and secure in a relatioship.
So if comfort and security make women get fat and dumpy, what makes them get slim and well put together?
2007-12-18 03:08:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
having to find someone new.
2007-12-18 03:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 9⤊ 2⤋
Well.,.some people are lucky enough to burn off calories easily while other must work at staying slim. Also, thyroid problems can make it pure he** to maintain a great figure. I think being healthy is the most important thing and looking as good as you can with what you have.
I see men and women who are fat and dumpy, so it isn't a gender thing; it is a combination of genetics, the high-calorie fast foods we eat and medical and emotional problems that usually cause weight gain. Then there is gravity! Ah, pulling at us our entire lives.
Think we should all excercise, eat healthy foods; not for the weight loss but for our own physical well-being. Another thought, have you seen how high the prices are for vegetables and low fat foods? Many couples can't afford to eat the way they should; the fatty foods are less expensive. This is a shame - and I know of a few women who excercise 4 times a week and they are lucky to maintain the weight they are.
In the end, it is what is inside of us; not the exterior that matters. I'd rather have my 'a bit overweight' husband than any sexy, slim, conceited jerk who thinks more of his looks than he does of other people.
2007-12-18 09:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not only women dear. Have you seen how men let themselves go once their comfortable and secure? Not a pretty picture there either. The wind blows both ways.
the weight in women come from child bearing, being expected to be in the kitchen around the food, fixing all the meals! I think the only slim men who spend time in the kitchen are gay! Watch the cooking shows! Their 90% all over weight!!
Women also age in a different way the hormone thing.
ALL of my slim firneds, have the bucks to attend the gyms. All my slim friends have the hubby's with big bucks to keep them happy!
Make a woman happy and see if she loses weight!
2007-12-18 03:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah..I have heard the same thing about SOME men....
If you love yourself and your partner then you will want to look the best that you possibly can...It is true that SOME people...not just women...do get comfortable with their life and don't put much emphasis on their looks...I am almost 42...Have 3 teenagers and a baby girl that is 1 year old...I weigh only 5 lbs more than what I did when I had my first child 20 years ago....I weigh 120- 125 lbs at 5"6....I am weight conscience and I exercise to keep fit...
2007-12-18 03:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Comfortable translates to lazy. Everybody doens't get fat and dumpy. Some people work harder at good health.
2007-12-18 03:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Even though a lot of women say that they stay in shape (for themselves) the realoity is that it is the competition with other females that keeps them going. Once they have bagged a husband, that battle becomes unnnecessary and they can let themselves go.
2007-12-18 05:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ah, yes, this seems to happen very frequent among women who start letting their guard down & if their not careful it can end up causing much unwanted drama & they stand a chance of losing a good man. This usually happens to women who think they have their man, hook line n sinker, they feel like they won their guy over & he will never leave them, so in turn what happens is alot of men begin to lose interest in thier relationship & feel cheated, so all you women out their dont think your man is never gonna leave you over gaining weight & not taking care of yourself, you are wrong, he will.
2007-12-18 03:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by penelope 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When the guy looses interest>& are on the make again> The same goes when a guy get's like a blob>
2007-12-18 03:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When some people (men and woman) are unhappy with their lives, they eat to replace the feelings of satisfaction the relationship once gave them - it is their coping mechanism. Everytime my partner leaves me behind to go out with his friends, I get upset and angry with him, and I eat bad foods thinking "this will get him back" (as we are generally a healthy couple who eat extremely well and exercise).
It is when he makes me feel loved, appreciated, and attractive that I am encouraged to continue taking good care of my body.
He exercises and eats very healthy all the time - encouraging me to do the same if I don't want the competition to steal him! If he was fat and lazy, I wouldn't care so much about myself.
2007-12-18 03:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by Betty 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I never got fat and dumpy and I was married for thirteen years...but I have heard that too.
2007-12-18 03:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by MiaBella 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Many women do let their looks go once they have been a relationship for a while. It is disheartening to see your friends who were once stunning beauties become couch potatoes. For some reason some women feel that that man will always be there. Not so.
2007-12-18 03:17:42 · answer #11 · answered by shoes_717 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋