be like that for me?

2007-12-18 08:37:33 · 23 answers · asked by A 1

Married 20years.Both always worked .no children together.small house worth about 100000. Have his and her children .

2007-12-18 08:35:36 · 9 answers · asked by rick g 1

2007-12-18 08:31:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you put it all out there and let yourself be completely vulnerable by completly trusting another. i love my husband and he's a great guy but i have trust issues stemming from traumatic past experiences. so any tips on how to just let it go and be ok with the feeling of vulnerability that comes with complete trust? i just would hate to be one of those people who blindly trusts someone just to get hurt down the line.

2007-12-18 08:30:31 · 14 answers · asked by Heather 3

2007-12-18 08:28:57 · 21 answers · asked by Candy T 2

had s e x with somebody in your office (actual place of business)? Was it with your wife, girlfriend, or mistress? Did you get caught?

2007-12-18 08:26:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many churches, religious organizations, and spiritual traditions view marriage as a vocation and also a wedding as a sacrament. Other spiritual groups and people see love and relationship as parts of spiritual paths. Do you agree or disagree and why?

2007-12-18 08:24:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes Brianna Iam talking about you LOl

2007-12-18 08:24:01 · 24 answers · asked by MrRight 3

Has anyone noticed that men have become the whipping boys of many aspects of culture? It is TOTALLY acceptable for people to berate, insult, or threaten men but women are totally protected (at least "out in the open").

Commercials abound with men who are idiots - who cannot cook, are breaking stuff/clumsy, unable to manage children, whatever. Then the intelligent woman comes in to save the day. Can you imagine the outrage if a commercial for an auto repair shop portrayed a woman as helpless and stupid in dealing with problems?

It seems that women have been taught that they should have it all - great career, fabulous house, totally obident husband, and be a great mother and everything. Problem is - these women then complain about all the work they have to do. They take it all on, and then moan about it. They neuter their husbands and render them incapable of making decisions without inciting their wrath.

Ladies - ACT like ladies. Treat men like men. We'll all be happier

2007-12-18 08:19:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you view polyamory (many loves) as something entirely different from swinging, the same, or as two separate lifestyles but also something that can both be done by the same people?

2007-12-18 08:18:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

it just seems like its such a rapidly growing up and coming kink, i wonder if anyone else has noticed it.

some psychology student might have a better reason for it, but if you ask me, if its happening it has to do with changing times. women by nature have a certain amount of sexual freedom becuse they are the choosers, but have been reigned in with labels, threats, and practicality. In a world where women don't have to marry a man to feed herself or be independent of her parents, and she can prevent pregnancy and vd through safe practices, why shouldn't she do what comes naturally

i, for one, think some women are naturally a little (not alot) promiscuous (studies show this is true, particularly during ovulation, as women have evolved to want one type of man to pass on genes to their children, and another to support them - whether you beleive that mumbo jumbo), and i think a day is coming where not even marriage will stop women from enjoying what mother nature has given them.

2007-12-18 08:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HAVE A TWO YEAR OLD SON AND HIS MOTHER HAS FILED FOR CUSTODY AND SUPPORT.
NOT BECAUSE I DONT SUPPORT HIM BUT JUST BECAUSE SHE DOESNT HAVE ALL THE THINGS THAT I BUY FOR HIM.SHE FEELS AS IF I SOULD HAVE TO DO THINGS TWICE IF U GET MY POINT.
IM NOT A RICH PERSON BUT I HAVE MY SON FOR 4 DAYS OUT A WEEK AND I BUY HIM CLOTHES SHOES TOY'S AND ETC.BUT SHE FEELS THAT I HAVE TO DO THE SAME FOR WHERE SHE LIVES AT HOW CAN I WIN

2007-12-18 08:17:53 · 8 answers · asked by REDRUM 2

I am in Cal and I have been seen this guy for over a year. he lives in my hometown TEXAS where my entire family is at. I have this rising career that demands a lot of me and allows me very little time to visit home.

This guy has my heart and is a very amazing warm hearted person. I keep canceling my trips to see him because my work is in a high demand of me! This breaks him into pieces and he is studying for his Masters and cant move over here… we want to move our Long distance relationship to another level because we both want to see each other more! He is tired of seen me only once every 2 or sometimes 3 months. What should I do? He fulfills my heart and takes my breath away! But my career gives me the stability and security. I come from a low budget family and I am scared of not having enough money to take care of myself! Oh I know I am an emotional mess right now he told me that he want to step away from our relationship because the distance and my work is just him!

2007-12-18 08:13:47 · 19 answers · asked by Just ME 2