Marriage & Divorce - 5 November 2007

I feel so guilty as i have a perfect marriage with nice kids!!Honestly i dont think the houseguest thinks the same!there is a 10 year difference between us.Please friends advice!!

2007-11-05 16:40:15 · 24 answers · asked by Kisses an Wishes 4

yesterday I found out that my grandfather died (he killed himself) my fiance kissed another girl, and I almost got hit by a car, i also watched two people die in the car crash.
why am I happier than I have been all year?
my fiance has been amazing and I honestly feel he is sorry, I dont believe in once a cheat always a cheat, because I have cheated in past relationships and I would never cheat on him.
but why am I happy am I going to crash soon?!! ahh this is weird I cant stop smiling and I have been depressed all year!

2007-11-05 16:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by chipped finger nails 2

im 24yrs old and i dont know what to do with my life. i dont like school and i have a good life but i know it can get better i dont know what to do. everday i wake up something in my soul screams CHANGE but i dont know what it is. i have some student loans and did not finish school. i dont want no more time to pass without me doing something. i have no kids so before i have kids i would like to have my life together........

WHAT SHOULD I DO.... SOME ONE HELP ME MAKE A DECISSION ON MY FUTURE!!!!!!

P.S. If you know someone who can help me let me know!!!!

2007-11-05 16:39:22 · 8 answers · asked by WildFlower 2

2007-11-05 16:30:27 · 27 answers · asked by Paul Sanchez 1

we dont want anything from each other, there is no children. we both just want to sign the paper and get if over. is there a easier way to handle it rather then all the paper work?

2007-11-05 16:27:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give me specifics on what you did or had to deal with. Thanks.

2007-11-05 16:24:45 · 7 answers · asked by Luis LU 1

2007-11-05 16:17:15 · 21 answers · asked by margie 1

How can i get my husband to get off the couch and go to the bathroom?

He wet the coach yesterday when he was watching football.

2007-11-05 16:13:19 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ugh. He just turned 20 and she is 18. He's in the military and they've been "a couple" for 5 months. However 1 of those months they each spent with someone else. (he thought she was it too) That was a whole month ago. Anyway, she has at least a few more years of college a head of her and he has a few more years of the military. Her mother is even all for it. (even being nice to lend her engagement ring for him to use to purpose) What in the hell are these three thinking? I'm actually embarassed for them. Should I just keep my mouth shut and let it be or be a Mom and let them all know what I think?

2007-11-05 16:09:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 16:08:12 · 18 answers · asked by ike_humphries 1

This has to be the hardest thing I ever did. But if you had to be in my shoes would you do the same thing?

Ok I should start off by saying I have a 2 year old daughter and I found that my husband her father is in to KP pictures a few months ago and I didn't know what to think about it when I saw one of the many pictures on he's MY Book hard drive and all I could think of was I didn't want him any where near our little girl until he gets help for that and until then I don't want him around her without someone in the same room with them at all times.

I just want to hear it from other people that if they had to be in my shoes right now that they would do the same thing. Because I don't want to hurt my daughter because mom and dad are not with each other anymore. But then again I also don't want her to get hurt or go through like what I saw on that picture of a girl and be scarded for life.

2007-11-05 16:07:12 · 14 answers · asked by JG78 3

My best friend and her husband have a loving and mutually respectful relationship. This is why I was shocked to learn that she had advised a mutual friend who had become physically violent with her husband during an intense argument (mutually aggressive) that this was normal and that most--if not all-- couples go through it once...it is a problem if it becomes a pattern, but that it is bound to happen to most couples once in their mariage. This has NOT been my experience in my own marriage but she cited the names of other couples who had become violent with each other at least once during an argument (shoving, slapping, spitting).... and I am still in disbelief.

I am interested to hear from couples to whom this has happened but have NOT made it a pattern....

2007-11-05 16:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by joellemoe 4

"What kind of dog is that?" Awkward situation...
We recently moved, and after I found out my ex lives about four houses down from us...
Ex as in ex boyfriend...
That was awkaward enough, and then tonight I was walking my pup, and his wife or who I thought was his wife asked me what kind of dog I had? To get my attention, yes... But why?

Once she got my attention she talked non stop , said she knew I was her boyfriends ex... OK, awkward... Small town yes, and what made it more bizzare is she is someone I know now is from my now hubbys highschool days...

OK, now why did she want so bad to talk to me? I have seen this coming several times over in passing ...
What if anything do you make of it?

2007-11-05 15:42:59 · 16 answers · asked by My Hubby's Be Be`♥ 3

My cousin has a 1-year-old daughter and at the time she got pregnant she was sleeping with 2 different people. She TOLD the guys from the start about her infidelities and neither of the guys offered to help with the pregnancy/ baby. She just now had a paternity test to see who the father was. She gets welfare assistance and that was one of the stipulations was to receive child support. Now the father is claiming abuse to the child because she didn't have the test done sooner. Is that really child abuse? She says the neither guy stuck around or tried to help her out until they could determine who was the baby's father so it didn't matter to her. That might have not been best for the baby but is that really abuse??

2007-11-05 15:34:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you or have you cheated on your spouce? Reasons why or why not.

2007-11-05 15:27:20 · 18 answers · asked by sweetjade210 4

How can i let someone i like a lot know that i understand him and that im very interested in him romantically without scaring him off? I recently met a man that has intoxicated me. To me, he's perfect. Only thing that makes me sad is that he says he's not ready for a relationship with me. He's going through a divorce right now and i feel bad cause i can't help him. He will be deploying out for about 6 months and i've told him I'm whilling to wait for him. I don't know if he completely takes me serious or if he thinks im just a stupid kid looking for a fling. He's had his guard up but i've experience him when its down and to me, he is exactly what i've always imagined wanting in my life. .. I just don't want him to move on without giving us a try.
There's an age difference (i'm 23, he's 38) but i dont care about that... i like him for what i'm discovering he is inside.

2007-11-05 15:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by norma 2

I'm still married, divorce not final. Separated but ex to be files constant contempt charges on me and flaunts his new whore in front of the children and expects all to accept this behavior. I discovered he was cheating and told him to get out, he refused and said I wont go u will, I will live in my house w/my children and u will pay me child support. Didnt go that way. I got the house and he finally was told to get out by the courts. Question is this nut such a control freak that he cant handle the fact that I discovered what was going on and took a stand?

2007-11-05 15:17:47 · 37 answers · asked by BLONDIE 2

now but I still hate him. He thinks I'm leaving when in reality, I have nowhere to go. He's begging me to stay and not divorce him. Any advice would be great. I have no place to go and I really like my home most of the time. Help. I don't want him knowing I'm stuck here. I'm so lost.

2007-11-05 15:16:36 · 50 answers · asked by jacquie 6

So many men today live with constant heart ake After sad females youse children in demestic break up,
The law seems to encourage them to take advantage of the So called D/V orders,
In my experiance I have Know of many woman to abuse this system, even in cases wher the father has been seperated from the mother for over 10 years. When are the goverment going to jump on this (BULLSHIT)? And let Dads be Dads.Again??????

2007-11-05 15:12:49 · 6 answers · asked by D'zinersnowfactory 1

To fake the O?

2007-11-05 15:11:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 15:00:24 · 18 answers · asked by Deborah A 2

My boyfriend and I are thinking about pursuing marriage counseling BEFORE we get engaged (actually he's against it, i'm for it).

If we go to counseling as a couple interested in marriage, what's it going to be like? Are they going to make us soul search about why we want to get married?

Are we going to roleplay each other? Talk seperately with the counselor about our issues? Talk about our fears in a group setting with other couples?

2007-11-05 15:00:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married right now and not at all happy. We've had alot of problems over the years and tried everything to fix it. I can honestly say I don't wanna be with him and don't have anymore feeling for him and the sight of him angers me so much. I know logicly the best thing for me and my daughter is move on and start a new life with out him, but for some frustrateing reason I'm scaredto let go. And its not casue I love him or bla bla. Its becasue i'm scared to be alone. which really makes no sense cause i'm alone with him. he works out of town for 4 days straight every week and we don't even sleep in the same rooms now when he is home. so how can i stop makeing excuses about how hard everything is going to be and just hold m head up and leave

2007-11-05 14:58:13 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica A 2

I am in 5th years of my married life.Found my sexlife with my husband quite dull and I really don't enjoy it anymore. I don't have any other relations, neither I feel attratcted to anybody. Have a kid , who makes me busy after office hour, have a very demanding boss, who is always chasing me with my works. Is it normal or shall I go and see any psychiatrist? Acting as if I am enjoying it ( just want to make my husband happy as he wants me to be very aggressive during lovemaking), but not wanting it at all is very painful for me. Not having any enjoyed sex also makes me angry and frustrated the next day. One thing, I remain very tired at night to manage my home and job together.
What shall I do now? need your advice badly, is ther anyone facing teh similar problem, or this problem of coldness is only with me?

2007-11-05 14:52:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 14:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a single young attractive female, and i am the secretary for the pastor of my church. He started telling me about his marital problems, and in an attempt to help out I listened. I figured everyone needs someone to talk to. At first I gave him advice on nice things to do for his wife, and then he started giving me hugs when I got into work. Since then his has kissed me and a little more. I told him that it’s not right, and that his wife would be devastated, be he doesn't seem to care. I don't know how to get out of this situation without losing my job, and not hurting everyone involved, including people at the church....What makes me feel worse, is that I love his wife and think she is an amazing woman. She's just busy and forgets sometimes that she's a wife too.

2007-11-05 14:48:36 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and I want to get married. He always says "some day". I know he loves me and I know I love him I just don't want to wait forever. Help... please.

2007-11-05 14:45:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

saw stars and then he whopped me a couple times on the back of the head pretty hard. I felt like stabbing him to death. Now I'm wanting a divorce and he doesn't want it. What's his problem besides me? He makes me sick. Any one else living this nightmare?

2007-11-05 14:43:41 · 17 answers · asked by jacquie 6

2007-11-05 14:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by ike_humphries 1

I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!

2007-11-05 14:34:28 · 3 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2