Marriage & Divorce - 22 October 2007

2007-10-22 17:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 17:33:01 · 40 answers · asked by shottareds 1

2007-10-22 17:24:56 · 24 answers · asked by shottareds 1

When they get married do they take it one day at a time or do they see themselves with that person for the rest of their lives?

2007-10-22 17:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by ar_angel_2003 1

I know someone that is seeing a married man that she knew in high school. 14 years later, he looks her up, contacts her even though he is married an has been for four years. he says he's not happy and he and his wife are not on the same page A LOT. he does everything he can for the "mistress." Always there for her in any way he can be. They have long daily conversations, and so forth and so on. But, he says he's not planning to leave his wife. What's his point?

2007-10-22 17:04:42 · 23 answers · asked by ana c 1

Its hard to keep the bills paid because he will blow his whole 900 dollar paycheck in 2days!! then he lies when he says he sends me money for the bills and i can check and see he didnt!! we arent even married yet is this a sign???

2007-10-22 17:02:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering if I am the only one whose husband reverts back to a 'little boy' when he gets sick or hurt. You'd think he was dying, even from a common cold. It's like I have to turn into 'mommy' and wait on him hand and foot.

Also, when you are sick how does he treat you? Do you get pampered or does he expect you to go on with 'business as usual'?

2007-10-22 17:01:20 · 19 answers · asked by pussycat 5

I'm 25 and just got a divorce a month ago. We were married for 5 years. My ex-husband had a bad temper, couldn't hold down a job (he got into arguments with every boss he had) , we fought all the time, he was married twice before and just became unbearable to be with. He would snap in a second.

I'm happy to be free and to be able to find the right person for me. I want children some day with a man that share my goals and values in life. Will ever find him? I feel like nobody will want someone that is divorced--like I'm "damaged goods" or something.

I'm so lonely but feel like I should be alone for a while. How can I get over feeling like a failure and a loser? Do other people see me that way?

2007-10-22 16:57:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

and there's the fact that he is much older than me & not as educated as I am. So u can see how it is like for me...anyway i like this guy whose wife is a part time model...she's so fair & pretty and it hurts when he ignores me, I wear halters and short skirts and yet he ignores me.

2007-10-22 16:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by Ebony Shand 1

I've been divorced from my ex-husband for a year already, I do have another boyfriend, and he is very,very, good to me, and my children. The thing is, I keep thinking about my ex. I know that I still love him, and I really miss him and the things we used to do as a family. It just didn't work out between us because he was too tight w/money, and he flirted too much in front of me, I can just imagine what he did behind my back. He was a touchy, touchy, huggy, huggy, person. And he flirted sooo much, he knew how uncomfortable that made me, however, he said that I knew how he was when we met.
We were together for 12 years, and we have 3 children together, please help, I get sooo confused, that I really do miss him, then he just really pisses me off sometimes!!
Please help!

2007-10-22 16:48:37 · 21 answers · asked by cool30mom 1

I am married and my husband has heard how one of my co workers behaves around me. Ex: He touches my nose with a paper just playing around, pushes me, stares with a smile and textes work related questions (not too often) when I'm off and always likes to know who I'm chating with in the computer. I think he's just playful but my husband thinks he wants something. Do you think my husband is right in getting upset even when I am not the one playing around? My husband used to work here and has friends who tell him how the guy acts

2007-10-22 16:38:13 · 43 answers · asked by Lillian Angelina's proud mom 5

i want no mistakes. might as well, its hell either way

2007-10-22 16:28:08 · 20 answers · asked by just hanging around 5

My parents are in the middle of a divorce, and yesterday night my dad packed up his bags and left us.
He's never really been much of a dad, and I barely ever saw him because he always came home late at night.
I don't even remember him coming on any vacations with us.
He was always watching TV or working.
I found out over the Summer that this is his 3rd marriage, and also I've found out a lot of other stuff.
I feel like I really hate him for leaving us and never being a real dad....
I don't know...
How can I get rid of my hatred?
I know it's not good for me and it can cause me stress, especially since I just switched schools.
I don't know what to do.

2007-10-22 16:25:32 · 9 answers · asked by charlotte 4

2007-10-22 16:18:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

He told me "I'm going to marry you someday" and he constantly says that! Then he said "you know i'm going to secretly propose to you at the calgary stampede" i'm not sure if he was being serious or not but i just started laughing, what do you think he means? if he is gonna secretly do it at the stampede its not a secret anymore!

So with your experience what does it mean? Is it just because we're in love or is he getting more serious?

2007-10-22 16:15:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

By the way, she and her husband are in policing agencies so, there you have, what would you do, think AL Green and Grits! Gritball!, its a slow revenge, she is well aware of her rights regarding prosecution but it isnt that easy when you work in the county remember how dangerous leaving is, so be gentle in you response, and if your a smart a zz, I dont think it'll really create anything more than laughter

2007-10-22 16:14:14 · 23 answers · asked by defenseonly 3

2007-10-22 16:10:52 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the best way for me to stop thinking about my X.. i can't take a holiday right now cause im busy at work but i just cant stop thinking about her

2007-10-22 16:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by CFC 1

My husband has cheated not sure how many times. Sex is ok with him, but I don't trust him and so, I can't get into it. Don't want to divorce, we can get along. More like room mates. I have tried to rekindle the flame, but he doesn't seem to listen to what I need. I don't know what to do. I'm not really sure he would care if I cheated, then it would give him an excuse. I'm so confused. HELP! If you want you can e-mail me through yahoo if you don't want to post.

2007-10-22 15:55:41 · 14 answers · asked by Christina 1

If you would still have divorced would you have done it sooner.

2007-10-22 15:52:21 · 21 answers · asked by scout1567 2

last night when my mother and i came home from bingo, we caught my husband with the babysitter. we came home early because momma wanted to get more money. imagine my shock when we walked in and the kids were running wild and my husband's truck was in the driveway and he and the babysitter were nowhere to be seen. me and momma walked outside to go out to the shed (that's where momma hides her money) and there he was...with our babysitter. it's not as it seems...our babysitter is 72 years old! omg...i nearly puked. and the scary part is ...he was sober! they were at it so hot and heavy that they didn't hear me and momma screaming!!! should i fire the babysitter??

2007-10-22 15:47:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I committed an adultery 2 years ago which I regretted very much.Though my hubby has forgiven me, we still have problems in the sexual realm.It has been a great struggle for me as he loves me very much but I don't.I wish someone can help me with this one-sided relationship.It has become a phobia for me when he asks for sex.I really have no desire for that with him yet I feel so guilty for not fulfiling my role as a wife.Every minute of sex with him is such an ordeal to me as I have no feelings for him at all.I am depressed and trapped.Yet, I know I cannot divorce.He would never agree to that.Please help.

2007-10-22 15:37:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

First she puts her arm behind my head [she never hurt me but she held *tight*] then she starts kissing me. I froze [I spoke of my wife about 100 times with her and I spoke of my wife that night]. Anyhows, so I froze. So she sticks her tongue in my mouth. |I didn't know what to do so I kind of hoped it would all just go away. [ostrich/ head in sand kind of thing] *But* I'm not made of stone and she is a woman so after a little while [and I was pissed], after a little while her womanliness was starting to have effect on me...... The she grabs me by the hand and pulls me out of the bar [into the hall], she pushed me against a wall and then she slipped her hand down the front of my boxer shorts...... Then, I politely told her [or begged her] no.. First she ignored me and kept on doing it then I said again and she heard. [Well I lifted her head and gently made her look in my eyes]. Then she stopped.

Then she promptly fell asleep. Obviously pissed and I make no value judgements.

But, A,

2007-10-22 15:15:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

the only way u can exit is by sleeping with one of ur family members excluding ur wife/husband.

2007-10-22 15:10:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My new military spouse has order to move out-of-state. I'm in the process of informing my ex-husband of our move. We have 3 children. He was fine with it a year ago when we divorced and signed the decree saying that I could remove the kids out of state. Now he says I am not leaving the state with our kids. The kids are ages 4,6 & 8 and they have been with me since day one. He says that he will get custody or at least 50/50 (which he says is me giving him the kids all school year and me taking them in the summer, doesn't sound like 50/50 to me). He said that he will take a loan out and pay whatever it takes to win. My kids love him but all three want to stay with me. Plus his wife has custody of her two kids, so my kids would have to adjust to living with them. There are no other kids in our household. Has anyone else been through a similar situation? Can anyone give me advice? Is there anything that I should know to watch out for or do to ensure the kids will stay with me?

2007-10-22 15:08:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He jumps over stuff when trying to get somewhere fast, and often wears things that don't match. I've tried to help, and he thinks I'm trying to change him. I just want him to act more like an adult. I don't think wearing tube socks with dress shoes is cool, and sometimes people see him hop over a chair and see that I'm embarrassed. These are only a couple of things. Otherwise, he's a very mature man. Should I be upset at his behavior?

2007-10-22 15:01:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a child back in high school though never married my old high school boyfriend. We broke up a long time ago & I've raised my child alone & took on all the financial responsibilities. My ex sees our child once or twice a month if that. He pays child support now since I took him to court. My question is, my child has my ex's last name. After I had him in the hospital I was really out of it & I guess I supposable agreed to give our child his name. I've hated it all these years ever since they told me in the hospital what the birth certificate said. I was told years ago that I either had to wait to my child was 12 or get my ex's permission to change it & my ex would never agree to it. My child is still a few years away from 12 but is there anything I can do now? My child & I have been patiently waiting to have the same last name. Do we really need to continue to wait?

2007-10-22 15:01:17 · 3 answers · asked by Tess 1

2007-10-22 14:57:16 · 20 answers · asked by Teach 3

I'm curious, of those that have lost their virginity before marriage. Did you marry the first person you had sex with?? and do you regret giving it up? thanks people!

2007-10-22 14:57:04 · 18 answers · asked by hurley59gurl 2

full on pajamas around the house in the evening...to bed. when i say full on pjs...bottoms and "night"shirt....

2007-10-22 14:53:40 · 16 answers · asked by vycki n 5