Marriage & Divorce - 24 October 2007

I am in a loving relationship with the same man for the past 9 years. He recently lost his job and can not or will not perform in bed. But he spends his day's watching internet porn but will not touch me. WHY??? Can someone please explain this to me.

2007-10-24 08:14:49 · 22 answers · asked by chicoandbaby 2

me and my hubby been having issues abt him lying.AND i just had a baby 3 weeks ago. i left one day earlier than him to go to my parents house and he came after. so after 14 days we came home. i went online and he had deleted the history and changed the settings to 12 days.i know sumthing is up. so when he comes in the room i ask him u have one hour to come clean about the websites u visited or what u did online. i said i know where u been but want to hear from u. so he starts crying and begging me that he didn;t go anywhere. he was crying really bad. it was exactly like what he did when i caught hi couple of months earlier with his myspace account listing himself single. but this time he was like show me what u are taking about. i didn't go nowhere. the only thing i had was his temporary internet files. so i deleted his history before him to make him seem like i know alot. i am so lost, i am at fault too. i let his couple of loving words get to me. and i melt. i don't have no solid ...

2007-10-24 08:14:20 · 34 answers · asked by baby doll 1

I live in TN, I have 2 children with my soon-to-be ex-husband. I have seen a divorce attorney and all the papers have been signed, including the child support worksheet which showed what he was obligated to pay each month. I cannot go to court until I pay my lawyer the remaining $250 that I owe him, and as I haven't gotten any child support to date, I can't pay the attorney (I'm WAY behind on all my other bills)... My question is this: Even though I have a divorce lawyer who is also supposed to get me child support, can I go through human services or the DA's office and get child support that way instead of waiting?

2007-10-24 08:13:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

really care about it now nor do I but I think it will do you good to get off your chest.

2007-10-24 08:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by brady m 2

this is the deal-e-o, many people find that sex is the eye of their universe, but others see it as just a plus in their marriage. what do you see it as?

i personally dont think i have sex to live, but i do live to have sex (or make love as i call it). i love to make my hubby roll his eyes back in pleasure. its the most beautiful sight. he he he, and i dont agree in having sex with everyone just for the hell'o it, but i do feel that if you have feelings for this person why not?

whats your point?
hope you understood my q?" he he he .................its time to "say good by-e to my hubby" (wink*)

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2007-10-24 08:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

A woman cheated on her boyfriend. I knew about it and who she cheated with. She is now married to her boyfriend. The guy she cheated with was the DJ at her wedding reception. Is this bad luck for their wedding? Do you think it was wrong to hire the same person you cheated on your husband with as your DJ at your reception? Wouldn't you be uncomfortable?

2007-10-24 08:07:46 · 18 answers · asked by MixMatch 2

Anyone want to date someone out of their race, but is affaid of what your kids,family,friends..etc..might say about you doing so?

2007-10-24 08:05:36 · 16 answers · asked by gators gutt 1

2007-10-24 08:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Based on what I have seen here, I think it is! Sad......

If you have to ask what I'm talking about, forget it!

2007-10-24 07:57:39 · 17 answers · asked by Smooth Lyrics II 2

i broke up with my ex of 3 years a month ago...it ended really bad he said a lot of horrible things and it was just bad...i wrote a email to him i wasnt going to send it i just wanted to get my feelings down...and out of my head...i basicaly said i miss you but im at peace with my choice and i think we are both better off...that he hurt me alot but i learned from him that i will always think about him and miss him...then i sent it...he cant write me back i blocked his email and i change my number i just had to get out my feelings...he cant contact me but still was that completley stupied...my friends would be pissed if i told them i.... just had so much to say....did i do the right thing

2007-10-24 07:48:38 · 45 answers · asked by *Lovely 2* 2

For those of you who don't know what the dutch oven is, someone passes gas in bed, then shoves their s/o's head under the covers and holds them there. My husband does it to me almost every night, and I am so sick of it! It's disgusting! I can't get him to quit though! He even does it while I'm sleeping. What can I do to break this nasty tradition?

2007-10-24 07:48:07 · 28 answers · asked by dreamer - VT-AM 4

2007-10-24 07:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by me1234529 1

2007-10-24 07:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay my sister is married right. But the guy that she married is no good and I know this for a fact. He acts as though he does nothing but I know differently. He tries to keep things on the down low but he's cheating on his wife so should i tell her or stay out of it?????

2007-10-24 07:39:06 · 28 answers · asked by Realer_than_Reality 1

Most of teh answers I read made sense but there are still some morons that swear that 9 inches is "average". Do you people even know what 9 inches is? Take out a ruler and look? Medical studies and surveys show that average errect size is between 4 (small side) and 6 inches. Anything above 7 inches is considered large and pretty rare.

Again, look at a ruler before commenting!

2007-10-24 07:38:38 · 29 answers · asked by Smooth Lyrics II 2

my wife doesnt take care of me as she was having an affair before our marriage n left him as his family was not ready, we r married for 6 years but now i have realised that she's not worth for me as she's only passing time with me as i am rich, we have a 4 years old son, my mom n dad are 65 n 70 years old, they still work for the house, mom prepares food for all day n night but she doesnt helps her in that, mom n dad are getting down day by day n i am worried, i want a divorce now so that i can marry someone else who can care for them n for me, we r prepared if she takes the kid with her, i asked her for a divorce but shes not ready to leave the house, i cant stay with her n i decided with my mom n dad that i shud leave the house n live separately from her, i am now living in the same colony but separate from her, how can i get a divorce? i know that living separately for 6 months can help me, what shud i do after 6 months n how much time after that it will take in getting me the decre

2007-10-24 07:32:59 · 27 answers · asked by rahul s 1

he has made a "female" friend (he's a truck driver and claims she is too) and that they only talk on the phone. He said it's never been a sexual thing, only friends talking but, I know/knew about all of his friends but her. I had asked him about the name in his cell phone before and he said that "HE'S jsut a friend". So he'd originally lied about it before saying she was a man. I asked him why he'd not tell me about her and he said that he didn't think anything of it, that he didn't think i'd take it the right way (he's had female friends before and I did'n't care...i understand it's possible to be friends with someone of the opposite sex) What I got from the whole thing is that he was using her as someone to listen to him use me as a punching bag for his frustrations. He's the type of man that blames everything on anyone but himself and he's very burnt out on work and I can't work because we have too many kids that would need child care. Can't afford it.

2007-10-24 07:32:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband thinks our marriage is fine, but I want out and dont know how to tell him. Normally when I tell him something is wrong he blows up and walks out and cusses. I just want to leave. My mom says I can not leave until I tell him because he can get me for spousal support for walking out. I pay for everything in the house and give him money. He does not help out with anything and is in the military. He rather blow his money then help with bills and thinks I can cover it all which I cant. Someone please help me. I am not sure how to go about this, I have never done it before and I want to get all my things I paid for and get out FAST!!!!!!
I live in VA if it helps.

2007-10-24 07:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by kryddlez 1

It seems as though many of the people of yahoo answers advocate divorce, but as a person who believes in the vows I took it is hard for me to take that step. I have been married five years, with a four year old and one due in two months. My husband and I have been through numerous problems; cheating on his part, financial strain, the list goes on and on. We are in our sixth session of marriage counseling and have moved away from his side of the family to another state where my family resides. We are still arguing everyday, nonstop and can't stand each other. We moved here for a fresh start, but even though all of the terrible things he did in the past have stopped and he is more responsible and acting like more of a man, we still can't stand each other. 5 years, two children, I'm interested in people's opinions on how long we should keep this up?

2007-10-24 07:26:22 · 26 answers · asked by allie s 1

I met a guy 3months ago and we have been seeing each other 1/2 a week. I find it weird that he sold his house and went travelling a couple of years ago and now lives with his mum. He says he cant afford to get onto the property ladder or to rent a place. I have had a mortgage for my house for years and my son is in his teens. This guy I am seeing is in his 30's and seems keen to stay at my place but I don't want to give up my independence. I know it sounds mean but I would feel more comfortable if he was trying to gain his own independence first before things got more serious between us. He seems to have lived with his last 3 long term g/f and doesnt see it as an issue. Am I wrong to expect my b/f to move on from his mother.....

2007-10-24 07:24:42 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 3

but now she never does. We have been together for 2 1/2 years, in the first 6 months literally all the time, since we got married a year and a half ago twice. What do I do to get her to do it more?

2007-10-24 07:19:37 · 42 answers · asked by samualadams88 1

This is about a girl I care about. Her parents got divorced when she was five, and there are these two things (she's 27 now).

(a) She can't sustain an interest in anything for too long, including hobbies or relationships, and that's her biggest problem in life. Any ideas? (She doesn't want psychiatric help - she just wants some kind of starting point she can work on.)

(b) She has this nightmare that finds her waking up sweating: a burglar makes his way to her house and to her room. She pretends to be asleep. The burglar doesn't do anything to her. But he doesn't go away either. At some point in that tension, she wakes (sweating and with her heart beating way too fast).

Any ideas from any women - or even men? Anything at all to go by? I'm not usually emotional on Y! Answers, but I really care about this girl and want to help her!

Thank you for reading -

Der Wolfenmann

2007-10-24 07:16:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made reservations for both places but I am not sure where I should take him. I was reading the reviews on cuty search.com and saw a lot of negative review for the Hyatt Compass Restuarant like poor service and costly food for a 5 star restuarant, I mainly want to go to the Hyatt Compass Rest. for the view. The Outback I saw a lot of positive feedback like big portions not so much costly I am not sure on what I should do? I know my husband like big portion and a good steak. What one to do you recommend?

2007-10-24 07:15:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, here's the situation. a girl marries a guy. She's based abroad, he's not. He's had prior "experience" she has not. They were together a week, then she goes back abroad, and he stays in India. When she gets home, she's advised to go back and stay with her husband. She doesn't care for India, but is willing to begrudgingly go for the sake of her marriage. Her husband says not to come. There's nothing wrong in the marriage, but he knows her distaste, and how bored she will be. She asks him how he'll deal with his "frustrations" she's looking for ideas. He says he'll just deal with them by himself. She asked how he dealt with them prior to marriage...he said he's had help. She asks how he can deal w/o her or anyone now in marriage, when before, he needed others. He just says he deals and is faithful. What should she make of this? Mature answers welcome. I'm just not sue how a guy who's had relations before marriage can go w/o after marriage. Any thoughts and input welcome. thankls.

2007-10-24 07:11:09 · 20 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6

Or not love us?

How many people have purposely stopped doing things your spouse likes, because they NEVER do anything for you or that you like?

Isn't this training them to stop loving you?

2007-10-24 07:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

but then last night he says he's not sure that he's ready for marriage? We have been together over two and a half years...what should I do...if your gonna be mean please don't bother

2007-10-24 07:08:03 · 22 answers · asked by Heather 2

2007-10-24 07:06:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 16 and want out of my mothers house. i told my mom that i can move out because that is what my dad said. but she is telling my that i cant and he is filling my head with bullsh*t. i live in arkansas and i want to know if i can move out of my mothers house and into my fathers

2007-10-24 07:03:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you date a married woman. How far would you be willing to take it.?

2007-10-24 07:02:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

or if you are married and waited, do you wish you wouldn't have waited to have sex?

2007-10-24 06:47:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous