and doesn't know that I know...I saw his credit card statement....one set of flowers was for me, but the other was not....should I confront him. He I am sure, sees nothing wrong about it.
2007-10-24 03:15:17 · 20 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him about it with a copy of the credit card bill, be upfront with him and I am sure he will be upfront with you.
2007-10-24 03:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by mikeehr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what were the flowers for? If it was for her birthday or something, then I'm sure he wanted to do something nice and as a coworker, probably didn't know what to get her. Does he do this with a lot of friends? Is this the first time? I think, if it were me, I would ask my husband why he sent her flowers and see what he says. Then, go from there. It is hard to say much about it since we don't really have all the information.
2007-10-24 10:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe everyone at work was involved in getting the co worker some flowers. He could have just put them on his charge card and they reimbursed him with monies collected in the fund. While he was at the florist he may have thought of you and decided to buy some for you to show that he loves you? I am looking at the positive side of things here because if he has always been a good husband it could be on the up and up here? I would ask him kindly about the other order of flowwers sent to the co worker and ask him why they were sent to her. See what he has to say.....then decide from there if you believe his story or not. Good luck.
2007-10-24 10:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers are not for spouses only. They can be sent to relatives, friends, as a gesture to make an ill person feel okay. They can be sent for friendship, or any other reason. Spouses are not the only ones who are supposed to get flowers. The person can be an ex-coworker, ex-anything else. One thing about friendship "FRIENDS are Forever" marriage to one person does not eliminate friendship with others.
2007-10-24 10:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Housecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you see something financial or otherwise in your marriage that could potentially cause problems for you... speak up. It is always better to know than to let feelings fester or thoughts wander. If it was just a flower bouquet for someone who was not you... there could be a harmless explanation like someone was in the hospital, or had a baby.... just ask.
2007-10-24 10:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by vaughnc5920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could may be start by asking if someone from the office had a baby or got married. It could be something innocent. If he says no, then ask why he bought 2 bouquets and you only got one. Try not to be angry so he doesn't have a chance to get defensive and make you feel bad.
2007-10-24 10:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you know 100% that it was for an ex-coworker or is it speculation? If so, then yes, you need to talk to him about it. Communication is the key and making sure that whether he thinks it is wrong or not, it crosses the line for you and needs to be talked about.
2007-10-24 10:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Reagan '12 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course you should confront him! there is no reason that a married man should be sending flowers to any female besides a family member.
2007-10-24 11:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's was someones birthday, sick co-worker or something legitimate. If it was an affair he would have used cash to buy the flowers.
2007-10-24 10:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its definitly odd he's sending flowers to a co-worker.
did this person have surgery? a new baby? if not, then id suspect something was up.
people dont just send flowers for no reason. well at least my husband doesnt
2007-10-24 10:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah....why is he giving gifts to other women? Even IF he has a good excuse, he could of told you "O I sent so and so flowers from us today, her mom died"...but he didn't so you should ask him about it...
2007-10-24 10:27:33 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋