How can i let someone i like a lot know that i understand him and that im very interested in him romantically without scaring him off? I recently met a man that has intoxicated me. To me, he's perfect. Only thing that makes me sad is that he says he's not ready for a relationship with me. He's going through a divorce right now and i feel bad cause i can't help him. He will be deploying out for about 6 months and i've told him I'm whilling to wait for him. I don't know if he completely takes me serious or if he thinks im just a stupid kid looking for a fling. He's had his guard up but i've experience him when its down and to me, he is exactly what i've always imagined wanting in my life. .. I just don't want him to move on without giving us a try.
There's an age difference (i'm 23, he's 38) but i dont care about that... i like him for what i'm discovering he is inside.
2007-11-05 15:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by norma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ohh sounds like he doesnt want to hurt you..and wants you to live your life as he is going away.............how very mature of him............. tell him to stay safe and that you hope you and he will catch up when he returns.................... it may all be different for you when he returns if he really has feelings for you ...it will be then to you will know .......... men can be strange to work out but my own lessons with them have taught me many things about there feelings ..good luck
2007-11-05 15:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should care about the age difference. Maybe it doesn't mean much to you now, but when you both get a lot older it will become a real problem. If he is getting a divorce, there is a reason. He probably isn't good relationship material. Find some one closer to your own age. Some one single, without baggage.
2007-11-05 15:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a big age gap, are you looking for a dad or a man? Sorry, if you honestly want a relationship with him. Be available to him as a friend. If it is meant to be, it will grow into something more.
2007-11-05 15:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by G Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a big age gap. I'd say just be his friend. Be a good close friend. Don't advise him during his divorce. He needs for that to be his own thing. Good Luck
2007-11-05 15:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋