In real life, you dont see a lot of romantic guy out there...thks for answering...
2007-10-30 06:12:30 · 30 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel it takes nothing away from me to treat the woman in my company like a princess. From basics like opening the door for her, pulling out a chair for her, wait untill she sit down before you do. That is good manners, treating a lady like a piece of art, that she is. How romantic am I? Well it will be a honor to give the girl in your life a foot massage after a long day. Run a nice scented bubble bath for the both of you, lots of candles, enjoy a glass of wine in the bath. Make a point to softly wash her whole body, because it's the ultimate source of pleasure. Dry her soft body with a fluffy towel. Make sure you kiss her body as you dry her. Give her sweet little compliments. Treat her properly by applying oil or cream all over her body, make it slow and kinky. If she wants to, make it a sensual body massage. If she falls asleep during the massage don't feel hurt, that only means she is happy and feels loved.
2007-10-30 07:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not romantic at all. I hate having to spend money on flowers and all that crap. But I'll do it for the mandatory holidays (birthday, valentines, anniversary, etc.).
My idea of romance is quite different than that of most females I have met. They seem to think that a man has to spend money on gifts and do all kinds of chores in order to be romantic. I see that as nothing but a s s kissing. It's lame, and I am ashamed of each and every woman who views this is necessary for romance.
I like being able to take a moment to break away from all the craziness of life. To just stop and enjoy the world around you, together. Take a walk through the woods and observe nature. Lay outside in the country at night and gaze at the stars. Share a quiet moment. If you're at home, try shutting off the TV and not worrying about the dishes or laundry. Step into the bedroom and slow dance to some nice music after having a drink or two. Give each other massages with sensual oils and lotions. To me, that's real romance and it doesn't cost anything. But most women these days are too superficial to enjoy what I call the finer things in life.
2007-10-30 13:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would classify myself as a very romantic guy. I believe in romance. I like the whole, "you've got cupid birds flying around your head." I want the to sweep the girl/woman off her feet by doing what ever I can, for romantic purposes, to make her know "I love her and she is incredibly special." Bring her roses, tell her romantic things, tell her all about unique assets, how much she turns me on, and buy her what ever she wants if I can afford it. To take her into my arms and hold her while looking into her eyes and have her feel what my heart feels; and she will. I consider myself a romantic almost to a fault. But I rather risk the enjoyment of the feelings and benefits of the romantic upside and deal with the romantic downside which is sometimes getting hurt.
2007-10-30 14:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is capable of being romantic. It is just that most of us are only romantic when we are either in the mood to be or need to be. I thought the number of "romantic" men throughout the ages hasn't changed all that much. It is just now with the information age, girls want more men to be openly and outward romantic. Romance is also relative. What one girl may feel is romantic may not be to another as well. Romance is definitely a good thing and there should be some level of romance in every relationship.
2007-10-30 13:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love doing the little things like putting out a toothbrush with toothpaste on it in the morning, or knowing her favorite drinks and having one ready (like a cup of lemon tea I know she loves) especially if she's had a hard day. I know the sweets she loves the best and have a few tucked away that I can bring out if she needs a pick me up. I'll often touch her hair or her shoulders and let her know she's special to me, I try to every day.
I try to get the "just because" flowers for her every month or two not so much they lose meaning but often enough to show her that I'm thinking about her when I'm out. And I'll take a good look to get her something that looks realy nice.
If she's had a tough day I might run her a bath with some bubbles and light some candles with a glass of her favorite wine and surprise her with it and sit and she can tell me all about it while I rub her shoulders then her feet.
This weekend we're going away with the family and on Saturday while I have the kids swimming I'm going to surprise her with a 2.5 hour spa package I've pre-booked with her favorite things. We'll spend part of the weekend clothes shopping while I keep the kids in hand and watch her try on clothes for a few hours, it's not too exciting for me but I keep a smile on and help her pick out her outfits because I know this means a lot to her.
Unfortunately she never has much interest in reciprocating but she tells me she appreciates it when I act romantic. It would be nice for once to have her surprise me with something or do the little things for me as well, but it doesn't stop me from doing these things because I enjoy doing things that make her happy.
2007-10-30 15:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A son can catch romance from his dad or be taught romance from his mother but not the other way around. With a divorce rate of 50 % guess how many men are actually loving their wives. Factor in the fact that second marriages are not all that red hot eather. Many things are caught not taught so unless he is willing to be taught by his favorite squeeze he just doesnt know how to do it. I think I have been very romantic at times and it usually ends up that she dumps me. So the next time Im less inclined to put in the effort until I know what is going to happen. Thats my opinion and Im sticking to it. Grampa B
2007-10-30 13:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am but can only be that way with certain women - I find I have to pull away from alot of women though - only certain women are suitable for a romantic guy - the rest belong with the other guys. It has to be with a woman that is right for it then I can let it all out all over her and sweep her off her feet in romance and pleasure. Its something I save up for that special girl. None that I am seeing now or have seen in the last while are deserving of romance though - its unfortunate as I enjoy being romantic myself with a deserving woman.
2007-10-30 13:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup. My gf and I cook dinner together every night. I usually have a bath drawn for her when she gets home, and we talk while she soaks. I'll massage her neck and even give her a back massage when she's had a long day at work. We hold hands every where we go, we snuggle every night. We kiss almost a thousand times a day and at most stop lights during the weekends as we don't see each other most of the week because of work. I'll give her a foot massage almost every day when we're sitting on the couch watching movies or shows. I used to be into buying flowers and chocolates, but in the end, I can make my gf happy just by telling her how much I care and love her, and by making her smile throughout the day. Most guys have been hurt by women at a young age by buying flowers and chocolates because women at that young age call it smothering, so guys back off, and stay more aloof as they get older because of that. Good luck finding one that hasn't!
2007-10-30 13:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Kamuela B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The majority of us are extremely romantic for the first 3 and sometimes 6 month period.this is the time were thinking w/our small brain because were in love.
2007-10-30 13:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by seanomc70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Still some of us out there. I buy flowers about every 2 months. I have sent silly little things to her office by courier. Put sexy love notes in her easter eggs one year. Always ask her her day was after work. Greet her when she comes home. And cook about 4 days of the week, and do my own laundry
2007-10-30 13:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond Dogs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋