i am not speaking to my because i dont want to blow up so please help......yesterday morning my wife says to me " im going over my sisters house" i say ok is she going to bring you home cause i will be gone all day and far out from you" she says yes she will bring me home if i need to be brought home" i say ok" now this happend that morning so i leave start my day and im on the other side of town when i call her and she says "you need to come get me" and i say i thought you said your sister can take you, and i cant leave until late 2nite" then i hear her sister in the back ground yelling "im already doin your hair, and you washing your clothes here he can come get you" and i said thats messed up im already low on gas i have to drive all the way to you then we have to go home i have no cell phone if i get stuck on the side of the road then what. i felt that she would rather me be stuck then stand up to her sister i was put in a really bad spot and she get in the car like its cool
2007-10-30 07:16:36 · 16 answers · asked by stand up guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's your wife you SISSY! You should always protect and look out for her.
You need some pull-ups!
2007-10-30 07:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like her family does a lot to help you two out. She is doing your laundry at her sister's house and your wife assumed that her sister would take her home. I understand your frustration, but getting in a huge fight about it makes no sense to me. If you were my husband and my family was helping us out and you throw attitude about having to pick me up-I wouldn't talk to you either.
Next time instead of getting angry, suggest that she take the bus home or stay there until you could go get her. I also think that there is underlying tension and that this fight is not just about you having to pick her up. Talk to her and apologize for getting so angry about such a little thing and then tell her why you are really upset.
2007-10-30 07:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Meg W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I think that your selfish...had the tables been turned and you needed your wifes help, you would have expected her to be there at a moments notice. Sometimes when things don't go as planned people want out of the situation asap..it's not that your wife wanted to put you out...and the low on gas thing..I'm sure there was a gas station on the way that you could have filled up at.
2007-10-30 07:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well this is your wife love and she is your 1st priority! Is your wife afraid of her family? you need to sit your wife down and have a heart to heart about her family.does she not have a job or a car? If you 2 have no kids then she needs to get a job,even if it is part time and get her license and a car,that way you both can drive where you need to.You should invest in a prepaid cell phone because these days you can trust no one and will need to make a call someday.
2007-10-30 07:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not cool what your wife did but her sister and her already probably had an argument before the phone call when she asked her sister for a ride home.... she probably just wanted to get out of her house as fast as possible
2007-10-30 07:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should be cool with you she is your wife and instead of staying in a bad situation she wanted to leave and let things cool or end and you complain and ***** about picking her up? Get her a car and stop complaining. You are her husband you need to be their for her. she gets into it with her sister and you ignore her. I feel bad for her.
2007-10-30 07:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly....WHAT? that soo did not make sense....this is your wife or your girlfriend? you say wife but your actions say other so I'm asking... also not seeing where it states she is afraid of her family...sounds like she has a bitc*y sister but where does being afraid come into play here? OK I can see there being some inconvenience on your part but she is your wife....and the problem is........
2007-10-30 07:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your wife really needed you last night. She was in a bad situation with her family. If she stood up to them it could have made things worse and they may have just forced her to leave. She's your wife! You should be happy to pick her up and help her.
2007-10-30 07:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 20:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your wife you are suppose to get her when ever she needs you too.
yeah maybe it was poor planing on her part but if she was in a
hospital due to an accident and you were all the way across town with little gas would is that what would keep you from getting there?
2007-10-30 07:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by summerbliss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not do anything I think you should tell her next time you go outr with your sister I am not going to pick you up and that is that. You can not help her. she is going to be scared of her family all the time or I think it is not because she is scared I think it is just respect. That is all.
2007-10-30 07:25:30 · answer #11 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋