We were together for ten years and he cheated on me. I moved out with our 8 month old baby at the time. He lives with this women in our house that we shared together. I just recently let him start seeing our daughter and we talk on the phone a lot. When he told me they had their son it bothered me and I don't know what to do. It bothers me that he has no problem of moving on with any problem. Why can't it be like that for me?
2007-12-18 08:37:33 · 23 answers · asked by A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It wasnt a problem, you left. now what? envious? why? she got a loser, be glad your rid of him. be sure you get lots of child support and dont stop til you do, get 35% of his pay while you can.
2007-12-18 09:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't have a problem moving on cause they never look back. It's natural to feel something seeing him with his new family in your old house. You need to remember the good times and the bad. And remember why you ended it in the first place. Sometimes it's just not meant to work out. Be thankful for your child and go on a make a good life for yourselves.
2007-12-18 10:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by love my life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is he burned you and moved on, and perhaps there is a little jealousy there. He was with you for ten years but he was a cheater - don't let him hurt you any more! I would say, don't torture yourself by talking to him on the phone. If there is a custody agreement, you have to let him see your daughter, but what you don't have to do is let him flaunt his new family in front of you.
Nurture and love your daughter, and let him live his life as he sees fit. He is history, just do whatever you can to help yourself move forward with your life with your daughter.
2007-12-18 08:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by pootie tang 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so he has kids with u and with this other girl u let walk all over u...u better than me..i wouldnt off givin up jack! not my house..not nothing! he cheated..he should of left the house for u n ur baby...now ur not there n hes new girl n new child is living there..whats that telling u? that he didnt realy give a rats assss.... move on and as long as u put his butt on childsupport then u should be ok ;-)
2007-12-18 08:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shrink this guy out off your life. what variety of guy or woman might deliver grimy texts to an previous gf in the event that they have a fiance and toddler on the way? What precisely do you want out of this? in case you proceed contacting him the probability is that your cutting-edge companion will locate out and then what? He might depart you and then your left with some loser. It sounds obtrusive he purely needs you for one element in any different case he does not be conversing grimy to you at such an early degree. you at the instant are not cheating yet via purely conversing to him yet you're heading in that direction so nip it interior the bud.
2016-11-03 23:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by dorry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can say to you is that time does help; it is hard initially when an ex creates a family with someone else. although i had moved on, remarried and very happy, it still stung when my ex and his wife had a baby... dunno why but it did. personally, i think women should stop having children by soooo many different men. i know thats way old fashioned in thinking but it just seems to be that everyone has a baby with whomever they are with these days. good luck to you and you will eventually move on.
2007-12-18 09:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you have a heart and he broke it. Just learn to let go. He's done that with you...Not all the way, but he'll always be part of your life due to the child you have in common. Don't let him hurt you further. Let go and except what has happened. Forgive him. He doesn't know what a good thing with you he had.
2007-12-18 08:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is an a** any respectful decent person would not have let you leave the house with a baby. He should have left. You have to stay strong for your baby. Don't entertain him by allowing him to flaunt his new life. It's going to be hard but you have to put him behind you.
2007-12-18 08:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and tell him your happy for him, and that you are praying for him. The trick is to be sincere about this. Even if you aren't a "praying" person; this might be a good time to start. The best thing we can do for our enemies is to wish good things for them. It's karma. If you wish terrible things on him it's only going to come back on you. It will help you to move on. All he has done is move away.
2007-12-18 08:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by On My Own 316 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other woman will probably be in your shoes in ten years !! You sound like a sweet lady and I have a feeling you will find a great guy soon !! Karma is a beautiful thing and yours will be worthy while the cheaters will suck!! Hang in there because you will be BLESSED !
2007-12-18 08:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by starr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl. It's wasting your time & energy fretting over a loser like him. If you really are having a tough time letting go, seek a counsellor or a close friend to talk to...other than that, let the LOSER go...he ain't worth a heartache over.
2007-12-18 08:45:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋