and they find nothing wrong w/ their actions? and you have talked to them about this situation before?
2007-12-18 05:20:53 · 18 answers · asked by AMANDA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am just like and you know what from experience if you love this person and you do not have any kids I know it is going to be hard and it is going to break your heart even more but you need to let go. My husband is like this and til this day he is still like this a sometimes I just want to pack my bags and leave but I can't and you know what from him I have learned to be strong and I have learned not to love and not to care so I advice you if you want to become a loving less person then stay with him and if not leave all he is going to do is continue to hurt you. Good Luck.
2007-12-18 05:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will tell you this if you keep excepting him back after he does whatever it is he has done he will keep on doing it. Right when you think okay hes changed he will go and do it again. Then, you ask yourself "Does he even Love me?" "Why does he keep on hurting me?" His actions when hes with you makes you feel like he loves you but then you find out the sh!t that he does when he isn't with you and its like hes this totally other person. Then you feel like what can I do to make him stop behaving this way. Love him more? Have sex with him more? But even when you do these things nothing changes. I think if you died today do you want to go out as the girl that never really found true love because you decided to stick with this guy who never treated or loved you the way you deserved. Is he really worth it. I'm sure he has nothing to complain about. He gets to do whatever he wants in streets and then he gets to still be with you. The one who is always waiting for him. Does he respect you? I would have to say no because he doesn't even respect himself. Could he ever give you what you want, no. I'm sure you've asked yourself what is your limit. What is it going to take for you to leave him? What is it thats going to send you over the edge that will make you not take one more ounce of his hurt anymore? This all comes down to you. This is your choice. You have very low self esteem as you already know. If you didn't you would not allow yourself to be treated like this. But thats okay. I'm not downing you but I think you need to show this guy that you don't need him to make you happy. That hes just an addition to your life and hey if he doesn't want to be a part of it and play by your rules then he can just "Kick Rocks". Because the reality of the situation is that you don't need him. You don't have to put yourself through this for nobody. Life is really too short. I think your stuck in this rut and you need to dust yourself off.
2007-12-18 06:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by 2good4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to call it quits. If you have talked to them and they see nothing wrong with their actions then they don't respect your feelings or you as a person. You need to let this person go or you will have a broken heart again and again and again. You can only take so much of this before it wears you out.
2007-12-18 06:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im valuable it hurts for somebody to enable you know all that cuz you may tell that he doesnt have faith you in any respect and thats merely unhappy. My suggestion is to easily enable him be, attempt to be calm im valuable he loves you yet possibly has have faith matters and he's overeacting and could know it faster or later, so merely be calm, do no longer text textile digital mail or call him and enable him be for a jointly as and notice what happens, if he doesnt ever call decrease back then which ability he on no account enjoyed you reason he cant teach that bc of that straightforward message you have been cheating thats merely dumb. he seems very immature goodluck
2016-10-08 21:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you provide more details... when you say "breaking your heart" is the heart breaker being cruel, cheating, thoughtless, abusive? Or are you heart broken for some other reason? Is this your first love? Has this person ever made any promises? it is so easy to come to the wrong conclusion without all the facts.... can you fill us in a little better... tks
2007-12-18 05:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Avia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have discussed the situation with them before and they keep doing what they are doing then as bad as it hurts to read then they probably do not care about you. Move on, you deserve someon that will treat you right.
2007-12-18 05:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by jjmoose2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone and they keep doing the same things over and over to break your heart and u have expressed ur feelings about what they r doing they either #1. dont care or 2. are seriously self centered and stupid. everyone deserves to have someone who loves them and u shouldn't waste ur time on some one that can't give u da same luv u give them u can do better.
2007-12-18 05:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a funny thing. Just because you love someone or they love you, doesn't mean that they can disrespect you or treat you like crap and it is okay.
I love my ex to death. But I learned that love doesn't fix everything and it doesn't make a relationship work. You are the one being hurt not him and he isn't going to change his behavior unless it effects him.
You have to set boundaries and consequences for his actions, and then stick to it. This may include and be up to divorcing him, like I did.
2007-12-18 05:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone loves you, they won't keep breaking your heart. Just remember that.
2007-12-18 05:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You save yourself via the nearest exit. Love doesn't hurt!
2007-12-18 05:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋