Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2007

2007-10-24 17:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

After work my husband has beers with his construction coworker guy friend a few times a week but what pisses me off is he wont answer when I call his cell phone! He makes excuses like It was turned off or he didnt have it on him or hear it. Im being cool about letting him stay out with friend but I get so upset when he doesnt answer expecially since Im pregnant and close to due date! Its 9pm and I havent seen him since he left at 5 this morn. I just lectured him 4 not answering earlier he sounded buzzed and he said he was sorry but I just tryed calling again and same ol story, no answer! What can I do to get it through his head that this is wrong and annoying! Should I be worried?

2007-10-24 17:07:54 · 18 answers · asked by Luv4Nevaeh 3

My parents got divorced 18 years! It was a bitter divorce and my mother has resented the fact that I have choosen to have a relationship and get to know my dad as the "new man" and I have a very positive relationship with him! My mom has never even seen him in 18 years, and was pissed when she found out he bought a house for 1/4 million dollars in Colorado!?

My Mother missed my high school graduation, my wedding, my son being born, and my college graudation because my father was there...why do I have to choose...and why is she being so lame...I'm 27 years old now and I've had my own divorce! I walked in on my ex husband sleeping with the neighbor lady after I'd been gone for a week because my sister was dying and wanted to be with her...and I'm still not that angry with him.

I know I can't change her feelings towards my father, but I would really like to figure out how to get her to stop bad mouthing him in front of me and my son. Any ideas? And flat out saying so hasn't helped

2007-10-24 16:51:27 · 11 answers · asked by washington_maverick 3

2007-10-24 16:48:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

As my wife of ten years no longer desires me, I plan on going out to find some piece of a$$ that wants to go at it all night. And before you answer all about never cheat and all that b.s., I don't want to hear it. You haven't been through my hell. I just gave a 40-minute foot rub that put her to sleep, and then she went to bed. No rub back, and I don't mean my feet.

And no, I'm not going to get a divorce before I do this. That would take too long. I don't want that hassle. As a married man, I just want to get laid. So, what I really want to know, and prolly from guys is, should I set some standard? Should I only hook a slap-on-the-back-from-the-guys kinda babe (which obviously might be a little more work), or should I go with a non-ugly kinda cute girl, with nice T&A? Or should I hook up with the first non-male that wants to?

Especially from dudes who've cheated, or just some single guys out there, do you set a standard?

Thanks.

2007-10-24 16:47:31 · 21 answers · asked by lovinglifeina69 2

HI WAS UP MY NAME IS SARA AND IM 18 MY BOYFRIEND IS 20 AND IN THE NAVY HE IS TALKING BOUT GETTING MARRIED I WAS WONDERING WHAT PEOPLE THINK BOUT MARRIGE AT A YOUNG AGE

2007-10-24 16:27:13 · 32 answers · asked by princess10289@sbcglobal.net 1

i know many women say, i'd rather they be at home and look at porn than be out screwing around. and i agree with that philosophy but every time i catch he's been doing it, it hurts me. and he knows that, we have talked about it, but he does it anyways. and i've heard, 'well you have to be kinky in the bedroom to keep his attention'. well i used to be when he paid any mind to me at all. now he just takes care of himself and doesn't want to take any effort to have a joint experience. and i'm so pissed with the situation, i don't want to make any effort either so we just don't do it. what do i do? talking does not good in 5 years hasn't change anything.

2007-10-24 16:27:00 · 14 answers · asked by handygirl 3

I think my Husband and my sister in law have a inappropriate relationship. My sister in law is my Husbands brother's wife. The work together talk on the phone, and she is coming over to my house almost ever night to hang out with him. She drinks.... ALOT. Every night. She doesn’t hang out with her own husband or go any where with him, but she will come over and hang out with my Husband. I think she treats him like her husband. She bought him cold medicine when he had a cold, she goes and buys him lunch all the time, and now she’s starting to buy my daughter alot of stuff. It's really starting to bother me. People tell me their relationship is very inappropriate, and I don’t know if im getting mad at nothing, or if threes something to be bad about. Tonight they went 40 miles together to the closest Wal-Mart when I was already planning to go with my friend, but he decided to go with her instead because her husband just broke his leg and couldn’t go. Am I over reacting??

2007-10-24 16:26:19 · 35 answers · asked by randi_jenik 1

The man and wife separated after their first child together was 8 mos. old. She cheated and had another child by someone else. Even though he's moved on with other children and girl friend is it possible he'd go back to her if he saw her again?

2007-10-24 16:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by glammynfab 1

We have been married a little over 3 years. My husband is 29 and sometimes acts like a 5 year old because he likes to play. He plays too much in my opinion. He likes to grope my breasts and my butt - over and over. I try to remain calm and let him do his thing, but it seems as if he always does this at the wrong time (i.e. when I'm fixing dinner or on the computer).

He'll come up behind me and I'll stand there for a minute or so, and then I'll try to walk away and he follows me wherever I go and tries to block me. Whenever my mind is occupied with something he is sure to do something. I feel horrible for saying this about him, but sometimes I'm just not in the mood for all that horseplay. We don't have any kids but I feel like I have a toddler that I have to play with on a daily basis. He requires so much attention and I don't know that I can give it to him like he needs it. Sometimes he'll hide in the house to scare me. That's fine, but it's when I start looking for him and ...

2007-10-24 16:21:10 · 15 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Flic is the Family Law Information Center. This is where you have to take your divorce papers after you fill them out to make sure they are completed correctly. For those of you who know anything about it, my question is...If I have a question about the Divorce papers (like I have no idea what to put down for a certian question) would they be able to help me or do I need to find someone else. Taking the papers to the FLIC is mandatory for a divorce in Georgia. I want to be sure I can get this help from them before I take the papers, I don't want to waste a trip. Thanks.

2007-10-24 16:19:41 · 1 answers · asked by ♠LISA♠ 4

My husband is very easy to talk to he has always been able to talk to women. Now he has a work friend who he talks to a lot. He assures me there is nothing (he's a great husband) but she texts him a lot. I am so sensitive about it. Males can have female friends and it not be nothing more can't they? Or should i be worried?

2007-10-24 16:19:03 · 20 answers · asked by girly girl 2

she just wants to sit and watch TV.

2007-10-24 16:19:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Husband & I separated but on good terms & haven't ruled out getting back together. During our year separation, girl he had affair with got pregnant (found out after they broke up). It is his. He is going to support it financially & be a part of its life. Our kids are still dealing with our separation (they're 8, 11, 15). Not ready to dump this news on them. I guess I have to someday, just not sure how/when. Regardless if we get back together or not.

2007-10-24 16:14:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

which she has been doing for at least the past month. I brought her flowers today. I just went to work on day shift and she says she misses me because she is home alone all day. she is disabled so she can't get a job to occupy herself while i'm gone. Would call this cheating?

2007-10-24 16:11:23 · 14 answers · asked by breeze1 4

be cause i want to piay

2007-10-24 16:10:52 · 6 answers · asked by jasmine n 1

My fiance thinks it's okay to and ultimately wants to continue living with his parents... indefinitely. Honestly, Iove his mother very much but am having a lot of trouble living with her (and I've been here a year now). I've voice my feelings about it to him but he tells me that he's made up his mind and if I cann't agree then maybe I should be somewhere else. Is my objection to this completely in my head? Should I wait for him to come around? Shoudl I just comply?

2007-10-24 16:08:26 · 22 answers · asked by Shay 1

who is more willing to compromise on looks? the man or the woman? that is if a person doesnt fit your "standard" which gender would be more willing to compromise and accept less?

2007-10-24 16:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-24 16:07:00 · 4 answers · asked by babydoll67005 1

My very best friend and I are musicians. We met six years ago. We live in different states now, and I'm going to community college. My family is in dire straits financially, and I have to help as much as I can. Chances are, if we pull through, things will work out for them.

I want to do music as a career with a passion that is not present anywhere else in my life. I cannot be a "working class hero". I've tasted it and it frightens me. But my parents want me to get a degree in case I fail at my aspirations, which, while having good motives on their part, leaves me with even less confidence for my future.

I have a chance to move to where he lives, and pursue my dream before I'm old. If I do, I will be met with no end of trouble by my family. And as much as I wish to help them, at what point do I have to decide where my future and theirs split?

I know this is a hard question, and may seem quite self-centered. Please think before you answer...no "hate" comments, please. :D

2007-10-24 16:05:30 · 9 answers · asked by KurtR 2

2007-10-24 15:56:24 · 37 answers · asked by tink 1

I want to talk to him he have nothing to say.He feels like I dont have upclass conversation.When we met we use to talk for hours know it like its blank.He not even attrated to me sexually.The only thing he do is complain about everything.He talks to his family more than he talks to me.I cook ,clean, work and take care of the kids and still no love or respect.The good thing is he comes home every night, but some time I wish we can go back in time.

2007-10-24 15:55:46 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs P 1

would you respect a friend more if they loaned you $$ for a crucial thing (like car, house payment) and later made it a gift....

or a friend who loaned you $2000 and asked for you to pay it back slowly?

2007-10-24 15:46:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is expecting me to host his sister, her husband and two boys in two days for a long weekend. I have been working very long days and am tired of all the things that need fixing around here. Am I wrong to ask them to stay at a motel? Her husband won't stay at my father in laws house because it is old and dumpy.

2007-10-24 15:28:50 · 25 answers · asked by Sophiesmama 6

Everytime my wife turn her back her friend messes with me on the sly. Saying sexual comments.

2007-10-24 15:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by nezzy 1

My husband is a salesman with an outgoing talkative personality. He has developed a strong friendship with a client of his that ownes a business two hours away from where we live. My husband talks to this man on the phone several times a week for thiry and forty minutes at a time. This guy calls on weekends too. My husband ussually goes out to lunch with this guys and does special favors as far as business things. Latley they have talked about flipping houses together, going hunting at a camp somewhere and things like that. I have never met this man but my gut tells me that something about him is off. Maybe I'm just over jealouse becasue my husband and I have a very stressed romantic relationship and i rarely get attention and or affection from im in spite of the fact that i am a stay at home mom to our 1 year old, i cook and clean everyday, im hot, I have a good personality but I CAN be a *****...am i over paranoid about him being friends with this guy or am I right to feel neglected.

2007-10-24 15:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by chicwitpurpose 2

My mom was an alcoholic for many years. As a result, we live far from each other, but we now have a relationship "over the phone. " Can anyone recommend some coping mechanisms so that I can continue to be patient with her when she has her emotional break downs?

2007-10-24 15:20:16 · 4 answers · asked by Sister Lourdes 3

2007-10-24 15:17:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ran into my ex and the filling I thought was gone came back at full affect.

2007-10-24 15:12:07 · 13 answers · asked by nezzy 1

i judt found out 5 hours ago i'm pregnant. First person i call is my husband...who i left 3 weeks ago...due to him being an asshole.....the thing is.....hes not exactly a good person...and though i told him...i regret it...what do i do?

2007-10-24 15:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by diva 2