Im dating this guy that i have known for about a year, we started seeing eachother a month ago.he divorced his ex wife of 7 years because she found another man. but they have a 10 yr old daughter together, their separation took about two years and the divorce was finalized 4 months ago.do you think he still has feelings for her?
2007-12-18 04:44:12 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
prob that's a pretty long term relationship and their is a child involved to. maybe he is over her since she cheated on her, but he will prob have trust issues, which is not good for you
2007-12-18 04:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by dirt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason that she didn't make it to his future...
I am married to a man who has an ex and two children with her. I know what you're feeling. Sometimes you just need a little reassurance that it is actually over.
Don't worry. He wouldn't have moved on to you if he wasn't over her.
You do have to ask yourself one question though...
Are you able to handle her being a part of your life with him? They will always be in contact with each other because of their daughter. If you can handle this- then you'll be fine. If you are insecure- and I'm not just talking about the moments of insecurity that we all feel from time to time. I mean if you're really the jealous and insecure type- then you should look for someone else.
Otherwise- if you're into him, stick with it!
Good luck!
2007-12-18 12:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he was married to her for seven years and they have a child together...So he will always have a place in his heart for her as the mother of his child, if nothing else.
Secondly, she was the one who cheated, and they have been divorced for four months, so I would say it is a safe bet to say that he probably still have deep feelings for her...albiet, they may not be feelings that he wants to get back together.
Lastly, you will want to make sure you're not his "rebound" girl. He will work out all of his relationship fears on you and then leave you if you are. Be prepared for him to have issues of trust, but other than that, don't let him dump on you.
2007-12-18 12:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by ¤¤Je§§ica¤¤ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really he was with her for over 10 years he will always have feelings for her the question is, is he ready to move on? If he is ready to move on then just roll with it. You have to ask him if he is truly ready to move on to something else. He is not going to be completely over her for the simple fact the ex found some one else and not him so she got tired of things first not him. Ask him if he is truly ready to start a new? But make sure before you do so ask your self if you are ready to accept the trial and tribulations of dealing with a divorcee with a child? If not you should move on.
2007-12-18 12:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine he will always have some feelings for her as she is the mother of his child but that doesn't mean that he can't move on and have a relationship...
2007-12-18 12:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course... it was his wife, the mother of his child... Now, that doesn't mean he isn't moving on, but there is always going to be something there.
2007-12-18 12:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he still loves her no doubt about it butits a different love you i have a son and his father was abusive to me n i found someone else and i still love him even tho i am engaged to someone else. and i am preg agin and his new gf just had a baby
2007-12-18 12:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by odd_ball03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might.
Be there over, and you know it.
He probably will still be trying to get over he, because he might of really loved her.
OBVIOUSLY.
But he might already be over her, and loving being with you.
But no one can be prescise.
2007-12-18 12:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he did, he wouldn't of divorced her and got on with his life.
2007-12-18 12:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will always have feelings for her
2007-12-18 12:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋