Would you or have you cheated on your spouce? Reasons why or why not.
2007-11-05 15:27:20 · 18 answers · asked by sweetjade210 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not concidering cheating, I have no one to cheat on! Its just a question, I'm just curious as to how many people actually do cheat.
2007-11-05 15:38:51 · update #1
Yes, because she was preoccupied and I was bored.
2007-11-05 16:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have not and won't. Cheating doesn't solve any problems a marriage may have it only compounds them. There is no good reason to cheat on a spouse. If the marriage can't be saved, then divorce but don't cheat.
2007-11-06 00:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People cheat beause they should never have gotten married in the first place. Lack of respect for the spouse is another reason, or lack of self control. Losers cheat.
2007-11-06 00:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated and will never. I have a wonderful husband and I would never want to put him thru that. People who cheat are basically telling their spouse, I settled for you and since you're not everything I wanted, I'll supplement with someone else. Nice. I also look at the single people I know (not that there's anything wrong with that) I just would never want to have to play the dating game again.
2007-11-05 23:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by G Mama 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No and I wouldn't. I love him too much to ever do something so hurtful and disgusting. I've been cheated on before by other men and I know how much pain it causes first hand.
If you are considering it do your man a favor and let him know how you are feeling so that he has the option to get out now before you take a sledgehammer to his heart.
2007-11-05 23:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Meggie Smalls 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i was married the first time for 34 yrs. i just couldn't get past when the mental abuse started and it caused me to have a nervous break down. so i got into another marriage and in the beginning it was good. then one week before the wedding he hit me because i said no to nasty mouth mis thang to come to the wedding. it's been drama. but after that i still married him now i'm just trying to deal with it. i don't do stress well
2007-11-06 02:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single virgin male here!
I have spent 26 years of my life in celibacy. I have dated but never slept with anyone. Cheating is just out of the question. I know I am inexperienced in sex, and hence I will never be dissatisfied with whatever I get from my wife!
2007-11-05 23:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated but my ex-wife did.She blamed it on booze,but I use to drink as well and I never cheated,and she enjoyed saying it "Was only sex,she loved me" No I didn't buy it and we are divorced now for over 15 years.I hope you never have to go through that feeling!Good luck.
2007-11-06 00:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by notagain49 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My first two husbands i did cheat on them only because they did it first. Now my third husband cheated also after 17 years of marriage but i have not cheated yet,it's been 10 years when he did that to me. I think to much of myself to sleep with another man just to get back at my husband. The first two times i was so young i just wanted toget even.
2007-11-05 23:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I feel I would be true till the day i died .... for the right person. I was married 17 yrs and never cheated. It was family first no matter what.
2007-11-05 23:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Only scumbags cheat on their spouses, I hope your not considering it. This question will probably be deleted in 10 minutes anyway...
2007-11-05 23:30:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋