Marriage & Divorce - 5 November 2007

Me and my now soon husband have been togther for over 2 years. To make a long story short...he has a child with his ex. He has done alot of bad things to me....for a year he was trying to get back togther with her and SLEEP with her fool around behind my back. A million times I have forgivin him.. of the things that he calls mistakes. They keep happening I always check is phone. One nite I came home he had a naked picture of her in his pic mailbox from her name and number but once again he claims that I would be leaving him for a mistake. It was n accident...this happend about 2 weeks ago. All this stuff is not new hes pulled this before alot of times. He saids baby I promise I will never hurt you again. Words get old after you hear them over and over again if anyone knows what I mean. Am suppost to get married in a few days!!!! All this revolves around his ex in the past and now, he claims he hates her...I think different. Do you think he is a cheat????

2007-11-05 08:08:59 · 12 answers · asked by mommy08 2

Our dog, a pitbull mix my husband picked out and we've had for 6 years, recently bit my husband and today she tried to bite me, we have 2 young kids and I don't know what to do. I think I should have her put down because I really don't know any other options, what would you do? All shelters in my area put down pitbulls anyway and I don't feel comfortable giving her to a friend or family member because she might bite them.

My husband says he doesn't care.

I just don't want to be the mean b*tch? what should I do?

2007-11-05 08:08:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are moving and he wigs out.

2007-11-05 07:58:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made a really stupid decisions?or maybe i should say a lot of stupid decisions.I got married right before i turned 21 yrs old and still in college.My husband was the perfect christian type guy that my parents and family had always wanted for me.He was almost done with him masters at age 26 and had a very good job at an insurance company.I was trying desperatley to forget my first love and bf who had been my first everything in HS(senior year).I had been on a few dates with other guys nothing serious and i even dated one guy for about a year but he moved to a different college so we broke up.My ex.bf came back to me for a fling i went along with it for a while and i ended it because it was taking its toll on me mentally /emotionally.My problem is even though my hubby is a good guy in his own way i dont feel in love with him?I feel for him as a close friend but no matter how i try i cant feel (love) in that way for him...Even after seeing a therapist a few times?

2007-11-05 07:42:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I printed everything out. Why won't guys just admit when they cheat. WHy would someone cheat on a wife, and deny the whole thing?

2007-11-05 07:33:49 · 28 answers · asked by Karmin T 2

I am recently married to the man of my dreams and his ex-wife and mother to my step-sons does nothing but interfere in our relationship. She is always calling making up any excuse to talk to my husband. I know what most of you are going to say...they have kids together. I am well aware of that. But she doesnt call to talk about the kids...I feel like she just calls to lisen to the sound of his voice. Even at our kids school events, she bumps my arm on purpose. Mind you, she is also 10 years older than me and should know better, but I take the upper hand and ignore it. She is re-married and just had a baby...how can I get her to move on or just focus on the kids.
Oh yea, and the youngest asked me the other day what it meant when someone calls me a "b*tch".

2007-11-05 07:26:00 · 13 answers · asked by Rocky 2

Do you guys believe that each person has ONE soulmate out there made especially for them? Or do you think everyone has a number of soulmates out there and it is just a matter of which one you will meet first?
For those married people-are you married to your soulmate, and if so, how do you know?
THis is just a question to see what people's opinions are on the subject. Serious answers only, please! :) Thanks.

2007-11-05 07:18:58 · 43 answers · asked by moon&stars 3

My husband's ex-girlfriend is exotic dancer in go-go bar. I'm so shocked when I find out. I thought he will be more picky. He never told me until now. Any chance he will leave me and find other go-go girl again? Are they always after his money? He doesn't has money. Sometimes he goes out and drinking with his friend in those bar. Anyway, she's no longer here and move out of state. Still, i'm so trilled to find out this. I thought he will be more picky.

2007-11-05 07:16:39 · 22 answers · asked by Penny 2

solitaire league anywhere? Can someone help???

2007-11-05 07:16:10 · 11 answers · asked by Josh Fenix 1

I saw my ex husband (divorced 7 years) this weekend at a baptism that one of our mutual friends had for their daughter. I am very happily remarried and my current husband was with me and I've always been attracted to him. The weird thing is, I was physically attracted to my ex this weekend! That hasn't happened since we've split, even freshly separated, so it's a little strange. Has anyone else ever had that attraction again after a divorce or separation? Did you mention it to your current spouse? Thanks for your help.

2007-11-05 07:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 07:11:52 · 16 answers · asked by Andre 7

BTY.. Im married ..everytime he called me.. he always tell me.. Im much more nicer than his wife.. he told me his wife was mean to him... ...

2007-11-05 07:08:27 · 17 answers · asked by back2future 5

how many of you people fart in front of your spouse? yeah i mean how many of you people are that open?

he he i know that my hubby lets them rip everytime he has to, but i in the other hand cant!!! its like i talk to him about anything, show him everything amd be anyone, but not this. i cant fart infront of him.

and please those of you that dont have a good response, you really dont have to answer..........

2007-11-05 07:07:33 · 25 answers · asked by ♥Sonadora♥ 3

Is it realistic to ask someone to promise you that they won't cheat?

2007-11-05 06:58:03 · 22 answers · asked by Tabatha 1

2007-11-05 06:57:42 · 19 answers · asked by tarun_passion 1

My husband and I went over to another couple's house for the first time. After dinner we decided to play a Monopoly. I had never played the game before, but I went along. Anyways, after about an hour I started winning. The friend's wife got pissed because she was losing (she's a monopoly fanatic) and started an argument with her husband. She ended up storming from the table and up the stairs where she slammed the bedroom door and refused to come out. My husband and I decided to leave immediately, but not without him berating me for ruining the night. I was appalled because I didn't think I did anything wrong and it was just a stupid game. About half an hour later, she called to apologize. My husband agreed with her that it was because I was a "stingy" player that ruined the night. Am I wrong to be pissed at him for not taking my side? (Another friend said that he and his wife stopped hanging out at other friend's because arguments always happened when they play the game.)

2007-11-05 06:38:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not a resident and im here on a student visa. need to go back to the uk, where im coming from, if i dont get one within next 4months.
me and my girlfriend love each other and weve been datin for over a year now. we both are 21.
do you think I should leave her and go back
or ask her to marry me so I can stay with her?
its a big thing to ask but she loves me and we both feel that there is a potential future for us.
give me ideas of how I should act!
she knows i need her help but i havent seriously talked to her about it, and im scared to tell her everything then she gets the impression of I want the citizenship more than a marrage which is not true.

2007-11-05 06:30:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend (23y/o) and I (26 y/o) have been together for about 2 1/2 years, and we've lived together for over a year. For the last week and a half or so he hasn't really had sexual desire for me. We used to love having sex and were intimate often, and I know he was happy with me as a lover. He says he loves me very much, but he nervous about our level of commitment and is starting to panic about being with the same woman forever.

Do all guys go through this phase? Do guys get over this? Is the only way for him to get over it to get back on the field? Please don't just respond with a standard "dump him" response; I'd like to hear stories about other couples who went through this and how it turned out.

2007-11-05 06:28:10 · 20 answers · asked by natasha the sleuth 3

I got married on Friday, and I am planning on changing my last name to my husband's last name. I am wondering, do I need to go to the Social Security office first, or the DMV to change my license. I mean if I go to the SS office first will they need my updated name or old name?
I'm confused.

2007-11-05 06:25:42 · 14 answers · asked by twistedangel4023 2

... do you think you could have done just a LITTLE BIT better?

JUST a question, curious about your answers...

2007-11-05 06:25:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

And when you went to pick up his vehicle from the pound,there was cards on the seat that he had just went to an all NUDE caberet?

And you had never known before that he went to places like that.

Also that place is one of the dirtiest all nude place there is in your city?The dirtiest.

2007-11-05 06:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to be happy,i want to do things right .i just left a bad relationship .

2007-11-05 06:23:16 · 15 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3

Please don't tell me Heaven doesn't allow that because if it doesn't, then Heaven sounds like it's no better than Hell.

I like who I am and I know what I like. I don't want to change against my own will into something I'm not right now. I know what I like and I want to still fulfill all of my fantasties, including all my sexual fantasies that I have right now.

2007-11-05 06:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs and we have two kids together. He has become this angry person who snaps at everything and has also become very insecure since I lost 25 pounds. I feel like maybe it's time that we go our seperate ways, but then I cant stand the thought of him being with someone else and having them around our kids. I don't know what to do. I've tried talking to him but he does not want to listen to anything that I have to say.
Anyone with good advise, please help!!

2007-11-05 06:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by g-girl 2

2007-11-05 06:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by vickyhebbe 2

Is this a sign that I am finally over the pain of betrayal and ready to move on? Our marriage may not have been perfect but we were great friends. We could talk about anything. Now it seems that when I call him about our son or he drops by to pick him up he tries to extend our conversations by talking about his family, work, etc. It is sad really. I do not want him to be miserable. Why don't people think of all they can lose before they cheat??

2007-11-05 06:07:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can't figure whether or not to marry this woman..she is really attractive, very smart, rich, sweet, widowed and has a 14 yr. old son. I am overweight, smart, broke, moody and have a 14 yr. old daughter who goes back and forth between my house and her mom's (my ex) every other week. My daughter is spoiled, but that is only because my ex and I want to keep her happy, and sometimes end up competing to get her the most stuff. When my daughter is with me, I like to take her everywhere she wants to go, take her out to dinner, movies, so it leaves my fiance out of the picture. My fiance doesn't get it because if I don't do everything my daughter wants, she gets real huffy and mad and I don't want her to live with her mom full-time. So, I'm mixed up because my fiance says she's tired of being left alone every other week, & my kid doesn't want her around and really doesn't want her son around because I give them attention when they are. How do i keep my daughter number 1 and still get married?

2007-11-05 06:03:54 · 10 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4

3sum on their wedding night?

2007-11-05 05:51:55 · 23 answers · asked by Leesa K 2

i recently posted asking for advice on my mums husband , that he wasnt pulling his weight and he was an ar*e basically
anyway the advice i got was good but i was walking up my mums path tonight and i could hear him shouting at her so i walked in the house just at the right moment i think my mum was sitting on the couch and he was standing over her with his hand in the air ready to hit her as he didnt hear me coming in you should have seen the look on his face when i grabbed his wrist so we ended up outside on the front garden fighting the police where phoned and he has been takin away i am just about to go to the police station with my mum for a statement looks like this guys got wat he deserved , i knew i was right all along any way thanks for the advice and please use this to get points for ur comments folks

2007-11-05 05:51:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

shall i leave him . he give more importance to reading newspaper and his job than finding some time for me suggest what i should do ?

2007-11-05 05:21:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous