Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2007

hi my ex still loves me and i love her but she cant seem to forget the past and start over please help.

2007-11-01 05:59:12 · 12 answers · asked by Spider O 1

2007-11-01 05:53:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

married 7 yrs
3 kids 2 are 5 or under
wife has a cleaning women 1 time a week.
She does not work by her choosing
2 kids are in school till 2:30 pm each day.
She has money to spend.

She claims she is to tired for sex all the time.

advice please!!!!!!!

2007-11-01 05:52:29 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if you think it's possible, how do you choose which one to be with?

2007-11-01 05:51:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and have been with my husband 10 years. I have a friend who is 13 years older than myself who gets me and loves me for me. We are in love with each other but due to my love for my husband keep our relationship with certain boundrys. Should I leave my husband for this man? He has been married and divorced, 3 times. Not such a good record, but I know we are the ones for each other. He is a soldier and not many women can deal with military life, hence the divorces.

2007-11-01 05:44:30 · 18 answers · asked by monkey 1

2 mths married , not broke but we argue about money

2007-11-01 05:38:31 · 37 answers · asked by bleueyze2 1

posted this on site yesterday, but was in a hurry, so will explain a bit better. this is my brothrs problem but hope u can help. he bought his property outright 7yrs ago, 5yrs ago he got married and had a baby now 4.she has never paid anything towards bills,furniture,nothing.she has keept her tax credits and child allowence in the bank since the baby was born. she has never worked. now she want me out, and sta in flat. can she do this? and where do i stand? any help in this matter i would be grateful. thanks.

2007-11-01 05:37:00 · 11 answers · asked by deborah w 1

He's not physically abusive or cheating, but I'm not happy in our marriage. Anything I've done doesn't get through to him or just doesn't work. I'm not perfect either, but I'm Always the one compromising and he's always getting his way. I'm afraid I'm going to resent this and end up doing something drastic like cheating or something later on...

2007-11-01 05:33:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, what effect does it have on you and your relationship?

2007-11-01 05:31:28 · 23 answers · asked by cyranonew 5

We were together for about 10 years in total and he only worked off and on, i ended up paying the bills and he managed to help me get into debt, He was 7 years older than me and i met him at 17, he used to take money out the joint account no matter what we had to pay, i had 2 loans to help us, credit cards etc. We split up in the March05 but i continued to support him till the house was sold in the October 05 and he transfered all the £42,000 from the joint account and left me with £300 he'd borrowed to pay the solicitors bill. we owed my parents a couple of grand as well and he said he'd pay them but he hasn't,i'm now being chased for a gas bill that i didn't even know was in my name, my parents helped pay some of the debts to the CCj's i had, what can i do, i was to scared of him to do anything before. I've had about £16,000 worth of debt to pay off, i've bad credit now and can't get my own house now or any credit, and i feel so bad that my parents had to use their savings to help me

2007-11-01 05:30:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

The following is something that happens on a regular basis with a couple that hubby and I are friendly with. The four of us ( couple, hubby and I) will be visiting in the kitchen for example. Hubby will leave the room to get something, and as soon as he leaves, the guy ( guy friend in other couple) will start kissing and hugging and groping around on his wife like they are suddenly alone ( I am still there! ) in the room. Its like all extreme pda all of a sudden and I feel uncomfortable like I should leave the room or something. Should I leave the room, like pretend to go fetch something, or make "ahem" noises, or continue to stand there uncomfortabley. Its odd, it happens very regularly ( the guy is a lifelong friends of my hubbys so I dont want to just be rude). And as soon as hubby comes back, they are all normal again. WTH? Why do they do this when he leaves, stop when he returns, act like Im not there even. What should I do in the future when this happens? Its kind of gross.

2007-11-01 05:27:51 · 23 answers · asked by undone 4

I love him and know it's not his fault. He says it's mental. That it's just too good. Should I wish it weren't so he can last? I want it to be more than 2 minutes. There is foreplay, alot of kissing and hugging but I want to actually feel him for a little more. Any suggestions?

2007-11-01 05:21:01 · 28 answers · asked by Lily 3

As a wife if your husband was quoted, describing his feelings for you, like this:


"I have a lot of respect for (name removed to protect the innocent) as an artist, as a woman. She's a very strong, gracious woman. She's very funny, a great comedian."

2007-11-01 05:14:41 · 12 answers · asked by Notagain 6

But every time I hit redial on his phone his wifes # is on his phone.We each have our own homes.l feel like he's living a double life.If I am right I want to end the relationship.I am not looking for marriage but need trust.I hate to accuse if I am wrong.Any ideas?

2007-11-01 05:11:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

You have 3 kids 2 in schooll till 2:30pm
1 baby 9 months (boy)
you have cleaning women once a week.
you have money to spend.
Does my wife have the right to complain?

2007-11-01 05:05:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband confessed his worst fear to me, he said he has phobia towards certain type of women, after they had baby, they doubled their size and won't be able to keep up with their fashion sense, to sum it up, his worst fear is "housewives"

2007-11-01 05:02:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if your wife wanted to go with you to work, or school,
Why would you tell your wife that you wished that you never had a baby with her? And that she screwed your life up?

2007-11-01 04:59:35 · 16 answers · asked by .☆She Wolf☆. 3

How would you explain your husband of 2 years lose interest in you? I mean intimate, physical interest. We're seeing a therapist who has asked him if he's gay (in front of me), and I've asked him the same. Also believe he's not cheating. He denies anything. He can go months without any sex. He's a touchy person. He told me once that holding hands was just fine for him - I said it wasn't for me. So our lives are like roommates and sharing household expenses. I sleep with a log next to me. I planned a romantic getaway at a B&B, and he was focused on trekking the town, and was tired and fell asleep by the time we got back. He is taking some meds for mild depression and low testosterone - but he put both all off til I asked him to do something. Is this possible or am I in a non-human relationship? Do you think he knows what's going on and doesn't tell me? I'm becoming numb too, and it's not healthy. There's no emotion. It wasn't like this when we were dating.

2007-11-01 04:52:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

5 years ago I called 911 when my 9 y.o. daughter told me what happened between her and my then husband. He was arrested but we left the country to avoid all the stress. He was released from jail. We divorsed.
I came to an understanding that he just touched her inapropriately. But now I found out that she thinks he actually raped her and feels that I did not defend her enough and she lost her trust in me. I don't know were to find help.

2007-11-01 04:50:22 · 24 answers · asked by NONE 1

Why do so many people disagree with the fact that my boyfriend and I want to have a baby but we don't want to get married. We have been together for five years as of 10/23/07 and we both agree on this. We love each other and agree that we will be together just like we were married, we just don't want to be married. Why is it so important to everyone else? I can still give my baby the last name of his father.

2007-11-01 04:50:12 · 21 answers · asked by Grants a tractor luvr! 6

How can we survive? we had to leave our apartment because of a health issue, the landlord will not give us back our security; I just lost my baby and now we are now living out of boxes with my parents in an apartment. We got married in July, have no money, no home and I don't know how we are going to make it through all this. I'm devestated, heart broken, and terrified. I just don't know what to do now without the security money for a new place. We are both beyond miserable. Anyone ever been through anything like this? did your marriage survive it? any advice?

2007-11-01 04:42:17 · 22 answers · asked by This Jersey Girl ♥♥♥ 5

It seems to me all these stay at home moms and part time working moms should be happy they have a man to support them and they should stop complaining.

2007-11-01 04:39:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

and find that their mind wonders.....

2007-11-01 04:39:10 · 5 answers · asked by elpackage 2

My best friend's husband is coming home from his tour in Iraq in 3 weeks. He asked for a home cooked meal, beer, and lots of sex. She wants to do something else, too. They have a 6 month old so they can't just do anything plus they're roommates of their house are coming back from Iraq to at the same time. Does anyone have any suggestions of what she can do? She already bought lingerie and wants to do a candle light dinner but she wants to do something else and I offered to babysit.

2007-11-01 04:22:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

IE if someone is 30+ and hasn't found mister/Mrs right then there is something wrong with them! or at least that's the presumption most people make!

people don't think "well maybe marriage isn't for them" or " maybe they like there own company", people just expect that everyone should be married, its not a choice, its a thing you do in life!

2007-11-01 04:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

They were hurtful, controlling and down right mean. Now, I find myself feeling very lonely and unmotivated to do anything. Any suggestions as to how I can recreate the person I use to be and become independent in my activities to enjoy life more on my own. I don't do anything anymore except work, sleep, and answer questions on this site. Need a life!

2007-11-01 04:20:26 · 14 answers · asked by Ally S 3

2007-11-01 04:09:29 · 8 answers · asked by osho sai 2

Its my wedding anniversary today-21 years.Can you beat that?

2007-11-01 03:59:00 · 53 answers · asked by Modbird 4

My husband and I are currently going through a divorce. He was self-employed, so he was supposed to take taxes out of his own check. Unfortunately, he didn't do it, and now owes the government over $3000. He told me that since we were married during that time, I am responsible for it too, and if I don't help him pay it, the government will go after me as well. I don't know if he is just trying to threaten me or if he actually knows that. I am talking to a lawyer this afternoon, but would like an idea of what he will say.

I asked this question in another category, so sorry for the repeat if you caught it. I just didn't know which would be best.

2007-11-01 03:34:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really have no feelings for my ex husband, I'm just upset that he tries to take me to court and always loses but he doen't get the point that the kid's really don't know him because coming around once a month won't do anything for their relationship. He has all the time of day to watch tv but doesn't work, doesn't pay the 20,000.00 he owes in arrears of child support, and he doesn't visit more then once a month. I am taking him to court in December for the arrears, and he is trying to modify it im still waiting for the motion, but why is he always in my thoughts like about court and paperwork, my journal it just like never goes away and it feels like that's all i think about. I love my NEW husband and my kid's but I just always have my ex and his stupid stuff in my head and I want to know how to get it out...ANY NICE HELP IS APPRECIATED...STORIES about you would be appreciated to, to know that IM not the only one that feels like this????Maybe??Or am i? What can I do to stop?

2007-11-01 02:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous