Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2007

Remember the movie where Robert Redord offers $ 1 million for 1 night of sex with Demi Moore who is married ? would you do it if someone made such a proposal ? what would be your reaction ? say the amount is not $ 1 million but some x amount.

2007-11-01 02:50:06 · 23 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

wife.I was shocked.He's quiet and talk to few ppl on the job although all the ladies love him,to me he's alwayd been very respectful.I just looked at him and got up and walked away.I felt shamed for some reason.I went back to talk to him and he said that he liked me alot and he could'nt help how he feels about me so we both decided to get a transfer to different dept to keep a hand on this.What do you think?I feel like I'm not going to transfer out the hospital,he's the one caught up in his feelings.

2007-11-01 02:49:37 · 26 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6

I don't have hardly any money because we are saving for a house, but I really want to try to be more romantic to her.

2007-11-01 02:45:35 · 15 answers · asked by swatthefly 5

He is one of the male chauvenist type.but i love him...

2007-11-01 02:34:17 · 9 answers · asked by mix32 1

We've been married for 5 years, living together 8 and knowing eachother 10 years. He cheated on me last year and since then, I just feel love has diminished and am not in love with him anymore. After much consideration, I decided it would be best for us to separate instead of living a life of hell and give him the opportunity to find a woman who will really love him and understand him for what he is.

Although I am sure about my feelings, is it normal to miss him, even though I know I don't love him?

He hasn't left yet, but I keep thinking about when I'll be on my own and keep wondering if it is normal to feel that way. I don't hate him, to the contrary, I do care about him but that does not mean I love him.

Oh God, it would be so much easier if I could just love him and get on with our lives. Its painful to see how it hurts him, but I do believe I am doing the best for both of us.

2007-11-01 02:23:34 · 22 answers · asked by Sesoid 4

We have two major problems. The first is that he is an alcoholic and is abusive, verbally and physically when he drinks. The other is he tells me he really doesn't want kids, though he might change his mind in 5 years. We are both 28. I asked him to get professional help and he refuses, saying he will never stop drinking, but will try to be careful about how he treats me which is bull. But this kdi thing is even worse. A) I can not bring a child into this world to have an alocholic as a father and b) If he got help and then in five years decided that he absolutely didn't want them, then I am in my thirties and have to either start all over again or sacrifice my wants to keep him happy. He told me if I get pregnant, he will know I tricked him and leave me alone with the baby. What should I do? My family doesn't know about these problems by the way.

2007-11-01 02:06:33 · 20 answers · asked by Jcord29 2

I am four weeks five days pregnant and my husband and I had an argument yesterday over something really stupid . Then this morning I didn't log out of my yahoo account wehn I cut the computer off so when he cut it on the question I asked yesterday came up and he read it and told me and that really made me mad. After reading the question he suggested we go to counseling and that I never say I’m sorry and I don't agree. I really feel numb and sad and I’m wondering if this will affect the baby should I just go around smiling all the time to have a happy baby especially since I am so early. I always believed that you can control your emotions but does being pregnant really mean you have no control? For some reason I can't get over the argument and I'm finding it hard to move on with my day.

2007-11-01 01:59:55 · 9 answers · asked by juv 1

My fiance almost seems like he has personality problems. One day he will be SO SWEET ............like he's is from a fairy tale and so romantic. But then he will act rude to me like he is annoyed by me even if I havent done anything-he will just look at me with this annoying look like he is unsure of me. Its so annoying! Sometimes he acts like he wants to cuddle and give me kisses and then the nest night he will act as if he wants his own space and so on. He is usually really sweet when he does something wrong (I assume to make up for his errors) and then it wears off slowly. He seems like he has to try hard to be what I want in man (which is just the basics of a good father/husband), I dont ask much. He says how much he loves me but his actions rarely follow up to what he says. I feel like I am so in love and want to marry him, but then I double think it due to his change in behaviors. He says its work & being tired but I am not sure. I kind of feel that I just security for him.

2007-11-01 01:51:48 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

I know I do! :-)

A young couple (maybe late 20's?) moved into the house right across the road from us...

The BF (YES - they're not married!) works pretty strange hours, and gets home just as my husband leaves for work...

Ive caught him staring at me a few times, and the other day we even bumped in to eachother at the shopping centre... I EVEN NOTICED HIM LOOKING BACK AT ME OVER HIS SHOULDER! Woo Hoo!

Oh man, ladies - why the heck am I so 'aroused' by this guy? I dont even know his name, and besides that - Im married with a daughter...

Hes not even that attractive!

But still, I find myself peeking through our blinds every time I hear him come home from work...

And I might be wrong - but our house is always the first thing he looks at when he gets out of his car every day...

Can anyone explain this? Has anyone been in the same situation?

2007-11-01 01:41:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to start out by saying that my husband and i have a really great marriage. we love each other, we are committed to each other. things are good.
i am just experiencing a little speed bump and i'm not sure how to communicate to him what i need.....

without getting into too much detail, here's the situation.

there are times when things will weigh me down and i'll get upset. then, i try to tell him how i'm feeling, but instead of being receptive and caring, he'll try to make jokes and make light of the situation.
i realize it's a mechanism he uses b/c me being upset makes him uncomfortable and he doesn't know how to deal with it....
however, understanding that doesn't erase the fact that it stings when he does this....kind of makes me feel like he doesn't care when i get upset.

anyone ever have to overcome this with their spouse? how did you get them to turn off the humor and turn on the empathy?

2007-11-01 01:41:46 · 12 answers · asked by joey322 6

When the man in the house was the boss and head of the family. and women cooked and cleaned and the man went to work were people happier because they knew there roles?

2007-11-01 01:30:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is the loveliest person i've met, she and all her closest friends and parents knows that i like her, and they like me, but she is in a relationship with someone thats leaving her behind in 2 months to go back to his home country. She has told everyone that she is not happy, but she doesnt know how to leave him.

I on the other hand want to take her away from him, but its not my place to do so. There is so much chemistry between us, but she knows whats right and wrong and would never ever even think about cheating on him, even though she knows that its not working between them.

I know that if i try harder she will eventually come to me. But is that the right thing to do ?

My Question; What must i do ?

2007-11-01 01:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by djdavies 1

I like to playfight with my husband. Well sometimes he gets mad and will end it by hitting me too hard, on purpose. I know I probably shouldnt play with him like that, but I believe if he honestly loved me than he wouldnt hit back so hard, or try to hurt me on purpose. Ive never hurt him, plus Im about 125lbs and he is 200lbs.

2007-11-01 01:18:18 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetpea 2

2007-11-01 01:15:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anthony P 1

2007-11-01 01:05:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've a problem with my husband. Most of the time, my children understand my feeling that i'm hurted. Sometimes, when i get sad, i told them that he's cruel and stupid. They know that he's not a good father. I plan to divorce instead of hurting me and my children. I'm just waiting until my son goes abroad for further education. My son's father is my ex husband, while the daughter's father is the one i live with. She is 8yrs. She understands everything. Does she have to know my problem in detail, do i have to tell her. The boy is 16yrs, no matter whether he knows or not, coz he's matured. I know that my daughter will hurt when we divorce but i've no choice. Pls advice me if i've to tell her everything, our problem. Thanks in advance.

2007-11-01 00:57:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

He tries desperately to hide it from me, but I don't really care. I understand that it’s just a fantasy. How can I confront him without embarrassing him?

2007-11-01 00:56:13 · 22 answers · asked by Erica 5

I'm 18, got my GED at age 16, I attended a small medical community college and met a teacher ,whom is 26, whom was for sure interested [flirting, he asked me to be his girlfriend but only AFTER I graduate or no longer attend the same college, since it is unethical, I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT & RESPECTED IT ]..

I was known as a social butterfly, EVERYONE knew me, since I supposedly was known as the "pretty funny girl" [not in a conceited way, don't misunderstand me ! ]
well, i withdrew from the college last month [career interest changed], I gave my professor my number [ he asked for it]
on my last day, and this was on September 17, he hasn't called since.
His personality traits: shy, withdrawn, introverted

do you think he changed interest because he KNOWS i have friends that still attend the small college, and would feel uncomfortable knowing that ?!
because girls really do gossip alot nowadays, or what do you think about this ?

2007-11-01 00:51:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous