Marriage & Divorce - 30 October 2007

My wife decided after coming back from a trip to visit her single lesbo friend, that she did not want to be married anymore. She has finally moved out to live with her relative. She states that she can't be the person she is around me. She felt same way last year and left for a month, she states now she came back to quick. Also told me that she likes to flirt with other men and told me at times she does not care if I slept with other women. We don't even have sex, when we do, she makes feel like it is bother to her, she never kisses me and does not like talking about what each other are feelings. I always do all the cooking and majority of the cleaning for her. I will come home from work and cook while she sits on the couch and complains about the house not being clean. I tried to change since last year, but she has not tried. She still makes me feel like it is not good enough. I have lost almost 35 pounds since last year and continue to workout. I’m confused. Faith in god hands

2007-10-30 08:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

#1 reason is you aren't giving him any "loving"..
#2 reason is he feels like you are putting him last..
#3 reason is you are no longer taking care of yourself like you did in the beginning of the relationship...

Why do women constantly complain about men being dogs? They have been that way since the beginning of time. If you treat your man right the relationship more than likely will remain "active" and he will not stray.. However, if you stop seducing him and become complacent he WILL stray! It's a promise! So my question is, why do we constantly complain about men? We basically made them the way they are!

2007-10-30 08:16:54 · 27 answers · asked by Lucy L 1

what is the best thing i can do to my lover

2007-10-30 08:13:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my ex called me and woke me up out of my sleep this morning to tell me about a dream he had. Now the dream sounded really made up to me and my intuition is usually right so I believe he just made it up, but anyway. It was some dumb dream that involved me, him, and this guy that he knows I really really like. Well he told me the dumb made up dream and then went on to talk about how he thinks the boy I like is ugly...take note, I'm still half asleep here. Well I was tired of hearing my ex talk about the boy I like so I changed subjects and when i did this he got disturbed, like he wasn't done talking or something......Anyway, after he was done talking about my "boo", he said this "The dream I had about my OTHER girl was worse." WTF?? Who cares......my question is.......
Why in the hell did he call me insulting the dude i like and indirectly throwing another female in my face?
GOD, men are so freakin weird, I was just trying to get some sleep. Why did he do that?

2007-10-30 08:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I forged my dads signature on a paper for science clas (permission form). I am afraid something bad is gonna happen cause i did this. Should i fess up now or hold off and see if they catch it. I am really worried they will and I will be suspended.

2007-10-30 08:11:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-30 08:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by mony y 2

He waits until the very lasy min to do anything. then we usually miss out on things. I sorry but I feel like hes pulling me down. Hel stop at his friends EVERY day after work, then hell come home and sit at the computer, I work overnights so I sleep after he gets home untill 8 when I have to goto work. every night when I wake up for work the house is trashed from my children. he cant even get away from the computer long enough to take a shower. I feel like the bad guy telling him he has to take a shower because hes starting to smell bad. I guess on his defence, he does cook dinner evey night, but he leaves the foos sitting out if it doest all get eaten, wont even soak the dishes. I clean the kitchen after I get home from work every night. I spend my days off cleaning the house and doing laundry and hopfuly have time for fun with my kids. (the house is usually very messy by the time i get a day off. I tell him all the time that I need help but he doesnt hear me.

2007-10-30 07:56:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have two kids and they weigh me down, they are 3 and 7 years old. I would like to have an affair. Am I doing the right thing. Please...my body is urging me tosay yes but I know it's wrong. Please help.

2007-10-30 07:50:48 · 70 answers · asked by SPMZ 2

2007-10-30 07:49:43 · 33 answers · asked by Sub Poptart 2

The last thing I'd want on the dating circuit is to have to deal with a divorced person with kids, let alone a married one.

2007-10-30 07:48:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't need any nasty comments. I would have never thought that he would be that way. Please only answer if you have a real suggestion. I'm very upset and terrified to confront him.

2007-10-30 07:37:36 · 118 answers · asked by Ms B 1

This freak that works for my town and drives a town garbage truck is constanntly driving by my house. When I used to work for the store in town, he described to me all of my underwear that I would hang up in my backyard clothsline. Needless to say I use my dryer now, but everyday at least 9-12 times a day he drives by looking in my yard. And it is REALLY PISSING ME OFF. In the morning I walk my son to the bus stop which is down the street and he drives by really slow staring at me.And the same when I walk to the busstop to pck up my son from school. I have been flipping him off, and totlally dogging him but now I'm getting worried, because it made it worse. I cannot tell my husband bacause it will get violent and I don't want that drama, this town is to small for that. I don't know what to do, but I don't feel like I am comfortable in my own town anymore. The thing is he wanted to mess around with me like 2 years ago and I told him to go mess with his wife. HELP. Be nice please!!!

2007-10-30 07:25:48 · 29 answers · asked by Ivan and Marko's momma 5

i am not speaking to my because i dont want to blow up so please help......yesterday morning my wife says to me " im going over my sisters house" i say ok is she going to bring you home cause i will be gone all day and far out from you" she says yes she will bring me home if i need to be brought home" i say ok" now this happend that morning so i leave start my day and im on the other side of town when i call her and she says "you need to come get me" and i say i thought you said your sister can take you, and i cant leave until late 2nite" then i hear her sister in the back ground yelling "im already doin your hair, and you washing your clothes here he can come get you" and i said thats messed up im already low on gas i have to drive all the way to you then we have to go home i have no cell phone if i get stuck on the side of the road then what. i felt that she would rather me be stuck then stand up to her sister i was put in a really bad spot and she get in the car like its cool

2007-10-30 07:16:36 · 16 answers · asked by stand up guy 1

At what point does it become OK to hire a professional for oral service?

Note that this happened all the time prior to marriage.

And where do I find such a professional?

2007-10-30 07:07:11 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I love him with all of my heart but I'm sick of his games! We lived together for about 5 months. One day we got in a fight and he kicked me out of the house! He called and said he wanted me back, I took him back. Well now we live 20 minutes away from eachother, I'm always the one has to drive! He never will pick me up! He's always drinking! I think we should take turns driving, Whenever it's his turn he makes up an excuse why he can't do it that night. Do you think if he loved me and really wanted to see me he would come and pick me up? What would you do?

2007-10-30 06:58:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are in our early 20s and have a 9 mo. baby. He has 2 personalities. Half of the time he says he loves our family. He is really helpful and loving with our baby. He treats me like a queen. We have a loving relationship. We have date nights. The other half is unhappy. He has to pay for $800 a month for day care. He says that I take all of his money from him. We have so much credit card debt that I pay $800 a month for that. So we end up with no extra. He calls me names and says that I keep him in bondage. He says that I am trapping him to be with only me. He wants to experience younger women! Later I will ask if he really meant it and he says he was just hungry, or tired!!! I love him to pieces. I don't know what to do. This saturday he wanted to go to a RAVE. I wasn't too happy about it, but I said "Have Fun!" with no fuss. He returned at 7am. Geez! He said it was like a vacation. I can't tell if he really wants out or if he is playing mind games.

2007-10-30 06:57:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is right to ask his ex from time to time?it may be a form of emails or letters,phone calls...behind your back?or I may say without your knowledge?and paranoid about you if you 're doing the same?

2007-10-30 06:56:17 · 22 answers · asked by TMD 1

They were only "officially" together for 3 months but they hooked up for sex for 4 years. I feel that he treated her poorly but she told me he is well endowed. She claims that he was lousy in bed but every weekend she would travel 50 miles to his parent's basement to be with him. She wants to marry me and gets very upset when I ask about their relationship.

2007-10-30 06:50:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

highschool sweetheart, been through alot together. including me in the Marine Corps, school at UK, her depression, family divorce, miscarraige, drunk nights and me cheating on her with her best friend (first year of relationship) but we made it past everything and i bought her a ring when i was discharged. and i was going to propose to her next month, but she left me, but wants to be friends. i cant do that. i want to learn how to meet new people

2007-10-30 06:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by UKmarine 1

was it a turn off for you after your wife had her first baby....i mean because of the exess fat, belly bulge and all the stretch marks. i just had a baby 3 months ago and i feel totally gross. i dont like for my husband to see my naked body. he still makes love to me but i only do it at night with the lights off because i'm so embarrased of my body. i know he loves me but i feel that maybe i gross him out sometimes.. what did you guys think about it?

2007-10-30 06:40:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't cheat or anything. We were just in a petty fight and he was done. I gave it back but my mom was telling me that I should have kept it. This was 2 months ago.

2007-10-30 06:31:46 · 67 answers · asked by blah 3

I left my marriage 2 months ago, we were together for 12 years. He became extremely verbally and emotionally abusive and was drinking heavily. I left 700 miles away after he left for work.We are now talking daily on the phone. he says he is sober and wants me back, all that stuff.Basically he says he is changed by my leaving him like i did.There are still feelings for him, but i do not trust him and i don't think it can be fixed like he says it can be.I had no regrets with leaving, am i just missing what i knew( like my hometown and friends and family)? Can people change in such a short time?

2007-10-30 06:29:04 · 37 answers · asked by greyeyes672000 1

2007-10-30 06:24:43 · 28 answers · asked by cutiepie81289 7

ok so here it is, We have been together for 3 months (we are moving fast) we both love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together, I want to set a date and everytime that it gets brought up he says he does not want to talk about it, he always wants to talk about everything but not that one subject. Am I wrong for wanting to have the date picked out?

2007-10-30 06:20:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Few hours back I wanted to know that legallity of my muslim lady friend's unilatral declaration of her marriage dissolution with her husband known as Kula. Some of the readers (in particular a lawyer) has said that it is permissible in India law despite the Muslim Marriage Dissolution act is available. Let me know the circumstances in which a lady can seek dissolution and whether it is her own will or any llegaly sustainable reason is needed (I am told that Islamic male need not disclose reasons but utter the word Talak and divorce)

2007-10-30 06:16:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

fix your plumbing?

2007-10-30 06:15:15 · 24 answers · asked by MOs fishin 6

little daugther, what should I do, my wife told me she will come back in one year, she told me in her new work she can come back periodicaly every 4 months by two weeks, but my daugther stay in my parents house all day while I worked in the night I took my daugther and we going to our home and the weekend we spend all day with my family, what should I do? I don´t give my little angel to my wife, I have to stay with her and if my wife wants seeing to my daugther she has to come back and stay here????

2007-10-30 06:15:01 · 12 answers · asked by el espia 3

In real life, you dont see a lot of romantic guy out there...thks for answering...

2007-10-30 06:12:30 · 30 answers · asked by back2future 5

I feel like after 10 years and four kids we have both changed. I love him and would do anything for him but I just don't feel like I am in love with him anymore? Maybe I am just staying with him for the kids sake? Our kids are 8, 8, 6, and 3. I feel like I should at least stay with him until their older. Maybe things will go back to the way they were? Its only been real bad for about a year. What shall I do?

2007-10-30 06:06:33 · 25 answers · asked by JOY 1

2007-10-30 06:03:27 · 15 answers · asked by ilih2006 1