What if your wife wanted to go with you to work, or school,
Why would you tell your wife that you wished that you never had a baby with her? And that she screwed your life up?
2007-11-01 04:59:35 · 16 answers · asked by .☆She Wolf☆. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That sounds like he was really pist off and went out of his way to hurt your feelings and it sounds like he hit his mark. In a marriage we all know what buttons to push to hurt the other one.
I am sure he loves you and the baby he was just mad by now I am sure he is very sorry for saying that and I am sure it will be a long time before he lives it down. Just wait if you stay married long enough it will be your turn to do or say something just as stupid so don't be to harsh with your punishment it won't be long before it will be your turn to be in the punishment seat and you will want mercy to.
2007-11-01 05:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by mdjgirl7 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Whoever said that probably did NOT mean that. It was probably one of those inside words that was not suppose to come out. Although it comes out when you can't control yourself or extremely angry. But a happy married man would only say such thing when he is not happy with his marriage, but the fact that I am pointing out here is that whoever said that loves you but you pissed him off real bad, and I am sure he LOVES the baby just as you do. For the "you screwed up my life" part, as I've adequately put, when anger and tension rises between two individuals these words tend to come out unintentionally. If the situation is helpless, then you might consider marriage counseling.
Thank you,
2007-11-01 12:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by COBAN 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Even if I felt that way I'm smart enough to know that there is nothing positive that could come of that except damaging my marriage and showing my partner that I'm a selfish idiot and have no respect for her feeling of self worth.
In my opinion someone like that needs to be left alone because they don't deserve your love, respect or partnership. They especially don't get a chance to screw up your child with their behaviour and attitude.
2007-11-01 13:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That guy needs to be pimp-slapped back into reality. It takes two to make a baby (maybe dumba$$ forgot that). Next time he wants to fool around, hand him a jar of vaseline and a nudie book, and tell, we have to remain "baby free". If my wife wanted to go back to school, she could. She has every right two.
2007-11-01 13:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
My wife and I drive a cross country semi together. We are together almost 24 hrs a day everyday. Not a problem. We love it.
I have told my wife repeatedly that I wish that I never had a baby with her. She totally agrees. We both would have been better off without children.
At one point in our marriage I did tell her that she screwed up my life. looking back, she agrees with me there too.
Lesson: don't have kids and don't let your inlaws get into your marriage. they're both not worth it.
2007-11-01 12:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by cyrusbblackthorne 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I wouldn't say that to my wife.. if thats how I felt.. I would have never married her... She needs to find someone else... Thats a miserable life in the making.
2007-11-01 12:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by juventus0151 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
TO cyrusbbl
How selfish. And what mother would AGREE to that?! I feel sorry for your children.
TO the Question:
Most of the time things are said in anger, it's what made them say that is what you need to find out. Words are just a mask as to the real reason.
2007-11-01 12:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Good, my impossible being, since I am a girl. But if she asks, if there am been pregnant of a boy, dire to me that is impossible. From always, I have made the love with girls like. To be left to me pregnant woman, impossible. Orgasmo does not have spermatozoa.
2007-11-01 12:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ruki & Izumi 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he heard his Mum say it to hid Dad. He has a problem and seems to need counselling or the boot.
2007-11-01 15:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by old-softy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Because he is a self-absorbed little boy trapped in a man's body.
2007-11-01 12:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by Bob 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋