I found a pair in my husband's suitcase. I know he would never cheat on me. I'm not angry. I think they may have been left there by a neighbor who borrowed the suitcase a couple of years ago. He hasn't used the suitcase since she borrowed it.
2007-11-01 14:40:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am asking because I want to know what other people would feel.
2007-11-01 14:50:17 · update #1
The neighbor is 65.
2007-11-01 14:58:59 · update #2
Small ones = cry
Big ones = laugh
Skid marks = ditto on the laugh
2007-11-01 14:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nana Butterfly 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
were they in some tiny side pocket and did they have a crushed, old apprarance, and are they ordinary female apparel in nature, and a slightly musty smell from being in the suitcase and would have been completely overlooked by your husband when he was packing or unpacking on his trip and were only found by you cause you were more through? or, were they tiny and cute and silky and felt new and fresh and were they in the main part of the suitcase and could not be missed by someone packing or unpacking.
let me tell you a bad girl secret, women love to leave panties or lipstick or some other evidence when they are stepping out with a married man, for his wife to find, it is a big joke or a diss to the wife. they do this on purpose to mess with the wife's mind.
so they are either the neighbors, they are your husbands and he was wearing them, or, some other woman was near that suitcase without her panties on recently.
i wish i was there when you twirl them on your finger and say to him, look what i found in your suitcase! are they a present for me?
i once had a friend buy sexy new undies for a tryst and forget to pack them when she left and realized too late her husband would come home that night and see the strange undies on the bed and realize they were not for, ahem, him.
please describe the underpants for us!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-01 15:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they look like a pair of 65 year old's panties. I was in the same situation a few years ago. I tried to make up excuses for my husband, now my exhusband. Never thought he would cheat. Well guess what.... He had a lot of secrets I didn't know about. BTW the panties were too small for him to wear.
My advice, don't fool yourself. Did you ask him about them. My ex came up with I don't know where they came from. Then it turned into I don't know why you would put them in there.
Yeah right. GOOD LUCK
2007-11-01 15:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dani Bosco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had it happen to me. I was attending a school while in the military and lived in a co-ed building. Of course everyone used the same washers and dryers.
When I got home and was unpacking there they were!! Nice black lace panties a size 3 if I recall. They had been left in the washer or dryer when I did my clothes before leaving and had gotten caught in with mine.
Well OK! That is the story I told and I stuck with it!!
2007-11-01 19:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ronnie R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your neighbor was the last one to use the suitcase, then yes, I would imagine they are hers. Why would she put her panties in there???? Maybe a little thank you gift your husband didn't even notice..
2007-11-01 14:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's pretty straighforward... if you trust husband, and if a woman was the last one to use the suitcase... then they're her panties. So why are you asking?
2007-11-02 11:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by violet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very suspicious! If there is a possiblity they could belong to the neighbor...take them and ask her. Don't just assume...she will understand. If they are, there's no need to even mention it to your husband. If they are not then I would be waving them demanding a darn good explanation!
Good Luck!
2007-11-01 14:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd narrow down the possiblities and go with them to your neighbour. Atleast you'd then know whether there's a chance your husband is having an affair.
2007-11-01 14:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tracey H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whilst a community comprises you and provides a substantial chew of money to play alongside with a script that has been written for you ... you pretend. and then human beings such as you watch and have faith, and this perpetuates the ridiculous of actuality / BS television shows.
2016-09-28 04:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well if there was a simple explanation as in your case I would hand them back to my neighbour. Im sure she would be greatful that I found them..... however if I didnt have as simple an explanation for them being their, believe me all hell would break loose and he had better have a damn good explanation!!!!......
2007-11-01 14:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by ashar/97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋