She is the loveliest person i've met, she and all her closest friends and parents knows that i like her, and they like me, but she is in a relationship with someone thats leaving her behind in 2 months to go back to his home country. She has told everyone that she is not happy, but she doesnt know how to leave him.
I on the other hand want to take her away from him, but its not my place to do so. There is so much chemistry between us, but she knows whats right and wrong and would never ever even think about cheating on him, even though she knows that its not working between them.
I know that if i try harder she will eventually come to me. But is that the right thing to do ?
My Question; What must i do ?
2007-11-01 01:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by djdavies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her that you will be there for her if she decides to leave him. Then it is her decision. Sorry, but that's the only way to behave with honour.
2007-11-01 01:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by eriverpipe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh come on now get your head out of your butt . I hate to say this to you young man but do you know what . Woman love guys like that . I'm just going to be blunt with you . In the first place what do you mean she doesn't know how to leave ? Think about that real hard . She cant go because she cant find a guy to pound her real hard like he does the way she likes it .
Don't be fooled with the pretty little smile and soft words and the poor poor me thing . That kind of woman with a man like that are the devil in disguise boy . Don't be a fool . She,s a wing ding tease and your falling for it .
Hate to say this but if you happened to get her shes going to tear you apart . Go get you an intelligent girl be much better off
2007-11-01 02:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you can do for her at this point is to be there for her. Sometimes a woman will stay with a man who shows her no respect because of low self esteem so you can compliment her often and perhaps even ask her help in some ways that will make her feel better about herself - which shirt or tie to buy, for example, but make sure it is sincere or she may not like it in the long run. Good Luck to you!
2007-11-01 01:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even if you tried harder, she would not leave him. She has to make that decision on her own. If you push her, she will stay with him.
The best thing you can do is to be there for her and hope that she comes around. Since he is leaving in a couple of months, she might get up the courage while he is gone to leave him.
Take care,
Troy
2007-11-01 01:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you told her how you feel? Before my husband and I started dating I was seeing this guy that wasn't treating me right and at the time my husband and I were just friends and he told me that when I decide to leave my b/f he would be waiting for me and guess what he was there. So my advice is that you need to to tell this woman that your waiting for her no matter how long it takes.
2007-11-01 03:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by healthnut 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is with someone, you should do nothing. Like you say, he'll be gone by January, which is only a short time away. Then talk to her and step up to plate. Butting in while she's involved won't help you. If she's interested now, she will be when she's single too.
2007-11-01 01:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait.
2007-11-01 04:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Chels 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about your feeling and be ready to meet her man.it's man's nature.the conqueror get's the spoil or prize
2007-11-04 23:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by antonio c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. That is what my (now) hubby did! I eventually left the jerk and we have our "for ever after!" good luck
2007-11-01 02:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Learn to recognize boundaries, and then respect them.
2007-11-01 01:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋