Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2007

I was going to just take my wife to dinner, but I didn't even get her a card. Now she's mad at me. How do I make it up to her?

2007-10-24 04:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by Sara Smiles 2

People who haved cheated, thought about cheating and those who have been cheated. Why cheat? I don't personally believe it's sexual I think its more than that. So do tell Why cheat?

2007-10-24 04:39:40 · 18 answers · asked by dana 2

Myself=Difficult. But I don't have a word to describe her. There are alot of words I could use (All good ones, I don't want you to think I am thinking negative here). Good or bad, what is the ONE word you would use for yourself? And what your partner?

2007-10-24 04:34:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not like the way that my husband speaks to our son, he seems to be hard on him to do certain things and he tends to make mountains out of moe hills. i understand that we grew up in the generation that children were seen and not heard but it is different now and i believe that our son should be able to voice his likes and dislikes and should not eat something that he does not like (except veggies that is a must for his health) but even that is within reason. I feel that the way he talks to him makes him retreat from him and not really want to be around him. He is always on guard when he is around and i remember being like that as a child and it suck. I have never been nor will i ever be a young boy do you need to be so hard and strick over boys. I am blessed that he has a father that cares, truly cares and takes care of our son but i just dont want their relationship to suffer in the meantime.

2007-10-24 04:28:29 · 8 answers · asked by ktnarga 1

I see this term a lot online- What is a MILF

2007-10-24 04:24:21 · 13 answers · asked by Crooked Johnson 4

If your husband wanted you to tease and deny him and pleasure for long periods of time would you?

2007-10-24 04:17:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it so hard for you to help out with the kids and housework? What can a woman do to change this never ending issue?

2007-10-24 04:16:54 · 30 answers · asked by Sweet_Bama 2

Ok, will seem like I am just complaining. But, really stuck. I have been dating this guy for over 8 yrs. We built a house together, (because of my credit and ex husband it is in his name) after 4 yrs he put the house up for sale and keeps telling me that his job is changing but dont know when, and we will no longer be able to afford the house. I can not find anything that supports him. He will not be able to afford this house on his own.
Finds things wrong little things, nit picky things. Specially with my kids. He keeps trying to constrain me on the things that I do in the house. The house no longer looks like a home it looks like a shell. I dont know what to think. I am not moving out of this house it is my home also.
He also likes to play online. I know that this is so scattered in telling. But, really confused. Dont understand him. will dialog with anyone who can help!!!!

2007-10-24 04:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by knowwhatyoumean 1

when i go visited my family and i ask him if he want to come with me after his work or if he not work he alway said " i am tired i don't want to go ".....only once a while he come with me to visit my family, i wonder what wrong with him? he alway say i am tired if i ask him if he want to come with me to visit to someone?.....what going on with him? i have asked him about why he alway tired he say he don't feel like it to go?...please help?

2007-10-24 04:03:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance's ex was in town for a weekend wedding.She stayed in a hotel, but made several visits to our home to pick up & drop off their kids.She is not welcome in our home, but pushed her way in twice & made attempts to "hook-up" with my fiance. We have custody of the kids, they see her only on weekends and they begged to stay with her in the hotel. She wouldn't let them. But she begged my fiance to come. She showed up at our house while I was at work and begged him to get back together and then to come spend the night with her.She later sent a text that said her offer still stands and gave him her room number.Of course, he said no.How do you explain such behavior & is there anything to be done about it? She rarely sees the kids and had an opportunity to have them with her, but didn't want them.

2007-10-24 04:01:44 · 26 answers · asked by Tyra99 2

2007-10-24 03:56:27 · 35 answers · asked by musclemansix 3

I am moving out of my current living situation on Monday and let me tell you the day is not coming fast enough!!!!!!!!!!
Even a complete stranger about kicked my ex-husbands @ss last night because of the way he was cussing at me in a restaurant.
Then this morning how do I get woken up? You guessed it in the same manner and I tell you what that restraining order I have on him just may come in handy here soon!
Ok vent over you in a bad mood today too?

2007-10-24 03:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5

2007-10-24 03:55:45 · 22 answers · asked by newtral90 1

If a man signed A birth certificate for a child that is not his biological child, is he responsible to pay child support?

This is in the case of a relationship that" was" to be....

2007-10-24 03:54:35 · 6 answers · asked by ummmm 2

I met a guy through an online personals site and he seems great, except that he misspells my name in every email, every time. I write back with the correct spelling, but he still doesn't get it.

It's annoying me to the point that I don't want to date him. Is that wrong?

2007-10-24 03:54:30 · 12 answers · asked by monicanena 5

my boyfriend and i are both 19, been to gether for 3yrs living together for 1. we are still in school, both work and can provide for ourselve with almost no help(financially) from our parents. We are very much in love, we are highschool sweethearts, but one thing is living together and another is marriage. I know i have full support from my family and $$ is not an issue for my wedding my parents have about $200,000 saved up for it. But my boyfriends family and I dont mesh to well...what should i do...I really want to get married already but dont want to live the rest of my life around people i dont like and who dont like me...HELP!!!

2007-10-24 03:53:57 · 32 answers · asked by sweetteamawmaw 3

I need help, especially from any woman who has ever been in an abusive relationship or marriage.

This man is completely in love with me and wrote me something I am a little concerned over. If you have the time, I will send you the email and you can tell me what you think. I don't know if this man is just too good tobe true and is really in love with me or if he is desperate for love and has a hidden side. Please help!

2007-10-24 03:49:59 · 14 answers · asked by P.Y.T.23 3

I've known her for about 8 years now, she got maried with someone else and had two lovely kids, she's divorced now since december 06, and has been with me since then.

Now she is pregnant with my baby and I want to get married.

The problem is that I got a deal with my father, I work for him, the deal is that I will get a decent pay check when I graduate from Uni, that will be on march 08 (4 months from now).

So I told her to wait untill the end of februaury and to get married in march, that I will have enough money to sustain our family etc.

The baby will be born on may 17th aprox.

My problem is that now she wants to go to Miami FL with her parents until the baby has born, her arguments are What the people will say or talk about her,there won't be any good comments.
I feel like she is leaving me alone, I don't want her to go, I want to be all the time around.

Now she is telling me that she's not shure to marrie me or not. Bloody Hell. Does she loves me ??????

2007-10-24 03:47:01 · 17 answers · asked by Alfredo 1

she's not living at home, she's almost 19. i've been nice and done some things for her, graduation gift, tutoring to help with school, pizza, and yet, she never has sent a thank you card, even though i know she sent one to everyone else.

i've told my husband, that i won't be doing anything else for her until she appreciates what i do. i'm just wondering has anyone else gone through this? whenever she needs/wants something she's all sweet, then "boom". no gratefulness.

FYI.... i didn't "steal" him away from her mother. they were already seperated for a couple of years. her mother had an affair on him.

2007-10-24 03:40:15 · 11 answers · asked by (!)listen 5

she says things will get better but they have not yet.

2007-10-24 03:35:49 · 26 answers · asked by musclemansix 3

I have spoken to a counselor about the issue of finding a mate, and he asked about the reason I want one and what we would do. So I explained about going places together, communicating, eating together, doing things together, being good companions, if the desire comes (to make love) and just being there for each other sharing similar interests.
He said you don't need a wife, you can get all of those things from a friend. So stop looking for a mate. Do you agree with him?

2007-10-24 03:31:51 · 17 answers · asked by Housecat 3

We got married when I was nineteen shortly after i found out i was pregnant with our daughter. He never asked me to marry him it was all arranged by his sister whe thought the baby needed her father in her life. I come from a single parent so I feel it is very important for a chilod to know both parents. I was in love with him at the time but after 12 yrs i am not so sure if it was the right thing to do. I have been very unhappy and lonely and am not sure how to tell him that i think that our mariage may have been a mistake. I asked foe a divorce seven years ago but agreed to try and make thing work but I don't feel things have gotten much better. Am I wrong to feel this way? Does anyone have any advice?

2007-10-24 03:25:35 · 39 answers · asked by scared1 1

He has political clout and took her 5 and 8 year old to live with his married girlfriend. She hired a lawyer and filed in court but the judge will do nothing. She is a professor and economist. She is an upstanding person. No, there is no hidden secret. He is also trying to get her fired from her job by having asomeone follow her and question her students. Again, there is no hidden problem with her.

She has said that the system has failed her and she will just kill him and go to jail. What should I tell her? I already told her that she will probably fail and then he will laugh that she is insane as she sits in jail, still minus her children.

2007-10-24 03:16:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

and doesn't know that I know...I saw his credit card statement....one set of flowers was for me, but the other was not....should I confront him. He I am sure, sees nothing wrong about it.

2007-10-24 03:15:17 · 20 answers · asked by Wondering 1

Im a single male in my early thirties and I do not want to get married or have any kids ever. I dont want the financial burden. I dont want the responsibility, and I dont want the drama. The pain out weighs the pleasure. Can a man live a purposeful life with out a wife and just a girlfriend and no kids. And if so how ?

2007-10-24 03:10:54 · 22 answers · asked by Black Jack 1

My boyfriend of 3 years and I just got back together after a 3-month breakup. At the beginning of the three months things were kind of crazy. I started seeing someone else and my boyfriend started calling and emailing both me and the new guy. He was never threatening or anything like that - he just couldn't let go. Over time he calmed down and stopped that and I came to realize that I did still care about him. So I've agreed to try to work things out again. However, I feel like we should take it slow. I'm a little hesitant to tell people (family, coworkers) that I'm back with him. I guess mostly out of embarrasment over the past 3 months and how dramatic things had gotten for a while. We both have myspace pages and while he has posted many pictures of us on his and has announced how happy he is that we're back together, I am not ready to do the same. I don't know if it is fear or what, but I really want to take things slow this time. He is very hurt by my actions.

2007-10-24 03:08:25 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 6

Why did you get married?
Was it what you expected it to be?
Any Advice???

2007-10-24 03:01:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

She emailed me that it's now final, & she's really pleased to have closure. Help, I'm not sure of the etiquette here. Should I send a card? I really want to avoid saying the wrong thing, as i haven't been in her situation. What should I not say or write? I like them both, he's with a new partner, & she is dating. If I delay replying, she may feel I don't care or disapprove! I feel it's worked out well. But congratulations doesn't sound right. Well done, maybe, & good luck? If it was you, what would you appreciate hearing at this time?

2007-10-24 03:00:44 · 19 answers · asked by WomanWhoReads 5

My husband was (and is) alcoholic. He stop drinking now for 11 month but very often he is in bad mood instead of biing happy.Very often he is rude upset and very often he puts his bad mood on me almost every morning but later when I think I need to divorce him he calls from work apologise and he is so nice that I feel sorry for him and till everything go again I feel he sucks my blood like vampier Should I treat him like big hero that he is not drinking ore I should divorse him? Your opinion very important.I think I still love him but I don't think he loves me. We live together more than 10 years he is my second husband. We don't have children together we have property together.Sorry for my english still learning.

2007-10-24 02:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by lbelfer 4

I live with my boyfriend. We have been together almost two years now. Together we have four kids. It has been an ongoing issue that he doesnt help hardly at all with house work or the kids. He will do whatever housework I tell him to, but he is not a child, and I shouldnt have to tell him to do anything. What should I do?

2007-10-24 02:53:25 · 13 answers · asked by Sweet_Bama 2