Marriage & Divorce - 5 November 2007

how did you accomplish that?

2007-11-05 03:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee just got hit with 17,000 in back child support for a child he wasn't aware of until just recently when the papers were filed. It's his kid, and we are going to file for visitation, but does anyone know how we can get help paying this down. We are a minimum wage family and we have 5 other kids between us. We just don't have that kind of money. Any help please. Thank You

2007-11-05 03:12:33 · 10 answers · asked by Mommi 1

When we find out that someone is cheating and lying to us, why do we want that person to be the one who comforts us? When we see them for who they truly are, why do we long to be with them?

2007-11-05 02:54:53 · 13 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

what kind of custody would he be awarded?

2007-11-05 02:53:43 · 4 answers · asked by lisa c 1

I spoke to my husband cuz i,ve always fanced a threesum with my husband and another woman so of cause he was delighted about this and we have arranged one for this weekend coming 10th Nov, although i,m really excited there is a part of me thats thinks is this wrong. We have a great relationship and sex is great to but it,s something that i have always fantansied about. i,m not the jealous type so i know that should not be a problem and its better then going behind each other backs, so should i wait to see if we enjoy it and then say no more or should i put a stop to it now?

2007-11-05 02:53:23 · 50 answers · asked by caz 1

make the spouse (who did not take the loan or go to school) pay for 1/2? If anyone knows of where there is any legal information on this it would be helpful

2007-11-05 02:51:58 · 5 answers · asked by badneighborvt 3

They all say that their wives were horrible, nags, sluts, etc. That is not interesting and it is the same story over and over again that all fallen husbands tell.

I want to know what is it that you think that you did that made him choose YOU? Please try to be honest.

Was it kinky sex that his wife wouldn't have?
Was it listening to his stories over and over again?
Was it giving him a hug every morning?
Was it your cooking?
What?

Thanks.

2007-11-05 02:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband kinda upset met his morning about rules with the kid's and all its just a bad day :(

Can someone help me

2007-11-05 02:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for 10 years. We do no thave kids. I am at the end of my rope with her. All she does is complain about how horrible her job is and that nobody likes her. This is the 4th job, but finally a career, and every where she has gone it has been the same. I am as supporitve as i can be but can no longer take all the complaining. I think she is depressed and wont do anything around the house. She needs to study for tests and ends up watching TV, eating or falling asleep. She accuses me of sneaking around, but i dont. We both work full time and i take classes 2 nights/week. I can see she is not happy, and i know i am not. I dont sleep well anymore and i started smoking again after 6 years after quitting. She keeps in touch with her family from another culture and complains about how my family is. I dont think i can take this much longer. When i tell her how i feel she gets angry with me for expressing myself, so i dont anymor.Any ideas on how 2 make it better

2007-11-05 02:40:58 · 31 answers · asked by Bloodsucker 4

My husband and I are currently in counseling for marital problems. I want to call it quits, my husband wants to work it out. I've been trying to 'work it out' for years and we're not getting anywhere. He has a 17 year old son from a previous marriage who lives with us about 1/2 at our house, 1/2 at his mother's. Why are they, my husband and the counselor, forcing me to endure them longer than I already have? any ideas?

2007-11-05 02:33:10 · 17 answers · asked by Amy V 4

I have been with this man for 5 years...we have a 3 year old son and have lived together since he was born. I have not gotten a ring and he does not want to discuss marriage. Our son keeps asking him why dont you marry my mommy.....even though I have no idea where he got this from maybe school? His parents have been married for 35 years so he does not come from broken home. He does not know a reason why....I know it is morally wrong...but am I wrong for wanting to keep the family together and I dont want my child to have to split holidays...we get along fine...but morally it bothers me that we are not married.....please help what do I do again he is a great man treats me well everything is great other than the marriage deal.....I am a christian but unfortunately feel guilty for the situation I am in but feel even more guilty for splitting up the home

2007-11-05 02:27:56 · 22 answers · asked by chickenorfish 1

My mom and dad got divorced when I was 1 year old and i have never had a problem except for the back and forth.since i've turned 11 now 13 i've been fighting with my mom almost everyday.we might get in a fight about losing something and then she brings up my dad and says why don't you live with him.she also said a few days ago that she didn't want to see me anymore and that i didn't love her, but i do every child does.i am really mad that she said that. she even called me at my dads right after she dropped me off and said if you want to stay just call me and i'll bring your stuff over.when we were in the car she just kept saying mean things i didn't know what to say.i just sat there crying I didn't know what to do.it was the worst thing that has ever happened to me.you know my friend has experienced divorce and her mom is almost never there but this seems much worse.It is not good but i think im depressed and sometimes i have thoughts of just getting my life over with and killing me

2007-11-05 02:23:57 · 7 answers · asked by stinky_poo1 2

My life at home really sucks. me and my mom fight all the time, she tells me i was a mistake and she doesn't care for me anymore, and i live in new jesery and the amancpate law doesn't apply here and i need out badly, i really need some help.

2007-11-05 02:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by suferchick 1

Wife of one year just stated therapy for a sleeping pill addiction a second time. Had her third meeting with the therapist Friday and missed it because there were to many people that had called in sick that day at work so she could not take the hour off. She was unable to get a hold of the therapist to reschewal as of the end of the day on Friday. The big thing they talked about the first day she went to therapy was that she had to make her 1# over everything including work and marrge. I am so disappointed that she didn’t go I just don’t know what more I can do make her relies how important it is to get the help she need. How bad is it that she missed her 3rd therapy session? Is this common in rehab situations? How do I get her to understand how important the therapy is to our marrge? I just moved back in 7 days ago!

2007-11-05 02:01:58 · 8 answers · asked by irishfirefighter762 1

which i stated in my last question. i pulled no punches. i told her how i felt. i told her i feel very unhappy & that changes need to be made. she said she would try & make those changes. she never gave me a reason why she blew all that money. about the kids she told me that the kids ( they are nt my kids they are 4 & 7. i have no kids) shouldn't have a bedtime on the weekends that i am just overeacting. about the discipline, she said that she would try but says the kids won't listen to her & she's the parent!!! i wac told i can't discipline the kids. one day later her mom calls her up & tells her that her co worker is married to a guy that works w/ my gf. she says her husband told her that my gf was flirting w/ him. my gf denies this & told me she would talk to him the next day about this & her supervisor. she never did & gave me some bs excuse. i'm just tired of this crap!!! i'm starting to think that i was a wallet & i'm pissed. i may nt date another girl that has kids. help me??

2007-11-05 02:00:11 · 11 answers · asked by petey 1

my husband has lost his sex drive i think because ive put on about 3 stone .he isnt actracted to me any more but iam only a16_18 dress size.and weve been married for 10 years and have 5 children.

2007-11-05 01:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by big mama 3

What I am going to say may sting some people but my opinion on relationships will be broad so bog down with me. In the beginning of relationships, your mate is willing to do anything for you, the newness of a fresh relationship feels good because we can camouflage many of our flaws and only allow your mate to see the good side. This misleads and becomes is a mirage, a mask that your mate falls in love with. In theory, when things go wrong, (which it will eventually) the person that you thought you knew, you really don’t know. Their actions are something that you’ve never seen before, rationality is out the door, my way or the highway is in overdrive! In these types of relationships, the couple only brought themselves in halfway, which will always lead to destruction of a relationship. People like to hit the EASY BUTTON, Instant gratification seems to be the way of society, Aside from drug and alcohol abuse, and infidelity, why do people just give up? www.overstand.o-f.com

2007-11-05 01:20:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I notice girls tend to have lots of guy friends when they're at school and stuff

is this a fad that dies off?...I hope so because I don't want my wife associating with other guys at all

can any married women tell me if they still keep having guy friends?

2007-11-05 01:14:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter insists that it is not Christian-like to marry a younger man but she says it is ok to us to live together forever. She says that he can even but me a ring but no paper is gonna be coming along with it. My son tells me to just ignore her and dont stress over it. my daughter is 21 and my son is 23. What is your advice?

2007-11-05 00:52:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married a year and a half and have 2 kids and now Im 4 months pregnant with baby number 3... we planned this one lol. BUt yet he never seems to give me attention. He has always been like this but now its just getting worse. He wants to be with the computer. Honestly he woke up early to get him self off this morning.... and I went to bed 2 hours early last night and yet nothing. He has done this before but now he is doing this again. What should I do? Is this normal? I think he might be cheating all of a sudden he won't let me look at his cell phone but when ever I do look at it. It hass phone numbers I've never seen before. Is my marriage already ending?

2007-11-05 00:38:47 · 27 answers · asked by crazy_cat_lady 4

I need to break away from him,, he says if his wife chose to divorce then he would but he wouldn't be the one who said he wanted a divorce even though he says he is miserable and they do not even sleep in the same room,, I told him I wouldn't want to be with him that way,, if he loves me the way he says he does then he should be the one who initiates the divorce,,,I feel that if she divorced him he would only be coming to me because she did not want him,,,, I never in a million years thought I would ever be in this situation and when we met i was just curious to see what it would be like to sleep with someone older than me,,now every time I think about him not being in my life i just cry but I know deep inside that i cannot go on like this,, i am also a single mother and cannot afford to take time off from work,, I am trying to figure out a way of weaning myself away so its easier on my heart,, if anyone has any suggestions please help me

2007-11-05 00:18:02 · 25 answers · asked by beaq 1

my boyfreind cheated over me..he is getting married..but he still lies..he calls me ..he says he wants to meet me..he tells me tht i cant do with out you..he wants to kiss me..wants to make out with me..when i tell him tht have some shame..you are getting married..he tells me not right now..i'll be geting marrried but after some months..but the truth is tht he is getting married in 20 days....but the girl he is getting married to does not exit..he is faking her name..he is getting married to tht girl for whom he betrayed me..pls tell wht should i do..should i go for his wedding?

2007-11-05 00:17:08 · 13 answers · asked by littlemermaid_2001 1

Can flirting outside a marriage spice up the married life of a couple?

Do you look down upon people who don't do it?

2007-11-05 00:16:26 · 16 answers · asked by Razor 5

Not to me i dont care.

2007-11-05 00:07:07 · 30 answers · asked by tony s 5