I like to playfight with my husband. Well sometimes he gets mad and will end it by hitting me too hard, on purpose. I know I probably shouldnt play with him like that, but I believe if he honestly loved me than he wouldnt hit back so hard, or try to hurt me on purpose. Ive never hurt him, plus Im about 125lbs and he is 200lbs.
2007-11-01 01:18:18 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetpea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you don't know when to stop. Try controlling yourself instead of trying to control him.
2007-11-01 01:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by mt75689 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had my friend who used to play cards with his wife and their niece once he kept loosing in front of 2 girls so he ripped all the cards lol so its just he wants to appear stronger macho so he hits back hard you are inviting trouble by playing fight with him even if its a joke dont let it get somewhere where hell hit u hard on purpose and say it was only a playfight .I agree with u A MAN SHOULD NEVER LAY A HAND ON HIS GF/WIFE WHATEVER THE REASON.
2007-11-01 08:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Silly girl, if you know he goes to far why go there to start with? But you are right if he was a decent person he wouldn't allow himself to abuse you no matter what the situation. You both need to talk about this and work out if there is a problem. If not then you need to avoid "play" fighting because yours is just not healthy. There are many support groups out there to help or just listen if the problem is bigger that your admitting, locate one and sort this out now.
2007-11-01 08:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Summer Days 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop play fighting with him. He either does not like it, or he doesn't know how and will never learn, or he has secret issues about you and is trying to hurt you (beware) or he things you like pain, or he likes inflicting pain on women because of something in his childhood that was not right.
How does he treat animals like pets or lizards in the wild? Is he overly rough with them. He maybe a small minded 'little" man inside.
2007-11-01 08:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you "play fight?" if you know he will hit harder and get mad?
Don't do that... unless you like him to hit you b/c you know the end results. That really makes no since to me.
watch out... he might be playing and it turn into being serious and you end up in the hospital and him in jail.
2007-11-01 08:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by sandra k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him about it...tell him that you enjoy playfighting with him but that he shouldn't hit you so hard...maybe he isnt even aware that he's already hurting you...maybe he just gets carried away with the fun...
if he continues to hit you hard after asking him not to...maybe there's an underlying problem...maybe he is frustrated or angry at someone (maybe you) and he is venting....if this is the case...i suggest you talk about the underlying problem and get professional help or counseling....
2007-11-01 08:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just need to stop play fighting with him. My ex and I used to like doing that too, but nobody ever got mad and got carried away. What is he getting so upset about?
2007-11-01 08:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by beentheredonethat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is wrong for hitting you to hard but have you ever stop and thought maybe you dont know your own strenght and might be hitting him to hard that is why he hits back harder.... sit down with him and talk it out with him let him know that you are just playing and dont know why he does that.... ask him if maybe you are hitting him to hard by any chance my email is mikerednour3@hotmail.com let me know how it goes....hope i was of help and good luck!!!!
2007-11-01 08:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mike R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows he's hitting you too hard, it's abuse.
Stop play fighting.
2007-11-01 08:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're inviting him to take out his frustration by hitting you. STOP IT!
2007-11-01 08:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋