Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2007

How can i get him to sit down and talk things over without making him think i am blaming it on him all the time?

2007-11-01 16:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by mix32 1

If a man is married and is constantly unfaithful, has even had an affair, has had the opportunity to leave the marriage when the infidelity is exposed yet want to come back and yet continue to be unfaithful?

2007-11-01 15:46:39 · 21 answers · asked by mentaltornado 1

Has anyone of you had these certain feelings toward a person where you love them to death, but sometimes when you think about some of the stuff they've said or done it makes you Hate them so much. Of course the love overpowers the hate but sometimes you just wish they would get out of your life forever, but you know if they did you would miss them like hell. Am I the only person who has felt like this about someone or can you relate? How do you deal with this and who is this person to you?

2007-11-01 15:36:19 · 7 answers · asked by Toy 1

Just wondering --- 4 years ago met a guy, we dated-- had a child. he began using coke and became physical with me -never punched but manhandled me and stuff --eventually reported to police--we broke up for about a year and a half and he received counseling--began dating again (it's been a year and he doesn't do the drugs anymore, I never did) we're talking about moving in together but I can't forget what happened and worry that it could happen again and affect my kids and I worse-- i have another child but she never witnessed anything

2007-11-01 15:27:44 · 33 answers · asked by mcmeme 1

Okay, so I'm 46 and my wife is 23. When we got married she was 19 and a virgin. We started dating when she was 16 which was her junior year of college (she was really smart and got to graduate High School when she was 14, no joke, and NO she isn't a dork).
As I was saying, she was 16 when we started dating, and I was 39 I think. We NEVER had sex until she was 19, on our wedding night. I was her first time. But when we were dating, we did kiss and make out, but no one saw us. She and I never approved of PDA (public display of affection). And the years we were dating, we've never seen each other naked. When we were dating, we did sleep in the same bed on a few times, but no sex or nudity or any sexual activity. So, was our relationship and stuff illegal? Any ideas. All feedback is appreciated. Thanks guys.

2007-11-01 15:23:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been married for 17 yrs now and have 2 children.Ive stayed with my husband for so long for my childrens sake im at the end of my tether at the moment.He's never cheated or hit me theres just no love from him,No kisses no cuddles and i have tried all sorts and nothing has happend.We dont do anything together we dont go out anywhere he has his room in spare bedroom and i have my bedroom and he would rather be in spare room than sleep with me.Only time he wants sex is when he has watched some porno.Wouldnt be so bad if i denied him it but its always me asking him for it and its a quicky and then up and off back away from me.I feel so cold and unemotional with him i know i dont love him anymore my kids love him and adore him and i know would break there hearts if i ask him to leave im in a situation i can leave and be happy or stay and my kids be happy and im still in the rutt i was in.Not sure if anyone can answer my question or my problem.Do i stay or do i go?

2007-11-01 15:23:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, it kinda pissed me off but I didn't say anything and just kept quiet. My wife's friend just tapped her butt, i guess horse playing or something. I guess he was playing around. My wife was surprised and it kinda pissed me off. What should I do?

2007-11-01 15:20:53 · 7 answers · asked by ancient_thames 1

well i rescheduled my court date back in July and Nov is my new court date. I was going throu a divore and my wife and court asked me to leave the house since i was not on the deed. ive been marr for 4 years. also my wife was able to get the child until we went back to court. Well the court recomended that i have two day wed and sun for two hours. bac in mar-July my wife lied and said that i was this horribe person. thre has been no D.V in our marriage at all. Well things have change yes we have lawyers she has an agressive one. Well my wife has went agaist the order i see my child sometimes fore times a week, i care for her when she go to work. we also have been hanging out such as going to dinner and spendingtime with my daughter together we also slep together four times. I just found out that she had a miscarriage with my child. she told me that it was not suppose to happen. will the court get on her for taking up the courts time. it seems everything is fine now. what will happen

2007-11-01 15:09:25 · 3 answers · asked by Rio S 1

we have been married for six yrs and now he has called her to wish her happy birthday . the new ttopic between my husband and his ex is to talk about my medical condition. she has took it upon herself to send information about monavie juice that is helping her along with an order slip asking who referred me to tje product. my husangd got mad with me because i got mad with him abt calling his ex on her birthday and talking to her about anything about me. We are buying a house, he is so angy that I won't take ex girlfriend's advice that he told me the marriage is over and that he is only taking to her to help me. He also told me I was crazy. ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????I

2007-11-01 15:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by CAVEWOMAN 1

I'm 55, she's 45. I've been seeing her off and on for 14 years. She ain't no beauty, but neither am I. I've never been married before. She's got five grandkids, age 6 to 13 living with her. Which I'd have to take in if we got married. If it was just her, I wouldn't think twice, but I'm worried about the children getting to me or will I get used to them? Wish anyone could give some advice.
P.S. No smart as* answers or you will be turned in.

2007-11-01 14:55:46 · 8 answers · asked by w00189wr 4

I found a pair in my husband's suitcase. I know he would never cheat on me. I'm not angry. I think they may have been left there by a neighbor who borrowed the suitcase a couple of years ago. He hasn't used the suitcase since she borrowed it.

2007-11-01 14:40:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

he decided to leave our marriage after 8 years and after having a baby.. then tried to convience me i should of seen this coming and also try to tell me our son was never planned and that we really never discussed having kids he was horrible i had a miscarriage a little over a year before we had our son. im still in shock that he left our marriage

2007-11-01 14:36:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

- drive 100 miles to be with her?
- die in protecting her from rape or murder?
- spend tons of money on birthday / christmas / valentines presents?
- something I haven't thought of yet?

2007-11-01 14:34:37 · 25 answers · asked by TOQ 2

im just trying to prove a point to someone that think he knows everything.

2007-11-01 14:32:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

As a working wife, normally what should she do to contribute to her family and her husband?

Is it all the working wife must do all the routine works such as clean the house, provide meal, take care of the children n etc

Any experience working wife out there can give advice how to be a successful wife to her husband?

what is the ideal wife to the husband also?

How to catch the husband's heart and to have a successful marriage....

2007-11-01 14:30:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife wants me to find something to do without her. most of my hobbies are things I enjoy by myself. Whats a good way to find a way to hang out with a different group of people with the same interests

2007-11-01 14:30:45 · 11 answers · asked by andy s 1

2007-11-01 14:29:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well my friend just told me..
her parents were getting a divorce..
i feel soo bad!
what should i say?
i have no clue!
thanks you soo much!

2007-11-01 14:22:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex and i have joint custody of our 2 sons but i have residential rights because .. he gives me child support but he does not buy clothes for the kids.. is he supposed to buy clothes for the kids since we also have joint custody?

2007-11-01 14:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by mmm..whynot 3

2007-11-01 14:21:08 · 3 answers · asked by julio 1

I have a couple of questions. We have a child 2gether and divorce 4 months ago. I do still love him and I wish things would work(so we could be a family). He tells me he wants to get back 2gether and all that. But he will not change, he parties and puts us last. There is no trust. But if he did change, should I give it another try?
He is back almost $2000 on child support. Should I start being tough and get child support enforcement agency on him? He has not helped hardly any.
It is just hard for me to be tough and mean to him. I let him see his son whenever he wants, I go out of my way to be nice and make things easy. But I get nothing in return. He will blow off of his son for other things.
Should I start to acting like him...only let him see his son on scheduled visitations and just not give in?
I just wish he would leave me alone and let me be I just want him to be a daddy and do good by him. I am just a pushover. But I am ready to be tough. Please some good advice.

2007-11-01 14:19:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give ur personal opinion

2007-11-01 14:19:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married to my ex-husband for 5 years (NO KIDS). We were both young, loved eachother very much, but didn't know how to have a healthy relationship. We ended badly and abruptly. The divorce was final a year ago. We both have since re-married. Just so happens that his new wife knows my new in-laws. She goes around bad mouthing me to them. They have since stopped talking to her. BUT, she keeps checking up on my life through people, and trying to find out more information about me. So my questions is..Why does she keep dwelling on the past? Yes, I treated my ex badly at one time. He did the same. We were passionately in love but young and had a unhealthy relationship. Why does she feel the need to try and make my life miserable, when there should be NO reason to even think about me? I tried talking to my ex. After he put his two cents in on me marrying an older man, and that he would always have love for me, etc he said the drama would stop. It hasnt!! What's a girl to do?!

2007-11-01 14:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by Lizzie Lizard11 1

So it has come to my attention...

All of my ex's have gotten married and or had children with their next gf. It came to my attention after news of my most recent ex getting engaged... so I got to thinking... and realized at least 95% of this is true. Now.

The new boyfriend and I have been talking about it since I found out. And while we had talked about marriage and kids and our outlook and goals and all of that, we agreed to wait until we were both ready ( which neither of us are ) We are both still in college, and working all the time to make ends meet so it would be totally selfish right now. I know this. However, I want nothing more than to be a mother, and at 23 I feel in my prime... We've agreed to wait, but I think he can read me well enough to know that everytime I hear of an ex, or close friend being pregnant, or getting married, my heart drops a little because I wonder if it will ever be me. What can I do either hide it better, or set his mind at ease?

2007-11-01 14:11:21 · 4 answers · asked by cresentrosetat 2

2007-11-01 14:11:13 · 14 answers · asked by Mickey D 1

MY wife recently came to me after 13 years of marriage and told me she was attracted to women.She swears that it would not affect are marriage if i allowed her to explore the feelings she says shes had most of her life.I love my wife with all my heart so i told her that if it was important to her then i would not interfear.As of yet she has not found a partner but i would be lying if i said it didn't worry me is this normal? Am i over reacting?I've been supportive but should i tell her that i don't want to share.

2007-11-01 14:02:15 · 11 answers · asked by redvedica 1

What would you do if you were checking where people had been going on the internet on your computer and found a web site for single men when you are supposed to be getting married and when they were confronted they said they did'nt know what it was and they are the only man in the house?????

2007-11-01 14:01:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are looking for a house for him to move in. I am trying to be very supportive for my kids sake. I find this very difficult. I just want space. He is the one that has made the decision and I agreed because we have been on the fence for six long years. I want this to end. Why do I hurt so much?

2007-11-01 13:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by Marge S 2

I met a guy that is a booze addi ct. He is rude to everyone. I tried to meet him on his level and just pulled myself down. His wife is in denial. Says that he had a poor childhood and people are picking on him. Everyone that knows him says he is a jerk. My wife and I want to support his wife but she is in denial and he has a control over her. Help appreciated but no rude jokes please. This is a serious problem that involves two peoples lives.

2007-11-01 13:58:01 · 6 answers · asked by Bob S 5

What is the perfect size (wink) you would like a guy to be?

2007-11-01 13:18:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous