My fiance almost seems like he has personality problems. One day he will be SO SWEET ............like he's is from a fairy tale and so romantic. But then he will act rude to me like he is annoyed by me even if I havent done anything-he will just look at me with this annoying look like he is unsure of me. Its so annoying! Sometimes he acts like he wants to cuddle and give me kisses and then the nest night he will act as if he wants his own space and so on. He is usually really sweet when he does something wrong (I assume to make up for his errors) and then it wears off slowly. He seems like he has to try hard to be what I want in man (which is just the basics of a good father/husband), I dont ask much. He says how much he loves me but his actions rarely follow up to what he says. I feel like I am so in love and want to marry him, but then I double think it due to his change in behaviors. He says its work & being tired but I am not sure. I kind of feel that I just security for him.
2007-11-01 01:51:48 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's cheated on me before so I figure he has interests elsewhere & maybe he wants me to keep his life stable and he knows I am safe. I am wondering about our relationship and is it real.
2007-11-01 01:53:19 · update #1
I am being honest when I tell you that he sounds bipolar. The way he switches behavior so quickly. He should see a therapist and you should reconsider a future with him. If you are doubtful and unsure now just think what your future will be like. You deserve happiness and CONSISTENCY just like anyone else. I would ask him to go talk to someone and maybe even get on some meds to balance him out. Good luck!
2007-11-01 02:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read your question and then think about these 2 things:
1. He cheated before, what stops him to do it again?
2. I think he needs more attention that's why sometimes he is annoyed with you, because he cannot go out and cheat while you are with him in person.
Definitely don't marry this guy, or do you want to go from a unhappy relationship, to a unhappy marriage? Break it off, while you can still turn back.
2007-11-01 09:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything else aside, if he will cheat on you once, he will do it again. That alone should be enough to end this relationship because you will always be watching and wondering, just as you are now, and that is no way to live. If he has to "try hard" to be what you want, then, believe me, he will never be what you want. You may safe and secure for him, but there is nothing safe and secure for you, sleeping with someone who is sleeping with someone else. He could ultimately expose you to life threatening diseases, as you well know. Please think very hard about this relationship before you commit to marriage, or waste a whole lot more time on it.
2007-11-01 09:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Red flags, my dear.
He has cheated and has major personality issues.
You know what to do before you make the biggest mistake by marrying him... leave him.
2007-11-01 09:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should seriously reconsider this relationship. Don't ignore the "little red flags" that you are seeing. They don't just disappear after marriage!
2007-11-01 08:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by junebug 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cheating is not going to improve.
Move on
2007-11-01 09:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's either bipolar or still cheating.
2007-11-01 09:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
T-R-O-U-B-L-E
2007-11-01 09:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by C>/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋